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Hey my name is Caitlin I'm 14 and i love giving advice! I'm gunna be a freshman@ Bristol Plymouth
I LOVE: My boyfriend Dylanger♥ // my bestest friends♥// Fall Out Boy♥//Relient K♥// hanging with my friends♥// eating♥// cookies♥// talking on the phone♥// chatting online♥// taking pix♥// writing in my journal♥// swimming♥// the beach♥// music♥// taking walks♥// dunkies (dunkin donuts)♥// mountain dew♥// bike rides♥// going on adventures in the woods ♥//sneaking out♥// streaking♥// sleeping♥// singing♥// drawing♥// skating♥// cheering♥// shopping♥// money(which i never have!)♥// hot topic♥// tinkerbell♥// cartoons♥// t.v.♥// bologna and cheese!♥// DC shoes♥// PacSun♥// clothes♥// shoes♥// baking♥// candy♥// steak and cheese!♥// the Country Side♥// dancing in the rain♥// movies♥// ON DEMAND♥// downloading music♥// burning CD's♥// painting♥// kissing my boyfriend♥// making smoothies wid my bestest friend in the whole wide world... Brittny!♥// dirtbikes and quads.... wish i had one! :(♥// fireworks♥// the 4th of July♥// Halloween♥// ice cream♥// making stuff♥// doing hair and make-up♥// getting all dolled up for nothing♥// making fires♥// goin to the mall and the movies♥// roller coasters!♥// cotton candy♥// cook outs♥// summertime♥// snow♥// Hampton Beach♥// Henna tatoos♥// pizza♥// piercings♥// Target!♥// concerts♥// being me!♥// going crazy♥// snow boarding♥// skate boarding even tho i suck♥// parties♥// and a lot more♥//

I can relate to a lot of people and i know about a lot of different things ask me what ever you want and i can try and answer you the best i can!
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hey my first day of 8th grades coming up in like a week n idk what to wear! i got this cute white skirt from hollister n its like ruffled i guess you could say, n it has a little blue in it and i was thinking about wearing that with like a blue tank top an a white zip up type thing since were not allowed to show our shoulders..do you think thats okay? cuz im trying to wear new things this year n everyone always comments on my clothes but do you think its an okay first day outfit?

Yeah it soundz really cute maybe wear sum cute shoes and do your hair all fancy lol maybe a lil make-up if your into that lol but yea soundz madd cute and if ne 1 has sumtin rude to say bout your outfit juss ignore them and dont take it to heart k hunni hope i helped if u need n e thing else juss ask* Caitlin*

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Here's my story though it's kind of embarressing... For about 2-3 years now, I have had this clear slime come out my yeah, and I don't think it's normal, but is it somthing I need to REALLY WORRY ABOUT? I mean is it normal... It's like I am constantly wet (though I am still a Virgin and I haven't been there yet) and I hate it...so I wear baby powder down there to keep it from smelling just in case it does... any advice.....

Iz normal for all girls it may be a sign that u could be gettin your period soon and its called discharge so u kno lol u can do wat u r doin use baby powder down there lol hope i helped hun if u need n e thing juss ask* Caitlin*

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My boyfriend and I haven't been going out for that long. When we're kissing and really into it, he tries to finger me and I really am not ready for that right now. How do I explain/tell him I very much enjoy kissing him, but I don't want things to go too far just yet?

juss talk to hima nd be like i like kissing n making out and stuff but im not comfortable and ready to go n e farther then that at the moment maybe afta sum time i will be ready but u hafta give me time!! hope i helped if u need n e thing juss ask* Caitlin*

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well, my name is julia n i am 14 yrs old, im going to be a freshman this yr. and i wuz going out with this boy for 7 months straight n i rly started falling in love with him. we were both rly in love, n we wurr together all tha time. he wuznt juss my bf, he wuz my bestfriend, i told him everythingg!!...we even had sex...which wuz sumthn i alwayz told myself i wuldnt do until i wuz married, but i knew i rly loved him. then he broke up with me...he didnt even do it, he had his frend do it during tha summr, which wuz so horrible! i completely had a breakdown!! n its ben about two months and i seen him the othr day n hes saying how much he misses me n regrets it n that he still loves me. i rly wanna get bak with him but im not sure wut to do. i kno i culd never b with n e 1 else, n ill never love n e 1 else, but i juss kant believe wut he did. if hes willing to earn his trust bak it shuld last....right....? aw plz HELP MEE!! i cry everynite, i love him so much n miss him, i dont kno wut to do :(

well tell him how u feel bout him and ask him how he feels bout u now and see if u can make it work again im sure u can but juss talk to him and be straight up bout stuff and see wat he has 2 say k hunni hope i helped!! Caitlin*

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I love my boyfriend with all my heart. He is the best thing that ever happened to me, but he has this one little problem. He likes to play by the hand a little too much. He doesn't hurt me or anything, but like if I'm sitting at the computer, he will pass by me and knock me upside the head, or flick the back of my neck or something. It doesnt hurt but its really annoying. Sometimes I yell at him because i get so agrivated, but that doesnt seem to help. I also try telling him, but I just think its a really bad habit he has. How do I get him to stop.

