is there a difference between going out end being gf/bf?
i have been going out with this guy for a while and people say oh you two are going out right? and i dont know if he considers us bf/gf?
Well you could be just going out as friends.. So if you don`t know if you go together as boyfriend and girlfriend then i would be askin him.. ♥ Dez
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when i put on deoderant in the morning before i put my shirt on, it gets all over the shirt while i am putting it on. if i try to do it when my shirt is on, it is difficult to lift up my shirt. i do not want to use a spray deoderant, so please don't suggest that. how can i put it on eaisly with out getting it all over my shirt?
try gettin clear gel deoderant.. that shouldn`t show up on the shirt.. ♥ Dez
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So, there's this guy, and well obviously i like him, but i don't get a chance to talk to him that often. I mean I've talked to him before, but not like had a conversation. He doesn't seem to notice me that much, but i really want him too. Can you give me tips on how to get him to notice me?
Just go up and talk to him.. make it little conversation at first like say whats up ______ *his name*
How you doin? Don`t be shy open up a little bit hun.. ♥ Dez
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Hello my name is chelsey i am a 13/f i have this guy that i really really like and he really likes me and well honestly i have never really made out before and he has a lot of experiance and i don't know how to makeout!!! and he really wants to and i told him i wanted to too. And i mean i do but i'm scared because i don't know how to!!..Can someone please tell me the right way!! and not what to do and what to do!!!..PLEASE!! ~*I'LL RATE REALLY HIGH!!!*~
Thank you very much!!,
love you xox,
chel
Hey hun calm down..
Making out realy isn`t that hard.. Go with what he does.. here are some hints..
1..Swallow your spit before kissing..
2..Have decent breath..
3..don`t close your mouth while havin his tongue in your mouth cuz you don`t want to bite this guys tongue..
while kissin him maybe kiss his neck,ears.. rub the back of his neck/head.. ♥ Dez
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ok there's this boy and i really really like him but he likes this other girl we'll call Sue and Sue has a boyfriend but he (the guy i like) keeps flirting with her and sitting next to her talking to her etc. but when me and him are alone (not just the two of us but like me and him and other friends and sue not being there) i swear he's flirting with me and of course i flirt back cause i really like him. But i dunno how to see if he likes me or how to get his mind of Sue and on to me. I just don't know what to and i don't wanna just ask him out cause tha'd be kinda weird and plus i'm not like that so can someone please help me get his attention more on me than on her? thanks....
I`d just forget this guy but thats not answering your question..SO! Maybe make your flirting stronger and more playful.. so he gets the hint.. Maybe make some move on him like hold his hand it doesn`t have to be anything major something small.. ♥ Dez
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I'm 17. I've been dating my boyfriend for 4 months now. He's 24, and things couldn't be better. One problem. He's married to another woman. I had NO idea he was married when we got together 4 months ago. Had I known then what I know now, I wouldn't have ever kept up contact with him. So, I know, but he doesn't know I know. And I'm guessing the wife has NO idea about his infedility. I've known this for about two weeks. I taped us "in the act", in case I ever needed proof.
Question is: how should I go about handling this?
Should I bring it up to HIM first?
Should I somehow tell his WIFE? And if you think I should do that, in what form of communication do you think would be best?
Do you think I should just end the relationship suddenly without mentioning it to him, and then stay the hell away, or what?
I would like to know if MY significant other were up to no good. I know it's not so much my business, but I would have trouble living with myself knowing I kept such a drastic secret from a woman who has every right to know. :(
hey hun..
Well i think bringing this up to him first would be the best thing to do.. i wouldn`t tell his wife personally.. i think he should tell her.. You have the right to know the truth about this guy you go with.. DOn`t dump him without telling him.. find out whats wrong with his mariage and figure out what kind of guy this is cuz then you can also find out if he`s any good for you and see if he`ll do the same to you.. its your decision weather to stay with a guy who cheats.. also Yes if you decide to press charges he can get in trouble or a parent or gardian of yours.. but she can`t press the charges.. ♥ Dez
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Whats that one song called by death cab for cutie?? It goes like this: I want to live where soul meets body And let the sun rap its arms around me.
asap
Soul meets Body.. Don`t like that music to much but thats a good song.. ♥ Dez
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I was just wondering if anyone has tried spray-on tanning. I do not want to harm my skin with regular tanning, but I don't want to look white as a ghost either. So, how do they do it? Does it look fake? Will it streak or wash off? Does anyone recommend it?
My friend has got it done and to me she looked orange.. it looked horrible.. but when my aunt got it done it looked nice and there wasn`t no streaks or spots.. but i think it depends on your skin tone already and where or how you get it done.. i`d get it done at a salon like you said.. ask them some questions then decide from there weather to get it done or not.. ♥ Dez
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i want make out with my girlfriend.how do i get her to.
