hi, im 14 year old girl.
me and my EX boyfriend are still in love.. i know its kinda weird but were like best friends.
recently he told me he was moving and it hurt to know that. he wrote me this love letter and did all this really cute stuff for me and he told me he still loved me and everything he ever said to me was true, he said im the only special girl in his life. well i found out that he's been talking to another one of his ex's who i DONT get along with at all.. shes a year younger than me. so, me and this kid got into a fight because i heard that she was talking bad about me and him and he doesn't care. so i got mad at him and then he was like.. it shouldn't matter becuase i love you and only you even though me and the girl are friends so i said okay whatever and then i find out that he told the other girl that he loves her! im heartbroken.. he's leaving in 5 days and we're still fighting.. i need help.. bad.. i can't let him leave knowing that im mad but im also a jealous person.. i NEED to get over him.. no matter HOW HARD it is.. please return with advice
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? lavender_chika16 answered Monday December 11 2006, 4:26 pm: Most guys think its annoying when girls get jealous. It makes them think that the girl feels as though he is her property. Try not to get so jealous when you see him talking to other girls, just try to ignore it, if possible. Another you should do is approach the boy, and apologize to him. If you still have feelings for him, tell him about those as well. You'll find that it will only get easier for you to get over him once he finds out how you feel. If the two of you still have feelings for each other, however, make sure you keep in touch with him after he moves. Try not to act as though you think might be cheating on you. Trust him, and overcome your jealously, then your life will be much easier. [ lavender_chika16's advice column | Ask lavender_chika16 A Question ]
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