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okay..so i cannot eat right now. like i put food in my mouth andd im hungry but i can't swallow it. i feel fat, and i know im relaly not..that might be why im not eating. idk what im asking i just need some advice.. thanks ♥ :]
you should try talking to yourself and be like if i don't eat this i could become anorexic and that is NOT a good thing. convince yourself that by eating you are only being healthy and you will NOT get fat. as long as you are eating the right stuff, you'll be fine.
also if it gets really hard to eat try showing yourself some pictures of girls that are anorexic and VERY VERY thin. that should scare you into eating :]
good luck!
i LOVE Monster (the energy drink) and I drink it all the time. just yesterday my mom said she was concerned about it because she heard it stunts your growth, so now i can't drink it anymore. is this true? thank you SO MUCH!!!!!
well i don't know exactly about monster, but i do know that too much caffine can stunt your growth. so drinking a monster occasionally should be ok. but don't drink too many.
I am goin to my friend's sweet sixteen at a country club. What would be better to wear:
1) a sundress
2) a skirt with a top
i don't really want to go all out. i want to look hot, cute, you know. Any other suggestions will help!
i'd go with the sundress and flip flops :]
So I found this song on my itunes and I don't think it's under the right artist. I think it's called "This Beauty" and the chorus is-
burn the pages of the magazines.
i hate the way you look at me.
with every smile and every laugh,
there's something i will always lack.
Can anyone tell me the artist.
It's by amanda rogers.
=]
My boyfriend was jacking off, and he got cum on his hands.. and then he fingered me.
can you get pregnant from that ?
yes its definitely possible. his cum could have gotten inside your body when he was fingering you. so i'd take a pregnancy test to make sure.
i have bumbs on my forhead, but its not acne. i have Proactive, and it doesnt help the little bumbs. my face is brokenout really bad right now. i have one of those pimple things that look really hard and its big, but its not a pimple. is there any make up ideas i can try to cover it up. i use liqiud make up, but i think im going to change to powder. is that what i have to do? && any ideas to make those little non pimple bumbs go away?.. thanks!!!
for makeup i would use a cream foundation with a powder over it to set it in.
try this cream foundation:
http://www.covergirl.com/cgcollection/face/foundation/aqua.jhtml
and this powder:
http://www.covergirl.com/cgcollection/face/foundation/simplypowder1.jhtml
im 15 soon to be 16. i get 15$ a week from my parents, but if i need more, they give it to me. i kidna want to get a job in the summer, but my mom and dad said i dont have to get a job untill im 19 cause thats the age my sister did.
but i want to buy my own cloths. so does anyone know places i can get cute/preppyish cloths for cheep?.. i love hollister, but i cant buy the stuff there on my own. so any ideas of cheep cute clothing stores will be BIG help!.. thanks!!!!*
forever 21
wet seal
charlotte russe
H&M
aeropostale
and just look around other stores that you like that might be a bit expensive but check the sale racks :]
sometimes there is some really cute stuff there!
So there is this guy that likes me. Ours families are good family friends and we live close to eachother. The thing is, i like him, but in some ways i don't. Like i kinda feel like i shouldn't go out with neighbors cause i need some like..personal space i guess you could say. We're also the highlight of mostly all the conversation between the parents its really annoying. Its weird cause i like really like him when i'm alone with him but when were apart he can annoy me. And i dont know why!
if i were you i'd just continue to stay friends for a little while and see how things go. give yourself like 2 weeks to figure out what you want to do. because remember if you do go out with him, your families will ALWAYS remember that. lol. i'm not trying to scare you or anything, but its true.
also if you break up you don't want to ruin the friendship. about the personal space, i wouldn't really worry about that because its not like he will actually be with you all the time, just in the your neighborhood. so you will still have your personal space. plus since he lives close by it will make it easier to see it each other & its easy for sneaking out at night ;] haha
just give yourself some time to sort out your feelings and when you make a decision make sure its the one that you really want.
GOOD LUCK!!
ok....I think i am BI.....i know it is a weird question but how do you know....I mean I think i am.....but i am not sure....I love boys and girls....but i could never think of kissing a girl....thats the weird part....I haen't made out with a boy.....but it has come close....So how do you know...........?
well to start off you might not actually be bi. it is normal, especially during teen years, to kind of "check out" other girls. a lot of the time it is just checking out kind've the 'competition' and also you might just think that she is really pretty. like you notice when your best girl friend got a new haircut right? like that, you notice things. and you don't find it weird when other girls compliment your outfit, that doesn't make you assume they are bi.
but you never know, your could be bi. well you say you never can see yourself kissing a girl, well do you normally see yourself kissing guys? or does it just happen? you might not ever think of kissing a girl, but when the moment comes you never know what you'll want to do.
i know this might not be much help, but there is really no way to tell. its up to you to find out if you are. and there is nothing wrong with you if you are bi. one of my best guy friends is bi and i still love him to death.
