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Getting Noticed
So, there's this guy, and well obviously i like him, but i don't get a chance to talk to him that often. I mean I've talked to him before, but not like had a conversation. He doesn't seem to notice me that much, but i really want him too. Can you give me tips on how to get him to notice me?
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well you are in luck! well...i have just gone through that! its tough, i know...and hard...but its all worth it in the end. Okay, first of all-for the basis of a friendship or something more, you need to have a conversation. Start out with stuff about school because that is the easy stuff. Say hi in the hallways. Smile and give comments. once you become a little more comfortable around him start talking about random stuff, like movies, get to know him better. a good relationship always starts off with a good friendship. if he doesn't respond to conversation then get in good with his friends (guys or girls) and if nothing works there then we are sorry to say that he probably isn't interested. You said you don't want to mess with your looks, but choose some clothing that isn't your normal style...something bold that makes you stand out in a good way (no slutty clothing--ewww) guys love it when girls laugh and smile so if he says a stupid joke still laugh anyway. guys want a girl that they know they can be comfortable around. dont be stupid either, don't play the dumb person, have a brain, but we know how hard it is to have one around the guy you like. random stuff comes out--it happens to the best of us. and most importantly just remember to just be yourself. you don't want to have a guy like you for someone your not. Hope that works. it did for me
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well try bumping in too him
like its an exident lol it
always works hehe or you
can jus go up too him and
talk too him and he figure
out your really cool and then
you can talk too him more
often ok !! hope i helped !!
♥ Samra
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notes screen names phone numbers give him alll those.
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wow you sound like me! :] well with this guy that I like he has cool long brown hair and i would always go on and on about how cool his hari was. so we made a game out of it ;) we have a "contest" where whoever touches the other persons hair first (everyday) wins and it's gotten us to be better friends! you can just go up to him when he's by himself and talk. just go over to him and say... "hey, what are you doing??" and just... talk! lol i know it's hard to find things to talk about so try music... or school... or teachers you hate! hope i helped if you have any questions feel free to drop one in my inbox xox
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Think of somethin you can conversate with him about, but while your talkin to him use eye contact. Wear lip gloss, makes them pay more attention lol
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As a guy, I notice girls more often when they talk to me. You should definitely try to talk to him more - if you're walking in the same way then talk to him, find out what sort of things he likes, then talk to him about them. If you make a point of talking to him when you can then he'll notice you more.
Good luck!
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Just go up and talk to him.. make it little conversation at first like say whats up ______ *his name*
How you doin? Don`t be shy open up a little bit hun.. ♥ Dez
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- Smile
- Wave
- Ask what his hobbies are, make a conversation, what music he likes, favourite song, what he does on the weekend
- Entertain him i.e. make him laugh
- Find out more about him which you will find interesting and he might think that you're a good listener
Good luck!
x Steph x
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