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I cant tell if this guy likes me or not. Ill be sitting and class and notice him staring at me, then when I look over he looks away. It happens all the time. Then when i talk to him on AIM, he will be all mean and crap, but later say he was joking. We flirt sometimes but I cant tell if these are "bf/gf" signs, or w/e! Please help me out!!!!!!

To me, it sounds like he's trying to cover up his feelings he has for you, i guess. when he says he's joking, he really means he's sorry.
I can't say if they are b/f g/f signs, because he might not be ready for that yet. But it does sound like he's interested! Talk to him more and try to get him to open up to you and everything.
Hope i helped:)

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i like this guy im not to sure if he likes me. should i just let go of him or what? i have no idea what to do!!?

crushes....crushes....crushes....
oh:P i think you should spend time with him and you should be able to tell if he's interested. Don't be shy! Only let go of him if he says something mean to you or blows you off. hope i helped a little.

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my boyfriend John and i are going out secretly because my friend Alexia likes him and she is his ex and he is kinda a player but he is not cheating on me. you know like one of those guys who flirts with everyone, kind of a pervert. but w/e i like him and he's my boyfriend. but i am wondering if i should break up with him. i know you can't make that decision for me but still it kinda bugs me that he is like that so do you think i should?

If you don't feel right, it's okay to leave. Especially if it bugs you. And I wouldn't really recommend hiding that really since that's your friend's ex. If she ever found out...
But if he's a really good b/f and you're sure he's not cheating, i guess it would be ok. hope i helped some.

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ok i got this friend and i thought he rly liked me and or so he says and then like so i would you kno kiss him and things like that and we were supposed to have sex this weekend i was supposed to lose my virginity to him but now this moring i found out at the high school hes sayin all kinda of rumors about me and how he can get anything from me.. so my question is how do i ask him about this?

well, don't wanna sound rude or anything, but... do you really even wanna talk to him anymore? But if you must, go up to him(not in front of his friends)and ask him. Be flat out with him.
Don't do it over the phone, because he may hang up on you. But don't let yourself be played. Hope I helped some.

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I have a crush who likes me a little bit. I love talking in person sometimes but the phone is harder for me to talk with someone. Especially my crush! Im supposed to call him in about an hour but i have no idea what to talk about im scared that i might have an akward moment and not talk, then what will he think of me? Does anyone have any ideas about what i should say or do if theirs an akward yet scilent moment? Please help and thank you!

I'm usually the quiet person on the phone too. You could imagine you were together.
or, try to think of anything who ever wanted to know or wondered about him. Ask him questions. Tell him about your day. Make plans. Just relax, and be calm. It helped me, so i hope i helped you any

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i just recently did a 12 minute run at school for gym.. its been like a few days after and my legs haven't been hurting really badly.. buh now it hurts really really bad..especially when i got down the stairs... how can i make it stop?

oooh.. i feel your pain. You could try soaking in the tub with warm water and rubbing alcohol, if you haven't already. But if you stay off your feet and the pain doesn't stop, you might have injured it. Go see a doctor. hope you feel better:)

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I think I'm beginning to bore my boyfriend a little, which is very scary because I really want it to last for a long time. See, we just started officially "going out" not too long ago. At first, the conversation on the phone was awesome....Everything was great. But I think you eventually come to a point where you've gotten to know the person well enough and you run out of questions to ask...random childhood stories to tell...And then there's nothing to talk about other than stuff that happened to the two of you that particular day and junk like that. Because lately, our phone conversations have been reallly dead, and it seems like our relationship is beginning to become more and more of a "sexual" rather than mental relationship. What can I do about this?????? How can I think of interesting stuff to talk about on the phone and not bore him to death?

I had that same problem once. I think that you doing different things than just sitting on the phone, like meeting places and everything, that might help. But anything can make for good conversation. One subject might lead to something more interesting. Never know. Hope it all works out:)

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I'm not a person that opens up to people usually. There is an acquaintance that I've had in my life for over 6 years that recently started becoming my best friend. We would spend every waking hour together for about 6 months. It was so great. She did get annoying sometimes, but that happens with all consistancy I believe. She had two good friends before her and I really became good friends.

Here's a little background about us. She is more into the fashion scene, while I'm more into the music scene. Somewhere we meet in the middle. I usually dislike people who are into fashion and showing themselves. But she is different. She has some kind of hippy-like quality inside her.

One of her friends was moving, so she moved in with that girl for about a month, to help her packup. We almost didn't talk at all after constantly being together for 6 months. After a month had gone by, she said she was going to drive across the country with them and help them unpack. After about 2 weeks of that, she decided to move in with them 3,000 miles away.