sit him down and talk to him be like i kno your juss playin around but still u shouldnt be doin stuff liek that cuz u kno guyz are not spose to hit girlz so ask him if he can plz stop cuz it iz gettin to the point where u r becomin annoyed!!! hope i helped

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ok.. my birthday is on saterday.. well yea.. everyones asking me what i want and i say.. idk.. but i do know.. i just think it costs too much to ask a friend to get you.. but anyways.. i was wondering what i should tell people to get me.. i mean.. i already know the girls are going to get me like.. shower gel and stuff.. but the question is.. what would i ask a guy to get me? sorry it was so long.. :D

p.s. im pretty much a grlie girl so.. taht might help... maybe..



i willll rate ya :D

Juss be like n e thing and then they will prolly like give u money or suntin cuz guyz arnt to good wid pickin out stuff for girls unless theree iz a gilr helpin them u kno!!! hope i helped

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Hey! I have no clue what to get my boyfriend who is turning 16 for his birthday! (we've been together for almost 2 years) i don't want it to be something too original. plus i'm moving in two months :( so it to be something good he'll really remember! Please help! thanks!!!

well ok u can make him sumtin that he will neva forget there iz this website u can go to its
http://www.lovingyou.com/content/romance/?ID=ideas
it has a lotta kool stuff hope it helps!!!

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Hi! She's perfect. She's beautiful, shes smart, she's talented, she's funny. Problem: She's my best friend. I can't tell her how I feel because I don't want to ruin our friendship. I don't want our friendship to end because of how I feel about her. Now, if I was a guy, this wouldn't be so complicated. But I'm not. I'm a girl. And I want to tell her, but I don't know what would happen. Any suggestions? Let me know!!

Juss talk to her and tell her how u feel and im sure she will undastand!!! GOOD LUCK

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Ok me and my boyfriend just broke up on Friday. then on Monday some guy i like asked me out, but i still like my ex-boyfriend what should i say to the guy that asked me out?

Be like im juss gettin ova a break up and i need sum time b4 i get into anotha relationship k hun hope i helped if u need n e thing juss ask*

Caitlin*

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hey im 13 n goin into 8th grade n my bestfriend are really close n everything n hes asked me a couple of times if i would have sex wit him n i no it mite sound weird but i want to have sex..n ya with him but with neone i really don care like i wanna wait n everything but even by 9th im sure im gonna have it..but im afraid sumtin will go rong..i mean guys dont have to go thru half as much stuff girls do..soo wut should i do..? tell him ill do it or wait it out? im soo confused i need hellppp!!!

Well if u feel you are comfortable to have sex at 13 then by golly its your choice but your virginity iz a very important thing u dont wanna juss have it with sum random guy i mean my personal oppinion iz that u should be in a relationship with this person b4 u do n e thing of the sort i mean im gunna be 14 in sept. n like ive been wid my bf for more then 10 months and i have thought about having sex wid him a lot!! lol but i havnt i mean u can do otha things besides have sex and like wait it out till your atleast 15 or 16 u kno wat im sayin but it iz trully your choice and u hafta take a risk becuz yes stuff could go wrong like if u dont use protection but if your a smart girl u will but n e wayz and u coudl get sum kind of an STD u nko wat im sayin u juss hafta keep stuff like that in mind and think it though b4 u go n do it like think about it if u do have sex with him then sumtin happens like say u get into a fight or suntin like that u could ruin your friendship and worse could happen so do wat u feel iz comfortable and if u need n e thing else feel free to ask and i will be glad to answer n e of your otha questions k hunni!!!



Caitlin*

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im a 7th grader and i would like to know if it ok to date a 6th grader i mean hes cute and i talk to him but i dont want people to be all like mean and like talk about it the rest of my life. by the way im a girl....

No iz fine im goin into 8th grade and my bf iz goin into 7th and we have been togetha for ova 10 months so yea iz fine juss dont listen to wat ppl have to say!!! u kno wat i mean hope i helped if u need n e thing juss ask*

Caitlin*

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My friend, lets call her Sarah, is completely obsessed with her ex boyfriend. Ive been trying to tell her forever to try and get over him! Hes been such a jerk to her, and he broke up with her to immpress one of his friends. How low is that? How can i get it through her head that she can do better, and stop wasting her time dwelling on the past?

Juss be like your to good for him and he duznt deserve a girl like u there are plenty of otha fish in the see so juss try not to thing of him cuz he iz a real jerk and he iznt worth your time and u shouldnt cry ova sum stupid guy like him!! well hope i helped if u need n e thing juss ask*


Caitlin*

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Me (14) and my current boyfriend(14) have a had an on and off kind of relationship. like we've broken up 3 different times, but things seem like they're going down hill again for a 4th time. He's stopped saying he loves me when we get off the phone or off line. We dont' see each other all that much cuz he lives 45 minutes away from me ... and that kind of presents a problem. Especially now that im going into highschool. Its like a whole new world of oppurtunitys. He to is going into in highschool adn i think things are pretty much coming to an end between us, and that breaks my heart but at the same time im relived because i can be open to new experiences ... i love him but im not sure he's feeling what he says he feelings, how he says he feels and how he acts on those feelings are to different things .. i just don't know anymore ...

