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well i am a 15 years old girl that is soft hearted and i loves helping other people out. i love giving out advice. i can relate to a lot of peoples problems because i have been through a lot in my life. i have done a lot of stupid things in my life that i regert but i cant change the past but i can try to change the future. i love to dance and enjoy life to the fullest. i love my best friends to death i would do anything for them..




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I think that my sister likes my bf, if it helps- I'm 15/f, she's 16/f and he's 18/m. I know that he isn't interested in her because he tells me that he only has eyes for me. But, it seems that whenever him and I are going to go out and do something, she HAS to tag along. Movies, putt-putting, and she never has anyone go with us. So, she's like a third wheel! I dont' know how to tell her to leave us alone and let us do things on our own... HELP!

maybe try getting her a boyfriend so that she can leave you guys alone. or maybe let your bf bring on f his friends to go with your sister and then leave your sister and ur bf friend alone and then do whatever you want with your bf. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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hey people..lol..how do you let a guy know that you like him and that you want to go out with him..without saying "i like you"???

DeeMocha

the only way and the best way is to flirt a lot with him. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok well i have stared my period once and that was 3 months a go i have not had sex soo i am not pregnet! it worries me! i havent told my mom that i haent started in 3 months! because she know i have origanly started! is my body going haywire or somthing? and i gett alot of discharge still!

Haywired Body??

NO! dont worry. calm down it is normal for your period to be late. 4 a couple of years it will be lik that. there is nothing wrong with you. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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hey my name is precious,female,13.well i have these two guyfriends.they are so funtwo be around!But i like Both of them more than just a friend.when i'm wit josh we are so goofy i feel like i can float!when it's just me and cory we tease each other like girlfriend/boyfriend.but i told both of them i liked them two diferent years i messed BIG time! i need some advice!

i cant choice who you go out with because i dont know the guys but her are some questions you should think about: 1) which one respects you? 2)which make you feel better about your self? 3) which one is always ther 4 you no matter what? 4)which would you like to spend more time with? and last 5) which you like more? hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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I've always used a note to break up with someone because I'm shy and when I break up with my boyfriends, I wouldn't be able to look them in their face or be able to talk because I'd be so nervous. So my question is: What's the best way to break up with a guy? You know, like note, phone, in person, online?

i think face to face is better. take your boyfriend to a place where he and you can talk aone and tell him how you feel. yea it might be hard but you need to face your fear and do it. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Ok, I just started a diet and it's just a regular diet: Lowfat, lowsugar, smaller portions, watching what I'm eating and exercise. Well ever since I started the diet and I haven't really been hungry. And others times when I am hungry and eat, I feel like throwing up. And usually after going to the gym (just a 30 min. cardio workout), I really feel like I'm going to puke, even if I haven't eaten anything. What is wrong with me?!?!

no there isnt anything wrong with. it might because your body isnt used to how your eating what your doing. i think you should not worry about it for a couple of days if it doesnt change try seein a docotor or change your diet a little. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Hey, how do I uninstall yahoo messenger? I want to get rid of it. I have windows XP. please give me simple directions.

if you ever want to unistall anything i can tell you how. i have a windows xp also. you go to start and click on my computer. then a box should come out and on the left hand side find ADD OR REMOVE PROGRAMS. click on that then, another box should come out with a list of EVERY PROGRAM on your computer find the yahoo messanger and click remove. do what it tells you to do and then your done you uninstalled it. if you need any more help just drop it in my inbox i will be glad to help you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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im 13/f and i like a guy that is 16. i have known him since i was born and he was my sisters friend, but then we moved to dallas and now he still lives in seattle. so i just saw him a couple of days ago and now i like him ALOT and like idk wat to do. ive known him my whole! life! and like...he has a gf in california and hes had her for like a few yrs and like they see eachother every month! and like i want to move back to seattle not only b/c of him but my old friends and stuff too. so is there ne thing i can do to like make him like me or stay in touch. BTW i dont have his sn but my sister will get it but like i dont want to tlk to him on that b/c i never really talked to him. HELP!
p.s this is my sn if you can im me for more help! ilove50centmore and that is on aim! plzz help!!!

if you have nver really talked to him before then maybe that might be hard to do. try starting off as friends(which you already are) and get to know him more and get closer with him. then maybe he will like you more and then can maybe even go out with we. but dont do anything stupid like trying breaking them up it really isnt worth it. trust me! if he likes you more then his gf then he will leave her for you.

