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*HEY YALL...JESSICA HERE!WELL IM REALLY AN UPFRONT PERSON SO WHEN U ASK 4 ADVICE bEwArE!!
*AGE*---16~*~
*SEX*---YES PLEASE!--LOL JUS MESSIN IMMA GRL~*~
*HOMETOWN*---L-TOWN~*~HOLLA AT CHA GRL~*~
*SCHOOL*---LHS GO REDSKINS!!:)~*~
*GRADE*---10TH~*~
*FAV SPORTS*---BASKETBALL/CHEERLEADING/FOOTBALL~*
*HAIR*---BROWN/BLONDE~*~
*EYES---BLUE~*~
*HIEGHT---I'M 5'7~*~
*STATUS*---ME N SHAWN BROKE UP...I'M TALKIN TO THIS GUY NAMED LAMAR......I REALLY LIKE HIM 2... HE IS LIKE THE SWEETEST GUY EVER.... HE TREATS ME BETTER THAN SHAWN....AND IM NOT EVEN DATIN LAMAR....~*~
*FAV QUOTE*---I SMOKE WEED 2 4-GET MY DRINKING PROBLEM---LOL!~*~
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WEL YALL I'M HERE 4 N E BODY WHO NEEDS ADVICE OR JUST TALK!!! I REALLY BEEN THRU SUM SHIT IN MY LIFE!!! MY MOM IS IN JAIL N SHE IS A MAJOR CRAK HED N SO IS MY DAD...I BEEN IN JAIL/JUVI MYSELF LIKE 4 TIMES.... BEEN IN several FIGHTS N GOT JUMPED PLENTY OH TIMES N HAD MY FAIR SHARE OH ASS WOOPPINS!!! TRUST ME, WHERE I COME FROM, NIGAS N BITCHES dont PLAY!!!
YALL NEED 2 GET A GRIP... THIS SPELLING THING THAT SEEMS TO BOTHER YALL SO MUCH IS JUS ME I DO IT SO IT DOESNT TAKE AS LONG 2 WRITE THINGS.....

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How often a day should you brush your teeth?

3 @ least...i do 5 times

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hey yall! well i did a really stupid thing! i had sex with my bf without a condom. But he pulled out before he came. But when he pulled out he got cum like on the really high part of my leg and I thought i was pregnant...but now im like bleeding(its been like a week later)...does that mean im not? PLEASE PLEASE HELP MWA!

nope ur not pregnant...u got nothin 2 worry bout...rate me plz

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I am kindof bipolar; sometimes I'm really normal, but I am also really sensitive. My feelings get hurt really easily, and if someone yells at me or tries to reprimand me for something I get really emotional; my parents verbally abused me as a kid, so is this why I am so tense? What can I do to get a frickin backbone when I'm on the spot? Thanks.

ur parents may have something 2 do w/ this whole thing.then again they may not.w/ that i dunno wat 2 tell u....and sooner or l8er ur gonna have 2 stand up 4 ur self..not 2 b mean but ppl may eventually get tired of standing up 4 u..and ur gonna get tired of letting them....hope i helped
*plz rate*
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HELP! I'm going to a party 2nite, and I need 2 get rid of two nasty looking pimples! I already popped them, but blood just came out. HELP!!! I'll rate, just please help! Don't delete this question, please! (:

i use alchol on it then put toothpaste till u leave 4 tha party then put cover-up on it...

jessica

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i cut myself..badly..the underside of my left arm is alomst completley scard and my left upper thigh is wicked bad..my mom knows i did* it but she thinks i stopped i promised my ex-best friend i would stop but shes dumb ne way..my boyfriend hates it but he said he cant stop me..ive already been to therapy..they THOUGHT it helped..yea rite..but i found a new friend..lets call her Babee C..well she cuts..worse then me..she carves like long poems into her..all my friends arent talking to me because of it besides her..and the truth is i miss them all..i used to be wicked happy untill my dad got lung cancer..i loved him..and i was his baby..i really want to stop but everytime i see blood ne where..it makes me want to..i think i should just keep my head up and rmember my dad how he was before..but its gonna be hard..if ne one has any ideas of what else i can do to stop please help me..i cant keep livin this way..thanx xX mandie Xx

look, i have had a lot of friends who cut themselves,n i never left them cuz their my friends n i no they needed help.so i went with them to a few classes n the classes helped them,n every time 1 of them wanted to do it again they always came to me n we went somewhere or did someting to get their mind off of it.so i think u should go back to therapy n find someone who isnt a cutter n tell them the truth about how u do it n how u wanna stop n that u need them to be there for u.i dunno if this will work 4 u but if u need n e more help u can im me @ sexysweetee99
rate me plz
jessica

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once a cheater, always a cheater?? TRUE OR FALSE?

in my opinion its true every time i give a guy thats cheated on me a 2nd chancec he does it again.so this isnt a fact jus from MY exsperiance
rate me plz..
jessica

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If you wear a condom during sex does that mean you most likely won't get pregnant or do you have to take birth control pills too..?

if u wear a condom usually u wont get pregnant unless it breaks...some condoms already have holes in them so u need 2 b very carefull..

jessica

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Hey, everyone!
My guy's away until late August...like, August 20somethingth, and I wanna do something special for him (or to him, depending...) when he comes back. Anyone have any ideas? I'm up for almost anything. He can't come to my house, though. Long story, don't ask. I have to go to his.
So...just hit me with a few ideas, y'all! Lol.
Thanks!
-Siren =)

well how old r u???

jessica

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theres is this kid that asked me out 6 times and i say no everytime .and its really annoying and he does it everyday nd when i say no hes asks my best friend wtf is tha matter he cant be alone for a few months .. but what if he asked me agen what do i say to him ?

i guess just do the same thing u been doin tell him no and not 2 ask again n if he is that dumb then...ummmm... i dunno wut 2 tell u


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Due to an error that really messed up the site today, I've set up the "give advice" page to operate in "backlog mode" (because, well, we're backlogged). What this means is that instead of just seeing the newest questions first, you're seeing questions with the fewest answers first. After someone answers a question, it gets bumped down. This helps to make sure every question gets answered, and all the questions are answered equally. Questions three days old just aren't shown at all.