Its prolly hard bein in a long distance relationship so u should ask him how he feels bout all this and ask him duz he care bout u and duz he love u and iz he comitted to bein in a long distance relationship with u or would u betta off as juss friends stuff like that juss talk to him adn be straight up and tell him wats on your mind hope i helped if u need n e thing juss ask*

Caitlin*

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Ok, I babysit for a 5 and 7 year old. Whenever i watch them, they are always very loud and run through the house, just VERY obnoxious. lol. I can get them to sit down and watch a movie for about 15 minutes and then they get bored. They also play sports in their house, hockey on the floor, and play basketball in the hallway. Last time I watched them, they got in a fight... because of hockey (fist fight). Is there a way I can get them to calm down and not to be so loud? Or do something that will calm them down?

Well u could play games wid them and stuff like that maybe that would quiet them down and if u like let them pick a movie they really like then they might actually sit through the whole thing and maybe make them popcorn or suntin to watch the movie and stuff like that hope i helped if u need n e thing juss ask*

Caitlin*

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theres this boy n hes mi bestfrnd (13) n hes been mi bestfrnd since like 2 years ago ever since middle school...n ive talked to him about hookin up n he don care..he would hook up wit me..but if id hook up wit him tht would mean riskin our relationship as bestfrnds n i don wanna loose tht...but i wanna hook up wit him cuz i llike him a lil bit..but im holdin bak cuz he went out wit mi frnd n ever since they broke up all she talks about now is how much she misses him n how much she still likes him n i don wanna bring up tht we mite hook up..wut should i do..im 13

Well maybe u 2 r betta off as friends i kno how u feel like 2 years ago i liked my best guy friend but he sed he dint wanna risk our friendship so we dint go out and that was good cuz if we had we prolly wouldnt be friends now u kno wat i mean so do wat u feel iz right!! hope i helped if u need n e thing juss ask*

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hey! I was wondering if you had a dance team at your middle school or kno anyone who does. 3 of my friends and I are starting one this year and are sort of like the coaches/captins cuz we have to make up the dances, do tryouts and all that. We didnt know how much we would really do with the dance team though cuz all the other teams at our school are cheerleading (they cheer during the games and go to competition), baseball, soccer, and basketball. We knew we would try to go to competition, but if thats only a couple times during the year or whatever what else would we do? Oh and i saw that your column said that you were from massachusetts, im from southington, connecticut so maybe if your school has ever competed against connecticut you would know how often the competitions were, but im not sure if their just the state or what.

well unfortunately our cheer squad duznt go to competitons but im sure if u make a dance team u can look up on the web like stuff bout dance teams and when they have dance competions im sry i couldnt help u more but if u need n e thing else u can juss ask and i will be glad to answer your questions k hunni!!!



Caitlin*

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ok well ya c i have dis problem i really love this kid but i'm not sure if he really loves me even tho he told me he did how do i kno he'z tellin da truth? and he keepz sayin to blow him but i'm not lyk dat soo wut do i tell him?

ask him how he feels bout u then tell him how u feel bout him and be like i aint gunna blow u if u dont even like me or w/e cuz thz juss wrong and i wouldnt do it n e wayz cuz im not like dat and be like if u like me the way i like u we could maybe hook up and afta a lil while togetha maybe i will do suntin of that sort to u but dont juss jump into shyt u kno well hope i helped if u need n e thing juss ask*


Caitlin*

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When I first met the guy I like right now he would always tell me to call him and stuff and we'd always talk no matter where or what we were doing.Well now that school started we hardly talk but I still like hime very much.Well last Sat.when I was at his house we made out and he was holding me and stuff and when I said I was cold he would pull me closer you know he was very sweet! Well it's tues and I haven't talked to him since Sun.I like him alot and He makes me happy.But I hate calling him other then when he tells me too{{ i feel like im bugging him}} So..Should I call him?Im 13 female.

Yea u should call him lol oviously u like him and it seems like he likes u so y not juss call him and talk maybe if u wanna hook up wid him ask him how he feels bout u and tell him how u feel bout him!!! Hope i helped if u need n e thing juss ask*


Caitlin*

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How can i become a more confident person?

You hafta believe in yourself and dont care about wat any 1 else thinks juss stand out for wat i thinks right and dont let ne 1 tell u other wise but most importantant iz believing u can do it!!!
hope i helped if u need n e thing juss ask*


Caitlin

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does age matter cause im 13 almost 14 n i like a 17 year old n a 18 year old n my friend is bout ready to get me n the 18 year old out..plz help me

well i dunno kinda cuz there iz such a huge gap between your ages and yea but if u 2 do go out and do sexual thignz dont tell to many ppl bout it cuz that can be considered like rape or melastation u kno well juss kinda keep stuff to yourself if u do n e thing k hunni hope i helped if u need n e thing juss ask*


Caitlin

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