blondebombshell33's advice column

for the first 2 years... your period will be irregular! it will come! when i first got my period i had it like only 5 times the first year..so dont worry huNNy!
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lo siento, tengo ir a mirar una pelicula con mi hermana muy hermosa y simpatica

heY! this means i'm sorry i have to go watch a movie with my very beatuiful and nice sister
but if you ever need any translations again go to:
www.freetranslation.com
you can translate stuff from english to spanish, spanish to english, french to english eTc... just about any language! hope i helped ya! good luck!
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ok well im not quite sure how to ask this but....anyways my boyfriend came over today and fingered me but i didnt orgasm or even come close and im not sure why like i felt like i had to go to the bathroom realli bad so i like tried to hold it but i wasnt sure ...and does what im thinking while hes fingering me effect having an orgasm?

Hey gIrLy! Most women don't have orgasms from vaginal stimulation. Most of them get orgasms when the clitoris is stimulated — whether or not they are having vaginal intercourse. So, if a woman's clitoris is not being stimulated, she may not have an orgasm. For the peeing thing: There could be a number of reasons for this. Sometimes a finger or a penis inserted into the vagina can put pressure on the bladder, making a girl feel like she has to urinate. Also, if a girl's vagina or clitoris is being stimulated, she may be rubbing the opening of her urethra which might also make her feel like she has to urinate. girls might confuse the sensation of an orgasm — the pleasurable release of built-up muscle tension that results from arousal and sexual activity — with the urge to urinate. This might happen if they do not know what an orgasm feels like. Hope i helped Ya babe!
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my 11 year old sister got her period, and she doesnt want her stuff in the bathroom or anywhere, because of my dad and brother.

wEll then tell your sister to hide it in her room... or somewhere with easy access... periods can be embarresing in front of guYs.. but they will never look through it... if she keeps it somewhere private. sometimes i keep tampons in my underwear drAwer... simple as tHaT!

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Is it normal to just cum without having sex or getting fingered? I notcie that everytime Im with my boyfriend and he touches me I think I just cum is that normal?

yEEs... perfectly nOrmal! "Getting wet" is the way a woman's body responds to sexual excitement and desire. When women are sexually excited, it's common for their heart rate and blood pressure to hike up, their nipples to get hard, and their breasts to enlarge. Blood flow increases to the genitals so that the clitoris swells and the vagina lubricates itself, which is called "getting wet." it dosent have 2 be from sex or fingering... if you get sexually aroused by ur man... tHats probably whY! hope i helped ya gIrLy!
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When me and my boyfriend talk on the phone he asks me questions like do i masterbate and stuff like that should I just tell him the truth to all of them and what if I sound really stupid saying it?

hEy giRlY! well that kind of all depends on what you feel comfortale telling him... if you do matturbate (which IS perfectly normal) but feel embarrsed by saying it... then its not really lying, its just personal info... you dont want ur man tellin every other guy about your "solo times." dont worry about feeling stupid... hes your boyfriend and if he truly loves u... he wont care.. pLus alot of guys r turned on by that! hope i helped ya dOLL! goOd lUcK! :)
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What kinda of sounds do you make when ur having sex or when ur gettin figered. like moaning but what can you say or are suppose to say.
P.S. ill rate too

hEy... sOrry it took me awhile 2 get 2 your question... i havent been on this site for eva! well it kinda depends... when your having sex... theres a vary between moans, screams (LoL) and orgasms... there are no certain noises you make... they just come naturally to you (unless you fake an orgasm) so you dont really have 2 rehearse your sexual sounds... they will come naturally as u enjoy it.... hope i helped yA DoLL!
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my sisters know almost all my business. i tell them almost everything and there 11 and im 15. is it bad that they know about my personal stuff?

nOpe! not at all! i have 2 sisters too and we are super close! thats what sisters are there for! because you know you can actually trust them! iTs awesome that you have such a good relationship with them!
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im 13/m and just wondering. my goal is to be a virgin until i get married, i want that special moment to be with the women i love, can i get some feedback? anything you want to say. ill rate all answers with a 5
irish
13/m

iTs a good thing! sometimes i wish i would have waited.. or at least for a guy your actually in love with! some people may not accept that... but dont let anyone tell you anything different! you will be totally glad you waited for the right guy you know your going to be with! :)
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I think i might make a good lawyer because im persusive and it seems interesting. What do law schools require you to have? Do you need to be advanced in math? Im not the best in math..so im just wondering. is there anyone out there who can tell me about law school and i know its a lot of money..but would i be able to get scholorships?

hEy! my dad is a lawyer... and you have to do allllot of work! i remember he told me that when he was in law school he would wake up at 5:30 am to study! you dont have to be advanced in math... because law dosnet have much to do with math. law school is hard work, long, and expensive... but def. worath it... you can get scholarships depending on the school, your gPa and etc... but go for it gIrl!! and good luck!
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Are you supposed to wear a bra under a cami? Im not very big....like kinda flat...Thanks

Most have built in bras... but before i got boobs... i always would so it would appear that i had bOobs! haha LoL... but it dosent matter gIrl...! if your kinda flat and like having boobs... then wear a bra! nothin wrong with that!
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Can you skip your period and not be pregnant? In other words, if you miss a period, is the only explanation pregnancy?

