alright well, im 15 and my friends are always telling me that you are supposed to shave your pubic hair..but...when ever i do it..it hurts. well i just i don`t know how or what to use. & i would ask one of them, but its more hard to do it with them knowing its me. i was wondering if you could give me some advice, of how to do it, or what to use or whatever. i would really appritiate it. i really neeed some help. =/ and since i`ve tried and it hurts..does that means something is wrong with me? becus i just did it with a razor and shaving cream. ughh helppp.
ok well first of all you don't have to do it. some cultures say you should once you start puberty but it is all on what you want to do. If you do want to shave then using shaving cream is the best. but you need a new razor( but be careful it will be sharp). then shave slowly and use different directions to do it. then after it is removed wash the shaving cream off, and use some soap and make sure you wash all of the areas you shaved. then rinse the soap off well. the soap helps so the ingrown hairs don't cause bumps because those are painful. good luck and if you need anything else just let me know.
*~Zainab~*
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Ok just recently I had sex. Well it was to dark and I assumed he put on a condom.Well at the end of it he jumps of me real quick so he wouldnt cum in me. I know you can still get pregnant off precum but i was wondering should I worry at all?
Please help me.
well yes you can get pregnant that way. i would wait a few more days and go take the test. the chances are you aren't but then again, anything is possible.
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okay me and my boyfriend was messing around on teh 16th and we kinda was like naked.. on out lower have.. and he was fingering me and i was touching his penis..and
when i loooked down my shirt was wet.
he says it was mine.. because i was really wet
and im like no i wrapped you penis in my shirt
and hes like well you can get pregnate frmo PRECUM or somthing is that true?
and my period doesnt come until next month
i dont feel sick or anything.
im just worried
i dont want to be pregnate
and we broke up because we thought our relationship was going too fast.
im scared
yea i know SPREM DOESNT DIE WHEN IT HITS THE AIR!
and.. i dont know
we didnt have sex. we were kinda dry humping naked on the lower half
im not sure about your circumstances, but yes you CAN get pregnant with precum. so just wait a few more days and take a test. i highly doubt that you are pregnant, but just next time be more careful
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My sister just had a baby and he husband's last name is Wood. Well, my sister has always wanted to name her daughter "Holly". So we just need a few HONEST opinions here.
Do you find it tacky to have a girl named "Holly Wood?"
well personally i wouldn't want to grow up with the name Holly Wood. but perhaps the middle name could be Holly. or something like that.
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im 15 almost 16 and i am still in a AA-cup bra.
mom is a A-cup, but my sister is a C-cup.
This is completely destroying my life! I have not had a boyfriend cuz' my breasts are tiny now I am old and nobody will want me.
what about breast enlargement?
are there any other wayz i can get someone to love me?
is surgery for enlarging my breasts my best way to get my life back?
i want to have a boyfriend before i get old! am i already too old? none of the boys will want me soon. i am almost 16!
Please HELP ME!
Well first of all, im sorry but no a breast enlargement is not the answer. if you let it happen naturally, then they will develop and there won't be pain....etc. you are only 16 and still on the line of dating and not. well i think that you just need to live carefree of boys and then they will see that you are intriguing. but don't go for all that fake stuff.. a guy should like you for your true self not your fake breasts
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There is this guy, Zack I really like. He used to like me but now he doesnt. I dont know why he doesnt anymore. I didnt do anything wrong. We barely ever talk to eachother. I think he hates me but I really like him. What should I do?
Okay well this may sound very typical, but you need to talk with him. Get him when he's alone and just ask him. perhaps he heard that you didn't like him anymore or something like that, but just be honest with him.
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Is anyone on here Muslim? I have a very important question that I want to ask and talk about. I'd like it to be someone older, but anyone that is religous will do. Thanks.
hi. i am a revert so i may be able to help you. also if you want i can ask an imam. so just let me know what it is.
