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life , stress , friends , family
I like to do alot ι wanna be α singer when ι get older and. α dancer , but my lifee mad fuuckedd up and my family and fake ass friendss ..... My question is should ι start smokingg ? Smokingg weeed ? To takee the pain away because people act like they dont care but ι still dont wanna give up on my dreams but ιts like fuck everybody idc about them but this pain and stess hurt / depression ...... But iam α strong person .... & iam 15 .....
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It's good that you don't wanna give up on your dreams but from personal excperience I don't think that you should smoke weed becouse it dosn't really take the pain away it may while you are high but when you are not high anymore the pain will come back. plus there are so many consequences of smoking weed. Alot of people don't think weed is addictive but actually it is very addictive. If you get caught smoking by the law you can get into big legal trouble. It can cause damnage on your lungs make it hard for you to breathe and cause you to cough. people will also use you for weed and pretty soon you will find out you have no real friends. It impairs your judgement not just for time you are stoned. It makes communication with you difficult if not impossible. People also lace weed to even stronger drungs. It may cause your memory to go to downhill. It can also can mental health problems such as depression and cause you to get more irritable when you don't have weed in your system. If they find weed in your system or any kind of drug for that matter when you try to find a job they will not hire you. Research has shown that it also kills brain cells. It lowers your self esteem and makes you want to lay around and do nothing. It also makes you forget your dreams and goals. Iam sorry my answer was so long but I just don't want you to make the same mistakes that I have please don't pick up the habit also it costs alot of money and at only 15 you don't have the money to support the habit and can't get a decent job.
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Part of growing up is dealing with difficult situations and interpersonal relationships. You need to learn how to positively deal with negative emotions be it distractions and immersing yourself in something youre really passionate about, such as dance, and getting your feelings out to someone you trust. Open up to people.
The people that are treating you badly havent a right to do so and you have every right to call them upon it. Communicate with them and try to resolve the problem. If your friends still dont treat you right or have no respect or care for yourself and your friendship then you're best without them. You dont need people like that in your life.
As for your family - we all have family problems of a varying extent. Though we can't always fix them entirely we can learn to deal wth them and try to improve things. Again the key is communicating with your family. Approach your parents and talk to them about family situations and how youre feeling. let them be there for you.
There are many things that we need to deal with in every aspect of our life and it's all part of growing up. You need to learn how to deal in a positive way. Weed, other drugs, alcohol and abusing other substances wont resolve any situation. In the end it just makes you reliant on a substance to take your pain away and with or without drugs, you're going to need to face your problems some time. Look them head of and tackle them in an assertive manner.
Weed also has links to mental ill health as well as paving the way to other harder substances. There is nothing positive in negative escapism and dependence. This is life and its part of growing up. You just gotta learn like the rest of us. Dont risk your future and your health. At the end of the day it's just not worth it.
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honestly, ive been the same way before. i love singing but i have majot stage fright so i dought ill become famous. never ever ever ever ever do drugs! EVER. those will ruin you like hell. and then you could end up with cancer which isnt fun. i haave heart cancer and it sucks but im pretty strong myself. i always think people dont care either. i dont have a friend i can trust with everything! i wish i did but i just hold everything in which is where the hurt comes from. you also, should pray about it! it will hellp sooooo much! i can help you out so please inbox me back!
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