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im 16 going to 17 soon , and my boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year now. The first time when we had sex was on our 4 meet up we used condom and so on... however we love having sex it gives us some beautiful feeling but we dont use condom anymore like it feels amazing without it, but im so scared to get pregnant however i did wanna have a baby with him but oh gosh my parents will freak out. I love sex , but i love doing it with him he was my firt ... but i told him i done it with two guys before . Strangest thing was when i lost my virginity to him i didnt bleed lool.. is that okay? please help :) (link)
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You don't mention if you are using the pill or not. If you aren't, get on it ASAP. If you are, and are using it properly, and trust him not to have an STD then you don't really need condoms. Otherwise, ask yourself if the difference in pleasure between using one or not is worth the risk of pregnancy. You can always get the ultra thin or the fire and ice ones or something.
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I'm with this girl who I have been trying to get with for a while. She has on occasion mentioned giving head to other guys in the past nonchalantly, which makes me jealous.
I'm usually doing the work in the bed, and she wont ever finish me off/give me head. We've had sex... but I sort of have a fetish with handjobs/blowjobs... why if she likes me as much as she said give me a blowjob, while shes given other guys blowjobs? I mean, I treat her better than anyone else, I shave down there, take care of my hygiene, and have an average penis.
It bothers me a lot to know that I have to work so hard to get so little when others worked so little to get so much. Can someone help me get over this? or fix this? or advice at all?
It makes me feel like i'm not worth so much because she wont put forth the effort to please me anywhere near the level she has other guys. (link)
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You mention putting forth effort like it's supposed to help. In a relationship (any relationship, not just romantic) there is a giver and a taker. In romantic relationships in particular, if a girl doesn't particularly like giving blowjobs, she might do it if she thinks needs to in order to keep a guy because she is the giver she might. If you are already putting forth all the effort into the relationship, you are the giver and she knows it. Just my cynical opinion.
Oh, and how far someone is willing to go with you sexually is actually a pretty bad gauge of how much they like you.
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Okay i like this guy and we make out alot. i seem to turn him on just being there. But he wants to have sex and im not ready. If i tell him im not ready will that turn him off? And a blow job that seems too far. but i still want him to like me and i wanna make him feel good :) (link)
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Being turned on is the biological response to thinking sex could happen soon. Telling him you aren't ready pretty much by definition will turn him off. You don't have to do anything you aren't comfortable with. If he likes you for you, he will wait until you are ready, and if he doesn't a blowjob or even sex won't really change that, it'll just delay the inevitable and you are better off without him.
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what do you think guys like more, bjs or handies? and when in a relationship would be the right time to do this? (link)
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Bjs. We can pretty much give ourselves handies. As for the right time, well that's really up to you and your boyfriend.
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Okay, so a while ago our laptop was infected with a virus, apparently from something called limewire, but it was deleted and our laptop was clean. Well, this evening my sister was on facebook and she also got onto this site, I don't know exactly what it's called, maybe Live Lobby Chat or something along those lines? Well, she was just going about her business when all of a sudden, it shut down on her and the screen came up saying WARNING YOUR COMPUTER HAS BEEN INFECTED! And it's trying to sell us a virus protection software, which we can't afford at all.
Is it because of that chat site my sister was on? Or maybe something else? (link)
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Most likely it's just a popup advertising a fake antivirus program. Just close it, make sure to use the actual close button, a lot of these popups have a fake close button near where the real one is that's still part of the ad, so when you click it you go to their site. There are lot's of free antivirus programs out there. http://www.avg.com/ is a good one.
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how do you know if a guy cummed inside you? (link)
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If the guy stops thrusting, and you can't find the cum anywhere, it's inside you.
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what are civil violations? are they the same thing as civil rights violations? (link)
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No. A civil violation is a violation of non criminal city codes, most examples I can think have to do with driving laws like speeding.
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I need to know my composite SAT score for a scholarship application.
My scores are:
Critical Reading: 660
Math: 650
Writing: 620
I've heard that the composite is all three scores, and also that it's only the critical reading and math. (For instance, on one college app it lists my composite as 1310, not 1930). Can anyone lead me to a site or to someone who knows with absolutely certainty? (link)
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Your composite score is your 3 scores added together, the writing section was added a few years ago, so I guess its possible some schools are still not factoring it into their calculations (in which case your score is a reasonable impressive 1310/1600) but they really should be.
