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I am so confused!! PLZ HELP!
ok. i am 13. and just recently i fell in love for the first time with this guy but then he moved a few months ago to like the opposite side of the U.S.A.! Before he moved we went out like 10 times on and off. I was so in love! and after he moved i was very very heartbroken and I still am. and we still talk on msn messenger and AIM all the time. and we are still really good friends. but for a while he has had a gf. since he has moved he has gone out with a few girls but sadly their relationships didnt last that long and now he is really in love with this girl. And even tho i am happy for him it still hurts me and it kinda seems like he still likes me but i cant be sure. i know i still love him but i told him i didnt bcuz i am really trying to get over him. but i cant tell if he likes me or not! and now he is coming bak here to visit in a few weeks and he said hes going to come to visit me. and i dont know whats going 2 happen!!! bcuz i still really like him and he was my first love and i dunno if he likes me or not ne more...i think he probly doesnt but we have never really hung out as friends cuz we were basically always gf and bf. i dont know what to do!!! Plz help!
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well when he comes down just talk to him as friends and dont let him see that you like him alot but if you get the vibe that he still likes you then bring it up ask him if he still likes you and if he does then tell him how you feel and see where that takes yall good luck and let me know what happens.
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If you truely love this dude then your heart will do the talking and destiny will take its course.Plz im me back so i can see how it works out. Thanx bye!
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jus act like it doesnt bother u @ all then he wont kno ur hurtin...hang out w/ him like u hang out w/ ur other guy friends.go to a movie or somethin like that
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jessica
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Well of course he is going to get new girlfriends and enter new relationships. You are telling him you don't love him! If you want him to feel the same way that you do, you have to tell him how you feel and be honest about it. Maybe if he knew that you really did love him, he would be more open to telling you the same. Right now, he could be thinking the same thing you are. You told him you don't love him, but he thinks you still do. He might wonder if you are lying or if it is true. Be honest with the boy. Good luck!
Love, Blonde
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When he does come to visit, just hang out like you would your best friend. He seems like a really nice guy, and I understand that you still have feelings for him, but, he does have a girlfriend. Maybe he still has feelings for you, maybe he doesn't. I'm sure, after hanging out with him for a while you'll figure it out on your own.
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