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Should we break up?
Hi, i jusst wanted to know if me and my 2 week old boyfriend should break up? This all started today when i sat on his knee (its ok im 16) and he said that i farted..... and i didnt!!! The second thing is thaat he touched my friends boob. The third thing is that when i was going up the stairs at school he said that i should get my "big butt" out of his face!! i was like WTF! shut the hell up! and when we were going to leave, he just said bye. not love you. just bye. we usually say i love you before we leave to go home. but he didnt today. He is always embarrising me infrount of my friends and im not liking it :( he is a sweet guy though and very romantic. but is this just a bump in the road in our relationship or should i make it a standstill thing?? so do you think i should dump him or not?? (sorry this is soo long i just had to get all the details so that i can get a honest answer) so thanx :D
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I think that you should give it a few more days. If he continues to act like this, especially not saying ''I love you" you should break up with him. I think that in the beginning he was in love with you, but then he met your friends and now he might be trying to impress one of them. I do not mean to upset you, but it is better to not let your heart get broken by him later than sooner. I would like to know how he acts in three days, please email me on AskAliceMadisson@hotmail.com. I give professional advice. If you don't trust me please go to my temporary website www.askalicemadisson.webstarts.com.
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Hey(: I think you should give it a little more time you have just started your relationship, but if he keeps doing that I think you should talk with him and ask him why he is saying or doing what hes doing and if that dont work then you should break up. From what you say he says and does that sounds like a jerk in a way but I would give it a little more time and if he keeps doing it talk it over and if that don't do good you should probally break up. I hope I helped(: good luck!
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You two have only been dating for 2 weeks, Everyone is different but in my opinion that is a bit quick to say I love you too someone. Relationships take work and the main key of working it out and keeping it strong is too communicate with one another. Don't dump him over something that is an easy fix, If he embarrasses you in front of your friend then let him know. Also, Even if you did pass gas on his lap if he was mature enough he would laugh it off. Not hold it against you and as to second...Touching your friends inappropriately is unacceptable. You two are dating therefore he should be committed to you. However, If you really want the honest answer..He sounds a bit immature.
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You've been two weeks and already youre telling eachother you love eachother?
Lets look at the reality of this situation. You're a new couple and youre getting to know one another. All relationships are faced with problems, little or small. The main thing is communication. Talk about your problems with each other, little or small. hes not a mind reader and neither are you.
If he does something that hurts or offends you then tell him so! But do so in a respectable manner, not condescendingly.
You cant expect to be in a serious relationship after only two weeks; it takes months, a lot of time and getting to know eachother to find if youre compatible or not.
Just focus on the right now and date him. See how it goes and communicate, communicate, communicate. Give it some time and effort and see where your heart takes you, whether you see a future with him and ask yourself whether you both have put in enough into your relationship.
All you can do is make the effort and wait and see.
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