[[Her reason is to get away from her parents and grow up. But she's moving in with people that are 2 years younger than her and way too wild to let her mature into an adult and not a partying adolescent wanna-be adult]]

I'm moving into the country soon, so my chances of making new friends are going to be even more slim. Her family is moving about 5 minutes away from me though. She's leaving behind her childhood friend and myself to follow dreams I know she is still too immature to accomplish.

She has come back for a month to get her stuff and say goodbye. Should I release her back to the fashion-hungered, immature group that she was in before? ... Or do I fight to keep her here and keep the best friend that I came to know and love?

ooh.. i believe you should definitely try to tell her whats on your mind. I don't blame you for wanting her to stay. This is not a case of friends growing apart.
Fight with all you have, because she might be making a mistake if she hasn't thought about it good enough.
Hope things work out.

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I have a boyfriend & I know that I love him. But theres another guy. My bf hates him and I like him a lot- and the guy that I like has a gf. When I ask him if he still likes me he says kinda and then he asks me and I say yes- a lot. I know that my boyfriend and I have a great relationship and I dont want to lose it but I definately DONT kno wut to do bout this other guy. I'm 13 years old and female.

I kinda seem desparate but I would like help!! Thanks!

hmmmm....
from what i see, if this other guy says "kinda" and doesn't change his answer after you have basically poured your feelings to him, then he may not like you all that much, especially if he has a g/f.
but there might be a good reason why your b/f hates him-something you might not know about him.
i say, if you have a great relationship, you really don't wanna lose the guy who loves you over some guy who "kinda" likes you. hope I helped at all.

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okay im 14/f and ive been crushing on my best friend lately.. hes really sweet n nice n cracks me up, we always make each other laff n we always have fun togather, weve started b-n rilli close friends just this year tho, theres this other guy that goes to a different school that is obsessed with me he actually think we are meatn to be he tells me he loves me and everything but i do kinda like him to i dont know which one i go for my bff which we are kinda like brother ns ister so i dont think we would work out although everyoen thinks he likes me too or should i go for the other guy that i kno loves me? please help!! * kay *

well, that sounds easy!:)
if you have feelings for the one that is "in love" with you, then i would definitely go out w/him.
but it really would ruin your brother/sister friendship if you and your friend go out. Things might get weird.
Hope everything works out ok!:D

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i have been friends with this guy lets call him john. and we have progressivly over a peroid of 8 months began to tlak more and goof around more. he's a very out going type and so am i. on AOL we talk alot and when we get together in public there is talking but not as much on AOL. and i am wondering is he justt alking to me to hummor me or is he intrested? he's kinda of a perverted kinda guy but has that sweet sensitive side to him! hes nice but can be a jerk but what guys can't be? he's been to my house and to all my parties and has offered to keep me company when ever i needed some. i dunno what to do what do u think?
thxs
*me*

he sounds like a keeper. he may act immature at times because like you said, that's just the male species:P
but, the fact that he actually gives you the time of day and for 8 months longer? That's a definite interest, don't you think?
It sounds like he cares about you since he offered to be there when you need him.
best wishes for your friendship!:)

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i am in the 7th grade, female, and 13. my guy friend has been my friend since last year and we call eachother sis and bro. i think i might like him though, but he has a girlfriend. i help him out with like allll his problems and he helps me with mine. but this i cant ask him. online when we say bye we always say somthing like luv ya lots or lylab or lylas. and we definitely kid about Romantic things and i just dont know...
Help?

I don't think he's too serious. You might just be growing attached(friends) to each other, that's all.
If you help each other out w/problems, love would be a bad ingredient, especially if you guys talk about relationship problems. Hope i helped sum:)

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--16.f-- There's this guy, in my school (let's call him Tom?) well..I am on the school swim team, and so is Tom..He flirts with every single girl he can, and ofcourse, I'm included amoung these girls. But he doesnt flirt the same way with me as he does with the other ones. He gets..more into it, I guess. Everyone says that he likes me all and I like the attention. But like he just can't be trusted and he's one of those guys who you think is going to grow up to be a prostitute..but I kind of like him..what should I do?

Thanks to those that answer = )!

