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how can i ask my perents ?


Question Posted Saturday June 6 2009, 5:49 pm

i love some1 & he also love's me a lot & these perents accept me before 1 year, but my perent is too much strick in love relation, i also love my perent i can't leave any one .i can't leave with out my perent's & my lover . im very tence & i can't marri another one . my lover is perfact he earn good his family is also good & he is same stateus , but THESE R IN DIFFERENT CASTE these i mean problem . how can i say these relationship ? with my perents i my warried before 3 years & i m soo tense what can i do? i don't want to hurt my perents but i can't leave my lover(i m from india)
&im pandit &he is panjabi these is mean probleam is caste


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lunadewdrop answered Sunday June 7 2009, 1:33 am:
ok try this out dont rush in with it act like their dogs i am not trying to be rudd but that is what came to me first so sorry but as i was saying dogs cant just eat randome food they have to eat their reguler food or they will become sick but if you take their old food and their new food and mix it togather for a while they will get use of the new food and be able to eat it so if you intorduce him little by i think they might learn or start to like him.

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RespectLifexo answered Saturday June 6 2009, 7:33 pm:
Hello,
I'm punjabi, and i'm from India, so i understand your problem. My family also has problems with castes so i understand what you are going through. This is a tense situation because your parents are used to these traditions and if you break them, they would be upset. All i could tell you is to follow your heart. If you love him, and know he is the one, you have to fight for your rights to marry him. Yes your parents will be very angry, and they may not talk to you after, but you have to decide what you want. You need to make your parents understand that he is a good guy even though he is in another caste. Indian parents are very stubborn, i know, i deal with them. You just have to make your parents understand, that is all you can do. Somehow you need to convince them to look past the caste systems. IF you have any more questions, you can post a question into my inbox. Good luck with everything, i know you will make the right decision.

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