Move slow wit her.. first touch her like *Cuddling,holdin hands..* then when you feel the time is right just kiss her simply on her lips.. then maybe make the kiss more fun and open your mouth.. as you kiss her be sure to kiss on her neck and ears.. don`t touch her anywhere inappropriate unless she asks or puts your hands there.. ♥ Dez
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i was just wondering if this makes me fat.. because i think i am.. im 16 i weigh 107 and i wear size 5 pants.. just wondering what you think please be honest.
I`m 16 and i wear a size five pants sometimes.. And honestly i don`t think i`m fat nor skinny.. i think i`m perfect.. it might depend on your height.. ♥ Dez
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do guys really care about how big a girl's chest is?
guys please answerrrr !! .. and girls if you know the answer too..
Well all guys have there favorite body part on a girl.. it can be a butt,breast,legs or something else.. majority of guys will choose one of those three or all three.. Some actually like to have those but it doesn`t matter to them.. Some just look for what they want in personality.. ♥ Dez
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Is limewire free?
Yes.. ♥ Dez
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ok im 13 years old and i think i might be bisexual...i've had ALOT of boyfriends(like more then 30) I just moved from NY to LA Cali. I have a friend that is bi and latly when i hang out wiht her i feel these weird feelings for her. What should i do????
I rate4 HIGH!!
~LiLy~
Mazybe experience and see if you like it.. and yes my dear sounds like your bisexual Muah loves ya.. ♥ Dez need anymore advice hit me up in my inbox..
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I went to my high schools last football game for the season and there i was hanging out wiht my friends ((Guys)) and after half time my friend (ganna give u letters meber guys) E ask me if i wanted to talk a walk and i said yes. We went down to the beach because its right by my school and we were laughing and giggling and stuff... and we kissed(ALOT) there would be no problem with this if i didn't have a b/f and he didn't have a g/f... well that was last friday and today in school my friend Sarah ((a girl)) asked me if i wanted to go out to the movies this afternoon with me her E and my boy J i said yess but after ins tudy hall E asked me if i could make up a lie or something because he didn't want to go because he couldn't see me with J he said it made him to sad.
I feel so BaD! Help what should i do...I love my b/f but how can i make it easier for me to hang out wiht him with out making it feel weird between us??? please!! help me!
**Nikki**
Well i think you deff. need to tell your boyfriend about your friend E and you.. you shouldn`t keep that from somebody you love hun.. i know its something hard to bring up and tell him cuz you know it`ll hurt him and there is also a possibility that he might break up with you..But you can always try to be friends or work things out.. Maybe there is a reason for what happened between you and E and you just haven`t figured it out yet.. ♥ Dez if you need more advice hit me up in my inbox..
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I'm 13/m in jr high and I was wondering, how old is an appropriate age for sex? I've heard of people my age that have had sex, but I don't think 13 is an appropriate age, so..... how old should you be to have sex?
Yes i think 13 is young..
But i don`t really think there is a appropriate age to start age.. i think you should be in love with the person you have sex with and i don`t think doin it cuz everybody else is or some stupid reason like that is a good time or age.. I think if the person is ready for consequences that could possibly happen and are mature to take care of responsibilities then i think they are ready but until they have all that.. ♥ Dez
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I am getting my nose pierced and for all those that have had it done can you tell me if it hurts or not.
Hey hey hey.. Nopers it didnt hurt me.. i mean like for the next couple days after it was a bit sore but it wasn`t pain i couldn`t handle felt like it was bruised or like somebody hit me in my nose.. If your really worried bout it hurtin you can find some places that numb it for you.. its really as simple as gettin your ears pierced in my opinion.. anymore questions leave em in my inbox.. ♥ Dez
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When someone says you are a push over...what do they mean?
your easily tooken advantage of.. ♥ Dez
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Whats the difference between 'making love' and having sex?? thanks..
Okay i see alot of people have told you they mean the same just making love is a more proper way of sayin it.. personally i think they mean two different things.. *making love in my opinion means you have sex with somebody you love dearly and care for.. *Sex/fuck i think you have sex with them with no meaning but wanting some dick or pussy.. Yes a girl could have feelings for this guy but that doesn`t mean the male has the same for you so i wouldn`t consider it makin love if the feelings come from one side of the relationship.. ♥ Dez
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ive been TRYING to find out wut 'banging off' means, but this site keeps deleting my questions saying that im repeating, but how can i be repeating since they deleted any questions i ask before they get posted... idk im trying again... wut does banging off mean, getting high, or masterbation, or what? I keep hearing it around and i just laugh cuz i don kno wut to say. i rate 5's
I believe that it means masturbating.. ♥ Dez
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Hey I just had a smoke for the first time and like I smoked the entire thing (inhaling it) and I was fine but with the last two puffs, I felt it go down and then I was like light-headed for a bit.
I'm never going to do it again but is the light-headedness normal and how come it only happened at the last two hits?
Yes this can be normal.. maybe you inhaled to much or smoked the cigerette to fast.. ♥ Dez I don`t know why you rated me a 1 i personally think i don`t deserve that i would of rather not got rated at all.. i gave you more information then you knew to began with
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