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Hey Guys! It has been FOREVER! :(

But I'm back! (as of October 08) If you don't know or remember me my name is Ashley :) Currently 16 years old and a junior in highschool. I don't complain much and you'll always see a smile on my face.

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE don't be shy with asking to my inbox. I'll do my best to answer any question with any subject :)

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advice

what does it mean when a guy tells a girl she looks like a freak (in sex terms).
haha like i was at this one party and we were just goofying off. we started playing "never have i ever" and the topic sex came up. and haha they accused me of having done stuff in the "sex closet" (yes we have a sex closet). the one guy was like (jokingly) "dude i bet that girl is sucha a freak, like in sex terms." and he was like "dude she even just looks like one too! haha" but he was REALLY nice and stuff, he wasn't saying it to be mean.. i could tell

and i was like wtf? did he think i was ugly or something? please help

It means you get really kinky and your good in bed.

Ever heard those lyrics..? "I wanna lady in the streets but a freak in the sheets."

Hope that helped.

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15/f. what is some makeup that i could apply that would make my eyes appear wider?? like what shades of eyeliner and where to apply it, or eyeshadow and mascara even. and if it helps i have blue eyes and dirty blonde hair.

thanks!

Sit back cause this is gonna be a long answer. =]

1. First apply your basic make-up like foundation, blush and your lip gloss.

2. Dab a little foundation under your eyes that is a shade lighter than your skin tone. This will make your eyes instantly brighter.

3. Create a smoky eye look (that's a darker shade closer to your eye and adding lighter shades all the way up to your brow, and for this effect the color under your brow should be white.)

4. Apply a white eyeliner. This is the number one tip to making your eyes appear wider and more awake. It will instantly make your eyes bigger. You can find white eyeliner at alomost any drug store or makeup store that you'd buy your other makeup at.

5. Apply a mascara that makes your eyelashes look longer, not fuller. Making them longer will give your eyes a better "awake" effect than making them fuller will. Making them fuller will just make your face look too drastic.

6. If your eyes are a bit red when you wake up, use some cooling eyedrops.

Also if you add a small amount of shimmer powder under your eyes, your eyes will look alot brighter.

But don't try to apply a dark colored eye shadow with the white eyeliner, you'll probably come out looking wierd because your eyes will look bigger but too drastic.

Hope I helped!

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Hi, i am 14 and my boyfriend and i have een thinking about having sex for the 1st time. i really want to becasue i have done shit him, and we tink that it would be fun to have sex, should we or should we not?

Sweetie, when you can't spell words like 'because' or use proper grammer, 'shit him.' Then you are not mature enough to have sex. Also if you have to ask on a website then you know your not ready.

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So I have a 22 year old brother. I have no clue what to get him for Christmas. I've asked him many times what he wants and he says any book or cd. He enjoys reading and is in his own band. So any ideas on books or cds would be amazing! or anything else a 22 year old boy might like!

Send me a message to my inbox telling me what type of music and books he likes. Like mystery, romance, etc. Then I could give you specifics. Thanks.

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can someone tell me honestley through expierience how much getting your belly button pierced hurts on a scale of 1-10.

Everyone handles pain differently.

For me it was about a 6, then it's sore for about a week. It hurts if you roll on your stomach in your sleep of if someone bumps you etc. But it's worth it so I'd get it done. =]

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what's a ghetto? the dictionaries all have like scientific words that don't make sense

1. (n.) an impoverished, neglected, or otherwise disadvantaged residential area of a city, usually troubled by a disproportionately large amount of crime.

Or when people say they are from the ghetto or whatever, they want you to think they are 'tough' or 'gangster.'

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can anyone send me a website with pictures of nice bangs? thanks

I found the perfect site for you. It gives you information about every type of bangs you can think of since I'm not sure what your looking for. The other links are just pictures of haircuts that I thought were cute. Enjoy! =]

http://www.hairboutique.com/tips/tip18018.htm




http://z.about.com/d/beauty/1/0/-/G/hilaryduffcurly.jpg

http://cdn-channels.netscape.com/gallery/i/j/jones2/lg1a.jpg

http://img.timeinc.net/instyle/images/v2/makeover/110205_ritchie_0305.jpg

http://www.hrhairstyles.com/LongFullBangs.jpg

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I know this is going to sound random but w/e.
How do I go about asking my boyfriend if we can have sex without asking him straight up?
Any tips are appreciated.♥

Believe me, guys don't care how you ask them if it's about sex.

Plus if you guys are mature enough to have sex, you both should be mature about talking about it first.

Goodluck.

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Okayy my best friend recently started to shop at hollister. So i thought i would get her stuff from there for christmas. But see im not really the "preppy" type so i wouldnt know what to pick out from there that would be cute and she would like. So what are some of the things you like. Pictures would be appreciated.
thankss.

I love hollister but their perfume is horrible in my taste. The guys perfume smells good but I'm guessing your friend is not a guy, so skip the perfume.

But anyway, here are some cute ideas for your friend.

http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_308917_-1_12627_12552

http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_304022_-1_12608_12552

http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_227744_-1_12595_12552

http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_308773_-1_12619_12552

http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_312018_-1_12600_12552

I gave you a variety of things like tops to a skirt etc.

I hope I helped

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I think Im pregnant and i dont know what to do. My boyfriend really wants me to have a kid and at times I do to but i feel like im to young and im not ready. I dont believe in abortion. What do i do!?

If you dont believe in abortion then theres only a couple things you can do. Keep the baby or adoption.

Sit down with your boyfriend, his parents, and your parents.

Talk about what would be best for you, your boyfriend, and the baby. Think about if your not ready to take care of another persons life 24/7. But growing up in multiple fostor homes isnt such a great life.