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Ok, I am a 15 year old girl, I'm homeschooled and Ive liked this guy at my church for over 2 years. He seems like hes flirting all the time, he stares at me constantly and when i look back at him sometimes he looks away quickly and sometimes he keeps eye contact and smiles. In our church youth group he always sits near me, at summer camp he left his group of friends to come sit next to me every day. He makes me laugh all the time. Im the only girl he acts like this towards. Hes a year older than me, and i went to the same prom as his sister, and when he came to pick up his sis he asked me to dance, and i was the only one he asked. We talk all the time but were not like close friends or anything. The thing is, he has a girlfriend. Theyve been together almost a month, but other than updating his relationship status on facebook he never even mentions her at all. Im stuck, any advice?? Thanks :) (link)
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Well he clearly liked you, thought you didn't like him back, and asked someone else out a month ago. Wait till they break up and then tell him you like him,
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Hello my question is how do i dress up as a sexy vampire. my town is having a valentines day vampire day bascially. im a female age 21 and i dont want to spend a lot of money at all. the reason i am so concerned is because i will be getting pictures taken and modeling my costume so id like to look good. ive never had my pictures taken by a professional. any ideas would be great! Thank You (link)
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Go to your local party city or similar store and buy a 25 cent pair of vampire teeth. Put on the most revealing black lingerie you are willing to wear in public and the teeth. You could add on some black eyeshadow and some red from the mouth or cover yourself in glitter depending on your taste of vampires. Sexy girl costumes really just come down to that, there will probably be a lot of others that think the same way.
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I recently got a TI-89 Titanium and I really like it. The one thing I don't like is that I can't find the y1 variable. On other calculators it is right under the variables key but I don't have one of those. It should just be a y1 that I can enter into programs and such. Any help would be great! thanks (link)
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Well on the 89, you can just type y1, presumably the titanium is the same.
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I recieved a large bottle of vodka for christmas but I don't like it straight. I want to know some things I can mix with it and make shots out of it and to make it a little less harsh. Thanks so much and have a good new year. (link)
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A girly shot? That's kinda difficult, kinda the point of a shot is that it's harsh, there are plenty of girly non-shot drinks you can make, but pretty much the only way you are gonna make a good shot is by pouring like half vodka and half fruit juice. Cranberry juice mixes with vodka pretty well, as does orange juice.
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Okay, so I've been on the pill for over six months now.
Maybe two weeks ago, my boyfriend and I were in the shower, and he came near my vagina. I don't know how much of it got on me.
A week after that, I missed my period (I usually get it for a day or two during the inactive pills, but this time it was just a lot of discharge).
How likely is it that I'm pregnant? I know that there's almost no chance if you take the pill regularly, but I have been missing it around that time (I always took it no later 12 hours after I missed it, but still).
Logic tells me that I shouldn't be pregnant, but I'm freaking out. Is there a big chance? I'm stressing out because I'm way too YOUNG. When do I buy a pregnancy test? What are my options? (link)
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Define near? And what did you do to make him cum? Pretty important details there, but yeah there's a chance. Just buy a pregnancy test and work from there.
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So I just got out of a two year relationship that started my junior year of High School. I took it with me to college, all through 1st semester, and now during break I knew it was time to end it. It was a very unstable/unhealthy relationship for both of us. It took a lot out of me, and its been a long time since I've been myself. I'm happy to start discovering who I am again.
However, during my 1st semester in college I have become friend with a few new guys, two of which specifically seem to have fallen in love with me.
They are both so different, yet they are both very good friends of mine, both wonderful in their own way, and both very in love with me. Obviously not in love, but very infatuated I should say. One of them tells me stuff like: you light up my day, are very special to me and changed my views and are the most beautiful person ive ever seen.
This is all over the whole time I've known him. Hes just so sweet to me. The other one is brilliant and has helped me so much, but I always hear from people that know him that he loves me. We have fantastic talks.
My problem now is I don't know what to do with these boys. I know they are both going to try to get closer to me now that they know im single once school starts back up. And I don't mind that I love having guy friends but how close can I allow them to get before they start demanding more. I love them both dearly but I am not even close to being ready for a new relationship. I am rediscovering who I am, and I worry that the more I am friends with them the more they will want.
How should I handle this situation as to make sure to still keep my friendships, but not have to be put in a situation where I have to choose a relationship? (link)
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Well yeah you're right, at some point one or both will probably want something more, though I'm much more keen on the word request rather than demand. Here's the thing, guys tend to be far better at handling this sort of awkwardness than girls are. If one of them comes onto you, and you say that you aren't ready for a relationship but would like to stay friends, he's gonna take it to heard and make a genuine attempt. Sure, you might notice him lingering an extra second or two on a hug, but as long as you were being genuine about being friends and don't let things get awkward on your end the friendship should survive.
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Alright, me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex last night. I guess it was the "heat of the moment" or just that moment. I know it wasn't smart, and I know it's unsafe. I understand that plan b cannot be used as birth control, but I took it to lower the risks of getting pregnant. I know not using condoms do not protect you from STD's, I understand that.