Nope. for approximently the first two years, girls normally have irregular periods... so its completly and totally fine. but if you had unprotected sex and you have reason to be pregnent... check iT ouT! i also used to skip my period because i had an eating disorder... so if you dont get enough fOod... could be because of that 2! hope i heled ya hUn! happy valentines day!
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I saw someone ask a question about an itchy pubic area and someone answered with it could be `crabs`. Im scared i might have it!! what is it and how do you know if you have it?? what happens if you DO have it? Please help!! Where does it come from and stuff?

Pubic lice (PHTHIRUS PUBIS) are six-legged creatures that infest the hair in the pubic area. They can also infest other body hair, but they prefer the pubic region. Pubic lice infestation, called pediculosis, is considered a sexually transmitted disease (STD), but it can be contracted in other ways. It's possible to be infested with pubic lice and have no symptoms, but itching is usually present. This can worsen at night when the louse becomes active and buries its head inside a pubic hair follicle to feed on human blood. It excretes a substance that causes the itching. Sometimes the bite can cause the area to become inflamed and turn bluish gray. Although lice themselves do not cause a rash, the constant itching and scratching can cause the area to become raw, resulting in a secondary bacterial infection. Scratching also can aid the spread of lice.

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I know I have a sleeping disorder, I have too. I don't get enough sleep and I always feel run down. I have a busy schedule and I barely get 4 hours a sleep a night. Mostly I have time to sleep but I can't go to sleep. Its like I fight my sleep or anything. I could be in a room so dark and not be able to fall asleep. I would just stare at nothing. And I take stuff to go to sleep but it really messes me up in the day. What can I do?

Thats called insomnia... i have a busy schedule too... and when i come home i am so exhausted.. i can instantly fall asleep. talk 2 your parents about it... and then you can talk to your doctor about it... i get about 4-5 hours a sleep a night 2... and thats just horrible i know... you shoudlnt have 2 suffer! :( talk 2 them... there is ways 2 help ya ouT!
good luck hun!
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I've had a really, really sore throat for the past 3 weeks, which was the last time I made out with someone. This kid was saying it sounded like when his friend had mono and that I should check it out, because I have some of the other symptoms of it as well [fatigue,headache,body aches,abdominal pain],but I wasn't sure if that's true because it has been three weeks.
Does anyone know if mono is a possibility?

Mono is definately a possibility! i have had mono before and those are all symptoms! you definately need to go get it checked out! its a blood test that dosent take to long... but you need to find out so you dont get anyone else sIck! :( good luck! and i hope u feel better if you have it!
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Noone at school likes me. I dont know why, im never mean to anyone but guys say im hot.. are people jealous? Naw i dont think they are because a lot of girls in my school are pretty. What should I do ? And how can i find out why people dont liek to be my firend

be yourself... being a girl myself i know how jelous and bitchy girls get... they get jealous of girls who are prettier, skinnier, better dressed then them... its just girls! if you let people know that your really not a huge stuck up "hot girl" then i'm sure they will like you... get an effort to get to know people, join an activity and be yourself! theres nobody thats going to honeslty tell you that people dont like to be your friend... so more importantly.. go make some friends... sMile aNd bE yOursElF!
good luck!
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OK im about to get my permit and I was just wondering what is the test like? and what do you have to do? (I've already read the book but I can't remember all the things)

well coming from me... i failed it twice... but i never paid attention in those drivers classes... if you really read the question...and look at all of the possible answers... think about it (theres not time limit!) you'll do fine... i live in mn and i'm guessing it might vary from state to state... but not by much! its embarresing to admit i failed it... because the questions were just common knowledge... stuff you pick up from just driving in the car with your parents... like... four way stops, bus situation... railroads.. pretty much common sense! you've read the book... so i know you'll do fIne! and not 2 be a pessimist... but if for some reason you fail it... go back the next day and take it... where i live... the questions are all exactly the same the next day! GOOD LUCK! hope i helped ya!
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I have been going out with my boyfriend for 6 months now and we havent done anything more than hold hands and hug. THe reason why i am affraid to go any further is because i am affraid that he is going to judge me because i have never made out with any body or anything, and he has. I am just scared i am not going to be able to do it right. What should i do?

hEy hUn! dont worry about it... sounds like your worried because your lack of experience... honestly before my first "make out session" LoL i was terrified... but as much as you might not believe me.. kissing comes so naturally... the first time it might seem a little awkward... but how do you know you dont know how 2 kiss if you never have?! :) don't strangle him with your tounge... dont keep your eyes open... watch out for his teeth... lol stuff im sure you've heard dozens of times before! gOOd luck BaBe!
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Is it bad if your boyfriends "belongings" smell a little bit wierd/mildewy...my boyfriend Chad wants me to give him oral sex well when he pushes my head down there**i start to gag a little bit....but i dont want to be rude or ne thing but it makes me gag a lot and its a tad bit undigesting!HELP i rate so high that it touches the sky!teehee

HeY hUn! uMM.. wOw... i am sorry LoL... yeah.. i dont know why it would smell?! does he shower...?! haha. tell him to wear a condom.. as you know there are many flavors so try that! good luck and i hope that works...?! LoL...
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hey. im going to ask my dad if he will take me to a dermatologist. im not scared about asking him though. what i really want to no before i do ask him is what they do when i go? (i have acne) and can they put me on pills or some lotion that will clear my face up?

They can definately help clear your skin up! they will put you on some sort of pill or lotion that will definately help your skin... it just depends on different things what you'll get... like kind of acne.. lol w stuff like that. whatever is best for your skin. theres nothing you really have to know.... i'm sure you know everything they'll ask you... the derma. will take care of that! good luck! going to see the derma. you will definately be glad that you did... it totally helps! hope i helped!
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