Knowing your bi will just come naturally. for now your not, but later you might become bi. just live your life as you are and you'll figure it out sooner or later :]
how do you shake your shoulders really fast? i can only do it slowly, so how do you do it fast?
like shimmying? lol.
because i've been dancing for 7 years and i'm pretty sure thats what you're talking about.
well there is no way to get faster right away. you need to start off slow but make sure you're doing it correctly. so slow but good. and then slowly start doing them faster.
give it some time, and it will get easier.
i just got my first period on saturday, and the weird thing about it is that the blood doesn't come out on the pad or in my underwear, only if i wipe or put a tampon in. does anyone know why this happens? thank youu!
don't worry :]
this is normal. you just didn't give it enough time for it to get on your pad. if you hadn't wiped or put on a tampon it would have gotten on the pad eventually.
the blood during your period is thick and doesn't just like 'pour' out lol.
inthe movie Disturbia.. (amazing movie!) does anyone know what the song was that was playing when he was alone because of house arrest? it was something about being lonely.. thanks!!
lonely day - by System of a Down
i love that song & the movie :]
okay so i've been going out with my boyfriend for 11 months and i have a problem. i don't talk to his parents that much, like i say hi, how are you? but not usually a conversation. it's not because i'm ignoring them it's just i don't know how to start a conversation with them. i almost feel awkward talking to them. if anyone can help i would appreciate it! thanks
well when you go to his house just say hi like you always do. then you can ask them something about your boyfriend, like "do you know when _____'s next [baseball] game is?" or something like that. then they will answer and the conversation will just continue.
or if they ask you a question instead of just answering with yes or no, actually say whats on your mind and maybe ask them a question about it too.
it will start off hard, but it gets easier the more you do it. plus his parents will really appreciate it :]
i know my parents love it when our boyfriends talk to them!
Hi
is there anywhere online, like a website, where you can upload pictures from your computer and they turn them into ASCII art, in color? that is free? or its okay if its not in color. not an HTML converter, and ASCII converter and also, if you need to paste a URL instead of up-loading the picture from your computer, where free online can i get a URL for my pictures?
thank you so much!!
any answers are very much appreciated!!!
well i don't know about the first part, but to get a URL for your picture try these sites:
www.tinypic.com
www.imageshack.us
www.photobucket.com
um me and my boyfriend both want to make out.. it's both of our first time and do you have any good places where we should do it? and if u say movie theater can u put a good movie???
yeah def. a movie theater.
well i was going to say that Disturbia is an AMAZING movie, but idk if its such a good makeout movie because it is really scary. lol.
but maybe that can be your excuse for being really close to each other ;]
Hey! I was wondering, would you all rather get an ipod nano or a coach tote for you 15th bday? thanks!
iPod nano :]
Me and my boyfriend havent been together very long, but April 27th is his birthday. He doesn't want me to get him anything, but I want to atleast get him something. Its his birthday. He told me that he had all he wanted for his birthday...me. He said all he wanted was to go to the mall and watch a movie or something. If it was okay with my parents.(he can drive) I want to get him something, I've known him all my life, I know what kind of cologne he wears and everything..Heres somethings he's into..I don't know what I should get him, I'm also kinda on a low budget...$50-$60
He wears
Curve Cologne
Fox
American Eagle
Aeropostle
He's into
4wheelers
fox
roosters..( a little)
please help i dont know whether to get him something or nothing...:S
well you could always get him his favorite cologne. or if you want to be really creative get a picture of the two of you and decorate a picture frame. or make a scrapbook of you two, since you said you've known him your whole life.
good luck :]
what do sophies look like? like a picture of them please. and could you wear them over a baathing suit?
ok well since you already got a bunch of answers i won't send you another picture :]
but yeah i LOVE them and i have like a million pairs lol. they look cute over a bathing suit, for working out/running, or just to wear during the summmer. but what i do is i roll mine up 1 or 2 times so that way they are cuter and more fitted ;]
i have a set of friends that i love to hang out with!!! they are awesome! When i am around (her) she tells me i am stupid and stuff like that! but she is a great firned to hang with! But i have another set of friends that are fun to hang with and totally accept me for who i am, and can relate to me problems, my other friend can't relate at all.....what should I do??? The one who can't relate feels like i am betraying her! and the other ones i hang with more and they arent mad.....what should i do?
you kind of answered your own question here. You should definitly hang out with the friends who accept you, are fun to hang out with, and can relate to your problems. why would you want to be friends with someone who calls you stuipd and who you can't relate with. your other "friend" who thinks you are betraying her is just jealous that you have other friends besides her.
so just become better friends with the other group of friends who you can relate to :]
ok...why do you do this...answering strangers questions.......for fun...cause you like to help people.....or what.........i mean i love to give advice!!!! all my friends have problems and they come to me....i either want to be a social worker or a guidence counsler.......so why do you do this????
I guess i do this for a lot of reasons. One reason is yes for fun :] i thinks its actually fun to help people and make their lives a little easier. I also do it just because i like to help people. I know that when i have a problem i wish i could ask thousands of people for their advice! so I figured this is a great way to do it!
And thats great that you want to be a social worker or a guidance counsler! they seem like really demanding yet helpful jobs that would make you feel so good about yourself because you get to help people all the time!