I basically just want to know, if there is a high chance of me getting pregnant? I know there's a chance, but just curious if I'm safe enough on not getting pregnant.
I took plan b three hours after having sexual intercourse, but I took plan b a month ago when the condom broke before. Should I be okay? (link)
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Did you have your period between uses? It loses effectiveness if used more than once during the same cycle. If you have had it, the rate of failure if taken within 12 hours is only .5% so you should be fine.
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are there any online coupons that anyone knows about that i can use at the buckle?
i've looked online but i havent had any luck.
(please only show me ones that you KNOW will actually work in the store. haha. :) )
thank you! (link)
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Never shopped there, so I can't test, but here are coupon sites I have good experiences with in general.
http://www.ebates.com/rf.do?referrerid=CXeN96vYs6Nsvav9M4yZZA%3D%3D has coupons for many sites, including the buckle. Right now the only one is for a free tshirt with order, but you also get 3% cashback on all your purchases at the end of the quarter. Also, they add/remove coupons pretty often so if you aren't in a rush you can wait to see if something better comes up.
http://www.retailmenot.com/view/buckle.com though the ones for the buckle don't seem to work for people very often.
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My questions are...
1) what I'd the best laptop brand? DON'T SAY DELL OR APPLE. Apple Is to expensive and I don't want a Dell. I like hp laptops but I need experiances with them. I reall want an hp though.
2) what is the bes. Hp laptop that costs under 450.00? Hp ibknow has one but wht is the best one on thief webiste yo get that is under that price?
3) {kindof like question 2} what I the best laptop under 450.00 from the folowing brands?
-hp
-acer
-toshiba
-intell
-Asus
-logitech
I am not sure but as long as it has a WEBCAM AN IS 450.00$ or under.! :)
4) which laptop do YOU recommend ??
Ifyou can answer any of these questions with a good answer I'll rate you...!!! :) please answer seriosly and don't say I am not going to find a good laptop for this amount of money. Just respect what I have asked please. Thanks very much! :) (link)
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I've had the best experiences with HP. AS for the best laptop, well the thing is it matters what YOU need and want. At 450, you are definitely gonna be cutting off a lot of frill.
This is the laptop I got for work recently:
http://www.shopping.hp.com/webapp/shopping/computer_can_series.do?storeName=computer_store&category=notebooks&a1=See+all&v1=series&series_name=G62m_series&jumpid=in_R329_prodexp/hhoslp/psg/notebooks/All_laptop_&_tablet_PC_series/G62m_series
I definitely feel like I got my money's worth, and you can customize it a bit if there is something else you want. There is a webcam, but I haven't used it yet so not sure about the quality. Some general advice though, RAM is the most important spec, get 3 gigs at the very least, 4 if you can. Hard drive space is the least important, because it is the easiest thing to upgrade.
Also, this site: http://www.ebates.com/rf.do?referrerid=CXeN96vYs6Nsvav9M4yZZA%3D%3D
has lots of nice coupons and discounts, the ones for HP tend to be particularly good, if you are willing to wait for a few days for a good coupon to come up, you can save upwards of $300 and get a much better laptop for your budget of $450.
Webcam is decent, nothing to write home about but it gets the job done.
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We have been rather close friends for a long time. Always fun and silly and perhaps flirtatious, but always just friends. I rarely get to talk to him this year because we dont have classes together, he doesnt have a cell phone, nd his parents are fairly strict. But I like him now and how do I tell him indiscretly how i feel for him now? And if i asked him to hang, since we are friends, would that be to desperate? And i dont want to lose him as a friend help me please! (link)
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If you haven't hung out in a while, try the group of friends first, but try to transition into hanging out just the two of pretty quickly to send the right message. Guys generally don't have a friend zone, and are pretty good at not being awkward after a failed attempt at starting a relationship, so at least that should be some comfort in case he doesn't like you back. If you are friends though, don't expect him to 'get' your signals, you may well have to make the first move.
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Hello i won a raffle recently that said i got a free 1 hour massage from a certain chiropractic office. I've had a regular massage at a spa, and i was wondering what the difference was if there is between a regular back/tissue massage and a chiropractic massage?
Thanks (link)
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Regular massages focus on relaxing you, and you have more control over what happens. A chiropractic massage. while having some focus on relaxing you are more about making sure your spine is where it should be. Expect to be pulled into a few uncomfortable positions, and a possibly some pushing down to crack your spine and push it into alignment if you have problems. You'll still feel relaxed afterward though.
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Where can I buy parking permit stickers sold individually like this...
http://i99.photobucket.com/albums/l309/hopeheaven1/imagejpeg_2_71.jpg (link)
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http://www.myparkingpermit.com/Parking-Permits/WindowCling-with-Numbering/SKU-PP-2012.aspx
You have to buy at least 50 though.
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