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ok well im the peerson who asked about the signs of depression. im not really sure if i am depressed so ill just tell you how i feel and you can tell me if you think i have depression problems.
how i feel and have been acting:
empty
alone
scared
havent been eating a lot lately
have been getting headaches and stomachaches
havent been hanging out with my friends lately
i like to sit in my room with the lights out
i have trouble sleeping lately
i dont really like to talk anymore
get annoyed at little things
a little bit dizzy sometimes
sad
dont like to talk on the phone anymore
dont really like going places
anxious over stupid things sometimes
please help thanks
okay, well i am no doctor{i know more than most though from my wrecks}but i think that you do have depression. they gave me Cymbalta for my nerve pain, but it helped also to clear my head and calm my nerves to where i was back to where i used to be. A few things to take into consideration however is your age and how your parents would feel about you being on meds. i think that Cymbalta would be your best choice, because it doesn't make you a zombie. so i do think that you should go to the doctor. if you need anything else don't hesitate to ask me okay? well i hope i helped you out.
*~zainab~*
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My best friend used to mess around with my big brother back around New Years. I told them that I didn't care if they actually dated but they were just hooking up. They told me that they would like to actually date but it'd be hard because he lives an hour and half away. That is BS because he's home almost every weekend and my friend and I always drive that far to go to the galleria. I know my brother and he's an asshole to girls and he's with a new girl like every week it seems.
So, after a few weeks my friend promised that she wouldn't mess around with him anymore.
My brother is home for the summer and my cousin is staying with us for a few weeks as well. Well, last ngiht I wasn't home and out with a few friends. When I came home, my cousins told me that my friend was over at our house with my brother.
Now I don't know what to do or say becasue it just angers me so much. I LOVE my friend but we've talked about her going after my family members before and she PROMISED me (she's had a thing for my brother, cousins, and even my younger uncle...yeahhhh).
My brother and I are also really close but i HATE how he dos these t hings. What should I do?
Well first of all even though you want to protect her, she has to make her own mistakes. when she realizes that you are right, she will need a friend to comfort her, so just be there for her. okay well i hoped i helped but really all you can do is let them do as they wish.
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what are signs of depression?
please answer i really need to know.
easy 5's!
thanks
hello there! well i have had depression alot so here are some signs:
you tend to be more quiet in a group
your mind tends to wander
you feel empty inside
you don't feel like doing anything
you eat more than usual
and you may have suicidal thoughts
!! if you have some of these please see a doctor. a good medication is Cymbalta!!
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what are some REALLY REALLY good books for teen girls. i dont want just a light fluffy book. i want it to have like a really good story n stuff. thanks!
okay well the Laurlene McDaniel books are about teens with terminal illnesses. Suzane Fisher Staples has a series about a teen girl who lives in a desert in Pakistan, the first book is called Shabanu. the second is Haveli. i haven't read the second but the first was awesome. but the best book i have read is called "ROOTS" by Alex Hailey. it is an unbelievable book. it's for someone who is a little more mature, but i read it last year when i was 16.
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I am in the US.
If I receive a call from overseas on my
cell phone (Cingular), is it free? or am
I charged for the call?
depends on your plan. however if you have free nights and weekends it doesn't cost anything if they call you when you have your free minutes. i do that with my friends all the time.
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i've been wondering this for a while. you know how they say dinosaurs were extinct before people came around, but in the bible doesnt it say that adam & eve were born on one of the 7 days of creation?or was that after? i dunno, im confused lol
thanks
well the theory of dinosaurs used to be shunned by the church when they were first being discovered in America. Then later on we come to find that the dinosaurs were most thought to have become extinct due to a meteor shower or something of the such. but the in the beginning of time, according to the bible, some prophets (S.A.W.) lived to be like 400-900 years old. so my cousin asked me once if it was possible if they measured time differently then, for example a day could have been years? so just a theory but maybe the dinosaurs were created after man but were scientifically put in the wrong time eras.
