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I fell for my friend
We have been rather close friends for a long time. Always fun and silly and perhaps flirtatious, but always just friends. I rarely get to talk to him this year because we dont have classes together, he doesnt have a cell phone, nd his parents are fairly strict. But I like him now and how do I tell him indiscretly how i feel for him now? And if i asked him to hang, since we are friends, would that be to desperate? And i dont want to lose him as a friend help me please!
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If you haven't hung out in a while, try the group of friends first, but try to transition into hanging out just the two of pretty quickly to send the right message. Guys generally don't have a friend zone, and are pretty good at not being awkward after a failed attempt at starting a relationship, so at least that should be some comfort in case he doesn't like you back. If you are friends though, don't expect him to 'get' your signals, you may well have to make the first move.
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Since you guys are friends there wouldn't be anything wrong with asking him to hang out. But maybe to make it less awkward you should have a group of your friends go somewhere and ask him to come along. Maybe a movie or something he'd be interested in going to. If you guys do that enough and he seems happy and you two get along then you guys should make plans to hang out, just you two. Be like, "It was so much fun doing this, ect. We should go/do this Saturday" Tell him he's fun to hang out with, ect. Then see where things go from there. Good luck!
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