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having unsafe sex but it feels so good
im 16 going to 17 soon , and my boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year now. The first time when we had sex was on our 4 meet up we used condom and so on... however we love having sex it gives us some beautiful feeling but we dont use condom anymore like it feels amazing without it, but im so scared to get pregnant however i did wanna have a baby with him but oh gosh my parents will freak out. I love sex , but i love doing it with him he was my firt ... but i told him i done it with two guys before . Strangest thing was when i lost my virginity to him i didnt bleed lool.. is that okay? please help :)
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You need to start using a condom, Just because you aren't pregnant now doesn't mean it won't eventually happen. Sure, It feels great without a condom but reality is you are 16 years old and you are not ready for a child. If you think your parents would freak out...Don't you think there is a good reason for it? If you want to have sex then use protection, Be SMART! Not using a condom is an extremely irresponsible thing and you know it. End of lecture
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You don't mention if you are using the pill or not. If you aren't, get on it ASAP. If you are, and are using it properly, and trust him not to have an STD then you don't really need condoms. Otherwise, ask yourself if the difference in pleasure between using one or not is worth the risk of pregnancy. You can always get the ultra thin or the fire and ice ones or something.
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Every contraceptive carries a small risk of failing. Apparently condoms are effective for 97% of the time. Using both condoms and birth control, as is commonly used, is safer to avoid unwanted pregnancies. As long as you're on some sort of contraceptive you should be okay.
Condoms are also very effective in avoiding unwanted STI/STD's etc. so make sure you both get tested and cleared if you want to carry on without the use of condoms. You can never be too careful.
Many girls dont bleed or feel any pain, some experience a significant amount of pain, some bleed a little and others more. And many times it takes a few tries to be pain and blood free. It all varies on the person. It depends on the girl. The fact that you didn't bleed is perfectly normal.
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