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I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.

I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

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me & my boyfriend are both virgins, we have done everythink else wev bin goin out 4 6 months. hes 16 and im 15. wel we had dry sex ages ago he came all over me and did sorta entr me 2 but only a little bit. aneways that was 2months ago i havent had a period since. can i be pregnant?

Your boyfriend entered your vagina. There is a risk for pregnancy. Take a pregnancy test. See a doctor.

Next time, get some birth control so scares like this don't happen.

If a girl has "dry sex" fully clothed with a guy who is also fully clothed is it possible for the guy to break her hymen (provided it was in tact already)?

Your hymen is inside your vagina. You can't break it from dry sex.

my cat has been having muscle spasiums what do I do?

Take it to the vet instead of sitting around and watching it suffer.

Do you think that it is ok to go to prom w/o a date? 17/f

Absolutely.

what is oral sex

This is something that should've been searched on Google.

okayyy..
so me and my mom both really want an iphone from ATT. and i just have a few questons about them..

1. how much do they cost??
2. is is true that you have to have internet on them for it to work??
3. i've heard that in the long run..they're cheaper than a regular phonee. is that true??

My brother has one. As far as I know, you do have to have internet mainly because the phone runs on wifi. If you want applications like Facebook, Twitter, and MySpace to work, you need internet.

If you're looking to get the new iPhone that just came out the other day, they're around $400 without an upgrade. But, if you sign for another 2 years or whatever, it's going to be about $200 (or so I'm told). I'm not exactly sure how much the first iPhone will run you, but I'm assuming it'll be a little cheaper because it's older.

As far as I know, they're not at all cheaper than a regular phone. When they first come out, people were shocked because bills were really expensive. I believe now they might be cheaper when it comes to billing, but I wouldn't say they're cheaper than a regular phone.

I would ask the person at the AT&T store for more information since they know more about their products and services and such. But in the meantime, I hope this helps.

so when i get fingered i get really wet and i dont know why cuz sometimes im not even turrned on, can something stop this? and do guys not like it?

Getting wet is your body's reaction to arousal. You can't stop it, and if a guy doesn't like when a girl gets wet, then he should play for the other team.

I went out with this boy but then we broke up i still had feelings for him so i asked him on a date and he said he was going to take his girl i was sad wath should i do?
Age 14

Get over him, and get over it. You're 14. You've got all the time in the world for boys.

i have a question, maybe you can help me out. i am 18 & he turns 20 this year. i dated my boyfriend for about 2 years & a half. we didnt have a healthy relationship so we took a 6 month break, now we are back together and everything is better then ever, but for some reason everytime i dream about him, he appears to be cheatinq. like hes with another qirl & he look happy in my dream with this qirl. i dont know what to think or say to him. ive asked him about it & he tells me he doesnt know why i dream that when it has nothinq to do with reality. what do you think ?

If your boyfriend has cheated before, this is the cause of your dreams. When someone has cheated and you stay together, you're scared of it happening again. Dreams can usually draw from a person's fears.

I wouldn't worry too much, but if you suspect he's cheating, I'd look into it.

My dad and I aren't close at all, but I don't want to be mean and just put "Happy Father's Day, Dad!" on the card I bought him. He is a decent guy, I guess, so he deserves SOMETHING to be written in the card from me. Anyone have any nice ideas? HELP!

Just because you and your dad aren't close doesn't mean you don't love him.

Just write "I love you, Happy Fathert's Day!"

My boyfriend and I have an age differences, I really didn't worry about it because I didn't think it was that big until my brother said something.
I was born:
March 20th 1994
He was born:
Oct 31st 1992

Nope. My boyfriend and I are 7 years apart. A year or two different is fine.

i dont really know if this question will go through or not..but it's worth a shot..and i dont really know how many people will..but hopefully some.

me and my mom just learned today that here next month..we'll be loosing our house. i know it's kinda weird asking this..but i need as much help as i can..

if anyone is willing to pray for me and my mom..i would greatly appreciate it..just pray that our loan get's accepted.

our family name is walker..we live in a small town in arkansas.

i know it dosent sound like much..but it's really important.

please and thank you. (:

I will most definitely pray for your family. I'm very sorry this is happening to you. I really hope your loan gets accepted. Good luck!

Like Taylor Swift says "I got tired of waiting, wondering if you were ever coming along...my faith in you was fading"

well anyway my question i guess is how many of you out there still have faith in love... and i guess what are some of your theories on finding it, keeping it, and losing it. feel free to rant and leave long philosophical answers... i wanna hear it

I most definitely have faith in love. For a while, I didn't because a lot of things in my life happened and totally killed it, but last May I ended up meeting someone that I really cared for, and he kind of restored faith. Now, we live together and our one year anniversary is next month. I moved 2000+ miles away to be with him. :) He's my everything, and I'm very happy to be with him. I couldn't ask for anything more.