You just need to talk about it all and come up with the best answer. If your still in highschool, think about your studies and how that would complicate things.

Good luck.

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To start im 13 and im a girl.

Ok well I was really good friends with this guy. We will call him C. So he was like my best friend, then I started to like him a little. so after i startedto like him I was determinded I was not going to go out with him cause it would ruin our friendship. But he was always playing with my hair and flirting with me then one day he wrote me a really sweet note about how he had always like me because Im nice and Im easy to talk to and stuff like that. The next day when we were on thanks giving break he asked me out over text message so I said yes.

Then later it was so weird going out with my bestfriend that i dumped him after only a week by writing him a note. It made him mad that I didnt say it to his face even though he asked me out by text msg. Well I moved on and forgot about him, but it has been a month since we broke up and he is still writing things about me on his myspace about how he only went out with me to make someone jealous and how im annoying. He wont talk to me anymore either.

what does this mean? what should i do?

Pull him aside one day in private and just tell him that its really immature what hes doing. Theres no reason to say anything about you, its normal for people to breakup and its so stupid when guys get all embaressed cause they got dumped. His feelings are probably just hurt so either talk to him or just give it some time. Good luck!

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what does mamacita mean?

Mom.

People use it as hot though sometimes.

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i wear an Avenged sevenfold hoodie and i've put a coulpe buttons on the pockets i have a Grr and Gaz buttons,some geeky World of warcraft buttons, some Halo buttons and some Suburban legend buttons is that ok or should i take the buttons off?

If thats what you like, go for it!

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simple questions,
what are senoirs and junoirs(what ages are they and what grades) and who goes to prom; all of them?

what grades are in high school, middle school, and elementary school students?

SENIORS: 17-18 (Grade 12)

JUNIORS: 16-17 (Grade 11)

Both seniors and juniors go to prom.

ELEMENTARY: Kindergarden, grade 1,2,3,4,5 and 6 is optional to stay or go to middle school.

MIDDLE STORE: grade 6(optional),7,8.

HIGHSCHOOL: 9,10,11,12.

Hope I helped.

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i am 15 and for the past 3 weeks i've been straightening my hair and i've got mixed responses
to it and i just wanted to know should i keep straightening my hair?

I think its fine. I have a few friends who straighten their hair and they are all straight. So dont worry about it.

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Well, okay. I had about 3-4 best friends. And I used to sit with them at lunch. Recently, I haven't been sitting with them because nobody talks to me even when I try to strike up a conversation. So now it's even worse. None of my friend's talk to me. Well, they talk to me sometimes, but not like 'your my best friend' anymore. One of my friends, David, doesn't talk to me at ALL. So I sat with them at lunch again and things went back to normal.

But I wonder - are they really good friends in the first place at all if they don't talk to me when they see me unless I sit with them at lunch?

Well maybe they feel you didnt wanna be their friend because you havnt sat with them lately. If they arnt being rude to you or ignoring you I wouldnt worry about it. I mean just start sitting with them more and your friendships will probably grow back to how it used to be. Goodluck.

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Is it normal for girls to have hair on their back and front like men? My sister's only 11 and she has hair everywhere but when I see girls at the beach they don't have hair (And I looked really close at the blonds because their hair is see through). My friend doesn't think so but just to be sure.

Everyone has peach fuzz pretty much everywhere on their body. Maybe some people more than others but everyone has it.

Usually girls with darker hair have hair that shows up more, so maybe talk to your Mom and see what she thinks if your still worried its not supposed to be there but my advice would be not to worry about. Shes probably starting puberty right now and going through an awkward stage.
Goodluck.

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15/f

its saturday today, and on monday i need to have 4 big assignments done that i just got yesterday. I'm also a piano student, and im taking piano academics in my Rudiments 2. I'm not ready, but i want to be. It'd really help if you had any tips on how i could study, becuase i get really distracted with things.(Once i get on the computer(like right not) i cant get off!)

this exam is next friday, I know i'm going to fail, but ive been doing it for 2 yrs.

p.s. im really busy and id rather do things with my friends then study.

Turn off the cellphoone, TV, music and any other distractions. Put your cell in another room or ask a parent or sibling to hold it for you.
As for the computer, ask a parent to turn off your internet temporarily so you dont have the temptation. That works for me really well.
Goodluck.

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Hi I have a very red pimple, is there anything I can use besides toothpaste that would help reduce the redness?

This is what I do.
I turn the water on really really hot.
Get a cotton ball and soak it with the hot water.
Then right away push it on the pimple.
Hold it there till the cotton ball isnt hot anymore.
I do that like twice then pat the spot dry and use my foundation which is liquid.
Then put powder coverup on over it.
It should work if you have good makeup.
Then you cant really see the redness that much.
Goodluck.

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I kissed anotehr guy when i was going out with my boyfriend of one month yesterday. I FEEL HORRIBLE ive never done that before and i feel the worst, anyways i told him and he broke up with me but he said he still wants to be friends and im going to have to earn his trust back, but the thing is i really like this guy that i kissed.I liked him before and now he likes me back. Me and my ex cant EVEN TALK to each other hes so shy but i feel like i should give him a chance becuase hes SO CUTE and ive liked him for a long time. He feels right to be with, but this other guy i am SO COMFORTABLE around, i can really just be myself and my ex not so much. i have no idea what to do! if anybody needs any pther details please tell me but should i give me ex another try or go out with the guy i kissed? I would have to work my way to my ex. HELP!

Well I hate to say it but you and your ex's relationship is kinda ruined. He wouldnt trust you now so thats probably not a good idea to go out with him again.

As for the other guy that you kissed. Wait awhile before you go out with ANYONE. you just got broken up with and that would probably make you look not so good. So just be single for a little while and if its meant to be then it will happen.

Goodluck.

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