I had a guy just like him. He flirted with evryone, but he paid special attention to me, and when we hooked up, he stopped completely(at school) but then i found out he cheated w/a girl from around his neighborhood.He REALLY liked me, but couldn't stop flirting and all. some guys just can't stop. so what i'm saying is: he probably likes you, but be careful and keep a very watchful eye if you guys decide to go out. hope i helped:)

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k.. there's this new girl at our school named jackie.. i introduced her to all my friends.. including one named kaci. kaci's been trying so hard to make her jackie's best friend or whatever.. but anyway.. kaci says she tells me everything.. and she will always tell me anything that's bothering her.. well jackie was over at my house today and kaci called her.

you see. . kaci went out with my best friend's boyfriend like a year ago.. we all think kaci still lieks him but yea.. eric (ex) has a rep on being disloyal.. he called kaci telling her to come over anytime and he's sure his mom won't mind.. kaci goes "jackie, don't tell jami (me) or i'm gonna be mad at you".. i feel like i have to tell my best friend but i don't want jackie mad at me and kaci mad at jackie.. what am i supposed to do? help!!! sorry if it's confusing.. but i'll rate for anything

you are in a jam. sorry if ANY of this sounds rude, but if you and your best friend(who you wanna tell) are really good friends and you trust her, then i believe you should tell her because it sounds like kaci likes to hide things. But just make sure no one gets hurt.
hope it works out!

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Me & my friends played a prank on this girl in my school that was picking on me, and she turned us in. Yesterday, I wasn't in school and the guidance conselor called all my friends down to the office, turns out EVERYONE was sayen I did it, even my best friends. I did do most of it, but not all of it. & I admitted to it. Are they real friends?

oh that REALLY sux. they took advantage of the fact that you weren't there to defend yourself, and it was then your 1 word against theirs(more than 1)
They are definitely not real friends, because even if it meant getting one of you in trouble, a real friend would have taken the blame or said it wasn't true that you did the whole thing.

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I have this problem, I really like having guy friends, and I can do stuff around them, like be my stupid self, and they can act the same. But if I start dating one of them, I get all shy. I hate this. What can I do to change it?

don't worry, this is totally normal. the reason you feel like this is because you two have reached a different level of friendship. a much closer one. these are your emotions, and the best thing to do is just take a deep breath and act like its how it used to be. dating is just a word.
hope i helped sum:)

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I know this might make me sound desperate but here I go. Sorry if its long too. Well on Friday night me and my boyfriend got into a fight because he pretended some chick named Kayla called him and told him I was cheating on him, so I called him stupid because he wouldn't believe me. Later on that night he told me that he was joking and none of it was true and he made it up just so he could find how much I really loved him, and he broke up with me. But, of course we started dating about 10 mins after that. On Saturday he called and asked if I called him and hung up, which I didn't so then hes like ok whatever bye (Apparently he didn't believe me) & hung up. So I called him back to see what was up with that, and he was being mean so I hung up. Then he called me back and hung up, and I did the same and so on and so on. We did this for like 5 times each. Then he called me back after I hung up with him that one last time and said it was over. Does that even sound normal?? Is he an idiot or what? Also, what's a fast way to get over him. Because he meant allot to me, and if he asked me out right now I'd probably say yes, and I don't want to because it makes me look way desperate. THANKS

:(ooo.. i know it hurts honey, but what i usually tell everyone in this sort of situation is to just remember what he did to you and how he acted. you deserve someone better than that. there's no 5-min cure to missing him, but hopefully you'll find someone to take your mind off of him:) hope it works!

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ok so i dont know what to get my guy for valentines day but i am thinking that i should just like kiss him on the cheek (or lips) and say like "that's my valentines day gift to you" i mean we are only 13 so it would be big not like nothing. do you think that i should?

Thats really good, especially if you haven't been going out long. I was considering the same thing...
But do something to show you care, even if its a little kiss.

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hey
i'm a 16 year old gurl and i just recently started going out with one of my friends(gurl)and i dont know if i'm bi but i think i like her....anyways when i'm not with her i think about her but when i'm with her it feels odd and i dunno i just dont know how to act.....from what you here does this sound normal to you? and if i get anything like.....no its not normal cuz your with a gurl....i will give a very low rating anyways thx in advance to those who help!

i believe that this is totally normal, because not all people like others of the opposite race. And w/the experiences I had, I don't blame them. You can't help who you like. You probably feel odd around her because of the way society looks down upon issues like this. But I wouldn't worry about it, though. Hope everything works out okay!

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There is this guy who i've known for about 2 years now. He's really nice. I talk to him every once in a while on the internet and last year we had assigned seats at lunch next to each other every day for 4 months. We, this year, are in 4 classes together. He is the kind of guy who likes to make people laugh, but he's not a class clown. He's always real nice to me and he and i talk sometimes.. and whenever he cracks a joke or something he looks directly at me to see if i'm smiling or not. I thought at the beginning of the year that he liked me and i liked him a little so i asked him to the dance and he never gave me an answer. Does he like me and what should I do about it? 13/F/7th grade

:)I really do think he likes you, because he does talk to you. I believe you should try telling him that he didn't give you an answer last time, and ask him again. If he still doesn't give an answer, then ask him why. Hope it works out!:)

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