As far as finding it, keeping it and losing it goes, it really all just takes work. Finding it just needs you to be patient. If you go out looking for it, chances are you won't find it. Just be yourself and don't worry about love, and chances are it'll come to you.

As for keeping it, every relationship needs work & effort. A relationship is a 2way street and cannot/will not work if only one person is trying. If there's a problem, talk it out to solve it. Everything just takes patience, time, effort and communication. Honesty works too. If you want a relationship to work, those are the key ingredients. Without that, you have no relationship.

Losing love - Hmmm.. Everyone at some point in their lives will lose someone they loved. Whether it's by death, the end of a friendship, divorce, breaking up - whatever, it happens. There is no way to avoid it, but just because you lose love with someone doesn't mean you won't find it again.

I would just be patient and have a little faith. You'll see it gets you pretty far if you keep an open mind.

17/m. me and my girlfriend's one month anniversary is in a weeks time. Alot of websites say "dont get a one month present" or "theres no such thing as a one month anniversary", but she asked me what i wanted. And for some reason, around here, one month anniversary's are a big thing?

She told me that none of her relationships have lasted longer than three weeks (she's only had three boyfriends, me being 4th). I like her ALOT, so what can i get her? Jewelery is probabaly too much yes?

thanks a lot :D

You don't have to get her anything. You could possibly make her a scrapbook but I guess that's something you would do around 6-12 months in.

Hmm, take her out on a date. Maybe take her to dinner at a nice restaurant and a movie. :) Write her a poem. I'm sure you don't need to buy her anything. 1 month isn't too significant of an anniversary. :) Just do something from your heart. She'll appreciate it.

What does the phrase, "Thats what she said" means?

It's just a joke to make something clean sound dirty.

They mostly use it on The Office as far I've seen. I don't know, I find it funny. But it takes a lot of attention to get someone with it.

Okay, I am 15/pregnant and I told my boyfriend that stress can cause a misscarriage and he still fights with me all the time. And I ask him what if the baby is with me (since we dont live together) and he says his first word and my boyfriend says, well i mean oh well im not going to be upset,it doesnt really matter. And then I finally see what my baby looks like (like a picture on the internet) and I tell him that the baby now has a head but no arms or legs yet and he says "ew thats nasty". I mean it's like he doesnt even care about me or the baby. What do I do?

Break up with him, and when you're done with your pregnancy, give the baby up for adoption. He's immature which is kind of expected if he's a teenager.

And you are too young to be having sex, let alone get pregnant. Find a family who needs the baby. You are in no way able to take care of a child because you're still a baby yourself.

is it illegal for a 16 year old to be dating an 18 year old?

No, but anything sexual is illegal and can get you both into trouble; more so him though.

do they make such a thing as fake nose piercing? like ones where its ring type thing. where can i get one, if they do?

They do.

You can probably find them at Spencer's Gifts or Claire's. I would do a google search and see what other stores sell them. Or ask around. :)

Well the title pretty much says it all.

I've come back from uni for the summer and I was tidying up the spareroom and found a tape in the machine. So i know it probably wasn't right of me to watch it but it turns out it was porn! I looked in one of his draws and there's like 7 tapes in there!

I really don't know what to do, I want him to stop doing it. But i don't know what to say to anyone? Or whether i should say anything at all?

I don't think it would bother me so much if he wasn't over 65!!!!!!!!!!!! It's disgusting!! And it's really on my mind loads.

we are moving house soon, so i was thinking maybe i could 'misplace' them in a bin somewhere and he wouldn't notice?

thanks in advance...

Your dad is well over the point of being an adult and can do as he pleases. You don't have to agree with his behavior but at least show him some repsect.

Humans have sexual needs and desires. He's only human. Get over it.

Edit:

I wouldn't react. My father is an adult and can do as he pleases. I am an adult and can do as I please. If my father wishes to watch porn, then good for him. I can't stop him so there's no point in being bothered by it. You can't tell him what to do. He brought you into the world and can take you right back out, so I'd suck it up.

when you shave your vagina. is it supposed to shave your entire area. or just the sides so theres still a strip of hair going down the center? how do guys prefer a girl to look down there? please dont say like there not gona care once your naked please help me! thankyou in advance

You can shave as much as you want or as little as you want. If you shave everything, that's fine. If you leave some, that's fine too. As far as guy's preference though, it depends on the guy. Everyone is different. But shaving is a personal decision so what you do when you shave your vagina is your decision and nobody elses.

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