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I'm not big into church, I believe in God, but I can't stand going to church. I get bored out of my mind, and idk I just don't like going at all. I hate youth group too, everythings lame, and theres two girls there that are even close to my age, and I hate em both. My moms always trying to get me to go to church with her, but IDK how to tell her I don't like it at all!
Well first off, going to a house of worship, i.e. church....etc, is a way to be closer to God. it is a holy place and you should feel honored to be there, but just be straight with your mom. maybe if you learn and understand your religion more, you will enjoy going to church.
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In the Bible doesn't it say that we shouldn't pray aloud to show off? That instead we should pray in the privacy of our own room? (not the exact words) If that is so then why do people go to church? I'm christain but I don't believe that going to church makes a difference in how we are seen in God's eyes. Everyone pressures me to go to church saying that it will "lead me in the right direction" but I don't think it matters if I go to church or not.
Does it matter?
Well it doesn't matter where you pray as long as it is not used to show off, you are correct. however going to church is a way to share faith with a group, and strengthen you faith. For Christians church is the house of god, so it seems better to go, but you don't have to, just do it when you are alone. devote a time to God.
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okay. i thought that this day, 6/6/06 was the day the anti-christ was supposed to be born. but everyone is saying we are all gonna die today, but the bible doesnt say anything about this. so what is actually happening today?
well nothing really. People also thought that the end of the world was Y2K. but it wasn't. only one person knows when it will happen, God, so we shouldn't even ponder when it will happen. it will happen when it will and nothing we can do will stop it.
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i am really scared. (no this isnt anything to do ith 6/6/6 its just that 666 got me thinking of this) when the world ends, how exactly is it going to end? i do not have very good knowledge of the bible. i know that no one knows, but everyone says all this horrible ways like it will go up in flames. but why would god torture us like that? why can't he just make everything dissappear in a split second? why would god want to make the world end in a horrible way, and why would he even want the world to end. please explain this is a clear way cause im not good with this stuff. and pleaaaaaaaaseplease don't say "don't worry about it wont happen/it wont happen in your lifetime"
Well this is a very difficult topic that everyone thinks about sometime. first of all it's not just the bible that refers to the end of the world. but only one person knows when it will happen, that is God. But some religions think that it will happen like the meteor shower that took out the dinosaurs, some a nuclear bomb, and some think a holy war. but what ever happens, afterward eternity will start for everyone.
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It is pretty much impossible for me to empathize/understand people who believe in God and religion. I am fully against both of them, for a long list of reasons that I don't need to go in to. The deal is, people tell me I'm being sacreligous/a heretic/going to hell, but I can't understand where they're coming from AT ALL. To me evangelists and deeply religous people just seem like pitiful, misguided puppets of a nonexistent power. It tends to screw up my relationships with people.... Any advice?
from both parts there has to develop some tolerance. everyone sees religion differently, so don't start fights about being religious, but if you show some tolerance toward other's oppinions then maybe they will show some toward you. not everyone knows someone who is against religion, so if someone asks you about it, explain it calmly.
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I went to the doctors yesterday, im 5'6 and weigh 210 lbs(f) I know it's wicked bad. I know what i have to do and i am doing it. Im just really self conscious. I dont even look that heavy, cus im really muscular. Im just worried that a boy will never like me. Will they? please help
well im about the same 5'5 and 209 lbs. if you are yourself then what else can you be? well okay do you have like any quality that's not like other people's? are you good at sports or school? well also flaunt it. if someone makes a bad comment like fat "jokes" then just laugh, they won't keep doing it. and if you find someone you like just start making him notice you like if he looks at you look at him and then look away. kinda flirt with him!!!! if you need any other help my e-mail is girdy_goo15@yahoo.com
if you need anything just give me a holla.
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i want to chat with somebody about my boyfriend. he is black. and 4sho im a little white.
i don't see why so many people have a problem with mixed races. but my yahoo id is girdy_goo15 so just holla.
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