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Want to have it
Hi, i am 14 and my boyfriend and i have een thinking about having sex for the 1st time. i really want to becasue i have done shit him, and we tink that it would be fun to have sex, should we or should we not?
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If you don't know without asking advicenators, then you aren't really ready. Also, just in my opinion, you are too young, and if something went wrong, do you really want to be a mother at 14? Just something to think about, but I definitely say don't do it.
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id say not. youre still a little kid. like it or not.
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Sweetie, when you can't spell words like 'because' or use proper grammer, 'shit him.' Then you are not mature enough to have sex. Also if you have to ask on a website then you know your not ready.
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You have done shit him?
You took a crap on him?
Uh, ew.
No, you're 14...
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there are other things to do besides sex but are you sure your not to young and only you can decide if your ready or not and just think about it theres stds now more common than ever theres pregnecy and other conquenses and complications that come along with having sex and once you give away your virginty you can never have it back you so before you do please think about it it also makes your relationship much more complicated so just think are you ready to deal with all that follows after sex hope i helped and good luck
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You shouldn't have sex just to have sex. Sex is supposed to be meaningful and loving. Trust me. I lost my virginity to a guy that I thought I loved. I figured I had waited a while and that I might as well just do it. It was a huge mistake. Most girls will regret having sex for the first time. Just make sure you are mentally ready for that kind of commitment and take care of yourself.
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fourteen is pretty young,
but sex is yur decision.
only have sex w. him
if you really love him tho.
because your virginity
is very precious.
so just make the right choice
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You're 14. If you want to do it then do it but if you really want advice for it then it just shows how "mature" you are.
I dont mean to sound like a bitch but its the truth. If you want to be HIV positive or have AIDS for the rest of your life and just throw it away.. go right ahead.
Another sign that you "aren't ready".. you say it's fun. Sex isn't about having fun, it's about love and commitment and knowing that the person is in it because they love you. Not so they can "get a piece."
There's a lot of risks in having sex. Pregnancy, diseases, dirty looks, mental breakdowns. These are amoung many things.
Another thing.. stay a virgin while you can. Believe me I made the mistake at 14ish and I wish I could take it back and still have it. Like somethings, your virginity you can't get back and if you're catholic it's sacred and it's a sin. Period. Also, girl's value their virginity.. well I know I do, now that it's gone. Believe me.. it's one of the best things you can have.
Tell me your decision.
Sara<3
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You are young but your not real young. If you think you want your first time to be with him and think it will go great then go ahead. I personally would wait a while..But if you do end up doing it...do it SAFE :)
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condoms and birth control!
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Fun to have sex? My dear, you're a teenager and so is your boyfriend. Hormones are running wild all over the place. Rethink about this carefully.
You could easily get STDs (And don't argue that he doesn't have any because he could from his dad or his mom's genes, and etc. Even if he is a virgin, he could have an STD unknown to him) Or get pregnant--condoms break all the time and even if he pulls out before he comes, pre cum is enough to get your pregnany.
You're only 14 and if you are fine with having a baby or STD when you're 14, fine with me. I mean you're going to bear all the burdens of a bad outcome yet he will just go find himself another girl. Wait until you find someone that you truely love and yes, that means after the age of at least 17.
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I think 14 is a little too young to be having sex., especially if it's just your first time. You've just only had two years as a teenager and everything, plus it's a big commitment. If your boyfriend leaves you or moves away, you'll feel a big part of yourself missing.
It's really up to you though. If you decide to do it, remember: use a condom!!
Hope all goes sexy (if... you plan to do it)
-Jenny C
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