I put the site in this mode because we're in an emergency situation, but what do you think of it? Should we have it like this all the time, so questions with no answers are at the top, waiting for you? Or do you think we should go back to the old way, so you always see the newest questions when you click on "give advice"?

Answer with your opinion!

this new mode is totally stipid.obviouslt if we were gonna answer the question we would have already done it. use common sence.

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ok im 16 me n my boyfriend who is 17 have been going out for just over 2 weeks now.. everytime i think about him i get sweaty palms.. and all i can do is smile.. i feel like the only thing that could hurt me is him leaving me and i get all teary just thinking about it... am i falling to hard to fast?? i really think that im falling in love with him but ive seen so many of my friends go through the same thing and get hurt so im afraid to really open up.. am i being to guarded? should i end things before it gets too serious??

ummm hello!!!!NO DONT BREAK ^ W/ HIM.if u feel this way bout him the obxiously u need 2 stay w/ him.

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ok i started my period when i was 10 i am now 13 i was wondering when will the menstrual cycle end how old will i be like in my 40's or wut? can someone tell me im just very curious

i think u gotta be 45 or somthin like that.


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well im 13 and i weigh between 110-115 and my legs are big and its all fat and my family said i have a beautiful figure and i like it and all but it to much fat for me i used to wear ones and now i wear 7 and i wanna try trimspa but im not sure if i should are not i need help and i tried exersize and it doesnt work!! help me plz
o yeah and i have had ppl tell me i wasnt skinny but i like my curves i just dont like being so big

chill out ur only 13 and u seem like a good size 2 me but thats u 4 it. try walking every day for an hour or somthin.ive dony that for as long as i can remember n im happy w/ myslf.im 14 n i wear 7's 120 lbs and i feel good bout myself

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If you stop eating will the size of ur boobs and ur butt go down and im just asking???>????

i'd say it would but i wouldn't sugest it..

jessica

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my boyfriend is moving to new jersey at the end of the month and i really like him but i dont know if i should break up with him..i live in new york..help!!

long distance relationships havnt lasted very long 4 me in the past so i try 2 avoid them if it was me i'd brake it off b4 he leaves.

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i hav a friend . lets say her name in mary . well mary has always been bad to me in the past. me n her hav gotten into a lot of fights in the past three yrs. . for some reason i always keep crawling back to her and we become friends again . shes stolen from me in the past about twice now and she denys when i know she did it and shes talked behind my back many times , even if were still friends . and she laughs about it like its no big deal . my parents have told me to keep away from her in high school next year b/c nobudy will like u for hanging out with her . i know there right , i havt had a decent friend treat me good in a looog time . since ive been frends wit this girl . i kno its time for me to let her go as a friend . shes hurt me n my family in the past and i dont want to have evryone hte me for hangin out wit her . please help . what do i do!!!!

when ppl do things like that once they'll usually do it again n again so im sure u deserve betta then her true friends dont do that shit so tell her how u feel n if she dont like it leaven stand by ur wrd....plz rate

jessica

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sometimes i think i really do have a chance but then my friend is just telling me that i dont and i think she would probably know better but uh...I dont know if that is just my insecurity.... thanks again! :-)

well screw ur friend ur noy out 2 pleez her so pleez ur self and do what u want...go grl go..lol

jessica

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What do you mean I should go for it? Thanks for your advice! :-)

if u think u got a chance w/ him in h/s then try 2get him. do u think u do?????

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ok. i am 13. and just recently i fell in love for the first time with this guy but then he moved a few months ago to like the opposite side of the U.S.A.! Before he moved we went out like 10 times on and off. I was so in love! and after he moved i was very very heartbroken and I still am. and we still talk on msn messenger and AIM all the time. and we are still really good friends. but for a while he has had a gf. since he has moved he has gone out with a few girls but sadly their relationships didnt last that long and now he is really in love with this girl. And even tho i am happy for him it still hurts me and it kinda seems like he still likes me but i cant be sure. i know i still love him but i told him i didnt bcuz i am really trying to get over him. but i cant tell if he likes me or not! and now he is coming bak here to visit in a few weeks and he said hes going to come to visit me. and i dont know whats going 2 happen!!! bcuz i still really like him and he was my first love and i dunno if he likes me or not ne more...i think he probly doesnt but we have never really hung out as friends cuz we were basically always gf and bf. i dont know what to do!!! Plz help!

jus act like it doesnt bother u @ all then he wont kno ur hurtin...hang out w/ him like u hang out w/ ur other guy friends.go to a movie or somethin like that
plz rate,...................

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HI Im a 14 year old girl and i told a guy I liked him right before graduation. we aren't very good friends but a friend of mine told me "he didnt want to ruin the friendship" and im pretty sure that is just an easy term for the words "i don't like you" but then at the dance two days after my friend told me the news he wouldn't stop convienently running into me and kept walking up to me like he wanted to dance but then would just say something sweet and walk away then he asked me to dance and kissed my hand. Was he just being sweet? Do I have a chance with this guy in high school? Is there a chance that he is thinking about me? And if so in a good way? My friend who asked him if he liked me keeps telling me that he doesn't like me and i should get over him....

if u think u got a chance then go 4 it.and if u dont think so then find some-1 else


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