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SKANK AND MAN WHORE
My best friend used to mess around with my big brother back around New Years. I told them that I didn't care if they actually dated but they were just hooking up. They told me that they would like to actually date but it'd be hard because he lives an hour and half away. That is BS because he's home almost every weekend and my friend and I always drive that far to go to the galleria. I know my brother and he's an asshole to girls and he's with a new girl like every week it seems.
So, after a few weeks my friend promised that she wouldn't mess around with him anymore.
My brother is home for the summer and my cousin is staying with us for a few weeks as well. Well, last ngiht I wasn't home and out with a few friends. When I came home, my cousins told me that my friend was over at our house with my brother.
Now I don't know what to do or say becasue it just angers me so much. I LOVE my friend but we've talked about her going after my family members before and she PROMISED me (she's had a thing for my brother, cousins, and even my younger uncle...yeahhhh).
My brother and I are also really close but i HATE how he dos these t hings. What should I do?
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Well first of all even though you want to protect her, she has to make her own mistakes. when she realizes that you are right, she will need a friend to comfort her, so just be there for her. okay well i hoped i helped but really all you can do is let them do as they wish.
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eff your best friend. thats gross that she hits on ur family members. shes probably just using you.
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I think the truth is that your friend and your brother just want to hook-up and mess around, which you already know because their excuse of not dating is unrealistic.
I'm not sure why your friend would promise to not hook-up with a family member of yours and then go behind your back and do it, but you need to confront her about this promise and what happened. Let her know that if she's going to try hooking up with someone in your family then don't make a promise that she won't.
I know you're worried about the way your brother acts with his new girl every week, but let her know ahead of time that you know he's always bringing home new girls and treats them badly. If she doesn't want to take your warning seriously, then let her learn the truth.
If any of these family members happen to be an adult and she's a minor, then that's when you have to take serious action. You need to let your parents know if anything like that is going on.
-TheTeenGirl
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I think you should talk to your brother alone, and your friend alone.
Tell them how frustrated and angry you are, and for what reasons.
Tell your friend she broke her promise, and it really hurts you and makes you so angry! It would piss me off entirely as well too!!
If you are close to your brother, then it should be easy for you to say you care for your friend, and you dont like that he uses her.
You know?
I hope everything goes okay hun,
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