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I love my boyfriend with all my heart. He is the best thing that ever happened to me, but he has this one little problem. He likes to play by the hand a little too much. He doesn't hurt me or anything, but like if I'm sitting at the computer, he will pass by me and knock me upside the head, or flick the back of my neck or something. It doesnt hurt but its really annoying. Sometimes I yell at him because i get so agrivated, but that doesnt seem to help. I also try telling him, but I just think its a really bad habit he has. How do I get him to stop.
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just ignore him that usually works wait no it doesnt well at least for me sorry.
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Give him a taste of his own medicine. Do the same things that he does to you, to him. But make it ten times worse. Especially when he's doing something that he really loves, like watching his favorite show or playing video games or whatever. Just pick the times that it will aggravate him the most, and let him have it. Once you show him how annoying it is, then he'll stop doing it to you. Trust me it works!!!
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hey! tlk to him nice and calmly and ask him to stop .. if he askes why then you say well because i dont like it or it hurts ( even tho u said it didnt ) .. there are other ways to play around! hope i helped :)
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storageanddisposal what you mentioned is actualy not negative reinforcement, its punishment, alot of people get them confused so dont worry. negative reinforcement is when doing something good causes the bad to stop. so i start beating the crap out of you until you cross your fingers or soemthing like that. thats negative reinforcement for crossing your fingers. withdrawel of privalages is the best punishemnt in this case. tell him that next time he does it you wont make out with him for a week.
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Tell him gently that you don't like it when he does that. Everybody had problems, and apparantly this is his. If he's a good boyfriend he should stop when he realizes that you're serious. I hope I helped!
--Rachel
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You need to tell him that what he does aggravates you and to please stop it. Tell him it's destracting. You could also make a deal with him. Ask him if there's something that you do that annoys him and tell him that you will stop doing that if he stops playing by the hand. Also have a concequence for each of you or both of you if you break your deal.
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sit him down and talk to him be like i kno your juss playin around but still u shouldnt be doin stuff liek that cuz u kno guyz are not spose to hit girlz so ask him if he can plz stop cuz it iz gettin to the point where u r becomin annoyed!!! hope i helped
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okay, well, when does he ever listen?
lol. kidding. the next time he hits you, hit him back. but harder. pretend that it hurts you or something, so hed stop. since yelling at him doesnt work, he probably wont listen to you if you ask him nicely, so just hit him the fuck back. but then again.. hed probably hit you again.. and itll just turn into a big ass fight.. hmmm... interesting... yeah, i dont know what to tell you. grab him by his balls or something the next time he walks by and be like, the next time you fuckin put your hands on me, i will chop these bitches off!! lol
cuz you gangsta like that, you can do that
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Next time he does it, kick him in the crotch area. Do this everytime he does it. I guarantee, through negative reinforcement, he will eventually stop in fear of being kicked.
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