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Big Flirt
--16.f-- There's this guy, in my school (let's call him Tom?) well..I am on the school swim team, and so is Tom..He flirts with every single girl he can, and ofcourse, I'm included amoung these girls. But he doesnt flirt the same way with me as he does with the other ones. He gets..more into it, I guess. Everyone says that he likes me all and I like the attention. But like he just can't be trusted and he's one of those guys who you think is going to grow up to be a prostitute..but I kind of like him..what should I do?
Thanks to those that answer = )!
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It's the usual teenage goop. He might like you, he might be fishing for the first thing that will pay him attention. He may not grow up to be a prostitute. He sounds pretty normal to me. You might mention that his flirting with everybody bothers you a little bit. At least talk to the guy and see if you can decode his true intentions.
If he stops flirting with other people when you are spending time with each other, he will probably be fine.
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i think this situation would be a good time to call jerry springer to set you up for a future appointment...
find some other guy you know will be faithful
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I knew a couple of guys in high school who were like that- we called them Man Whores (see Deuce Bigelow- Male Gigilo and you'll get the reference). They're the kind of guys who flirts with every girl and any one that they get a positive response with, they'll flirt more with.
If you do like him, I would wait to see if he doesn't something a bit more personal and not so much "teasing". Maybe if he does something personal like leave you a note. A lot of these guys put on this mask, and when they do like someone, they reveal who they really are.
I flirt with a lot of my female friends, but they know that I do it just to make them feel good. The girls that I "like", were the ones that I couldn't flirt with.
Hope that things work out.
Yours,
Arun
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Of course get to know him better. As cliche as that answer is, REALLY THINK ABOUT IT. Talk to him MORE. And yeah, maybe he might like you. Hang out with him. Seriously HANG OUT WITH HIM. Invite him to do something. Alot of guys are flirts, but that doesn't mean they want to stay single forever. :-)
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i think that he justt joined the swim team to see girls in bathing suits so if i were u tell the swim coach that he bothers you and get his ass kicked off the team!
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I had a guy just like him. He flirted with evryone, but he paid special attention to me, and when we hooked up, he stopped completely(at school) but then i found out he cheated w/a girl from around his neighborhood.He REALLY liked me, but couldn't stop flirting and all. some guys just can't stop. so what i'm saying is: he probably likes you, but be careful and keep a very watchful eye if you guys decide to go out. hope i helped:)
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First of all any pussy ass dude thats on the swimteam doesnt deserve your time. Second of all this fagget is just flirting with you to cover up his homosexuality and obviously not doing a good job. Tell the fucker to grow some balls and play a real sport like a man.
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