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look i kissed my boi_friend lastnight and me and him have been friends for a while and i felt like i kissed my brother. i dont no what i should do i asked one of my friends and she said that i should break up w/ him what should i do!

talk to him and tell him how you feel. dont break up with him or it might even ruin your friendship with him. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Is there any other website where you can get your pictures rated other then buddypic.com, there website doesnt except my pics. Thanks.

http://www.rateusa.com/ that is what i use. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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theirs this boy in my school adn i really really like him and i ahve 3 days to talk to him before school ends and i really wana but i dont kno how to go bout it so can someone help me as to what to do and say thanx if you can help as soon as possible thanx

xO`tha one and only me

lets see if it is the last couple of days of school maybe you can sign his yearbook and tell him how you feel if not mayb write him a note and explain. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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How do I steer the conversation while at lunch with someone whose wife has just died? I am in a club at work. I am meeting a man from this club for lunch and it is strictly club related. This man retired to care for his ailing wife. The day after he retired she died. What do you say to someone who just lost a loved one? I feel funny asking how he is doing...obviously he is doing horrible, his wife just died. My first impulse is to not mention her death at all but I have yet to offer my personal condolences. Outside of the club I do not know this man.

make him feel loved and cared for. if he bring it up about his wife be like yea she was loved but she is up there now and she is watchin out for you. she is in a better place right now. you cant change what happened in the past you have to move on. life doesnt end beause someone left this. tell that would he rather let her be here with him suffering and being in pain or die peacefully and be happy. i hope this helps you out. but remember dont bring up anything about his wife unless he says something.
*~Stephanie~*

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theirs about 2 weeks left of school and i told this boy i liked tht i liked him and he just told me he liked me 2 is it too late to hook up wit him?

i understand y you think it is too late because you only have 2 weeks of school, BuT if you really like this guy i think you can make it work out. you guys can spend sometime meeting up over the summer maybe even go to the same school next year like keep in touch him all summer. do you get me. i think you should hook up with him. i hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok i asked about the pool party im throwing..well i guess now i have to talk to my mom about getting tampons. how should i go about this? me and my mom are close, but i really never talk to her about my period.

just bring it up and talk to her about i. dont be scared about it. she will understand you because she went and still goes through the samething. i had to do the same thing except me and my mom arent close. we still arent but anyways, just bring it up and talk to her about it. hope this helpsyou out.
*~Stephanie~*

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I CANNOT break up with anyone. I used to be able to but now I just CAN'T! I can't stand the fact that I'm breaking up with someone that I still want to be friends with. Usually I have my friends break up with the guy for me, but it just doesn't seem...I dunno. The guy I want to break up with now is awesome and I CAN'T and i mean Can't stand to break up with him but I have my reasons and I want to. Does anyone have any ideas of how I can dump him with out being mean?

i think you8 should thiink twice about your reasons and think hard about them. and if you need to get over the fact that you are scared to break up with people.. you friends wont always be there for you when you get older(hopefully they are) you need to face your fears sooner or latetr. believe in yourself and you will be able to do it. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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are there any foods or types of foods that would help me lose some wieght?

i dont know what you really should eat but i know what you shouldnt. u shoukdnt eat, bread, rice, anthing that has floor or too much sweet in it. i know my cusion is on a diet right now al she eats is chicken and salad and it seems to be working. what i did is i ate whatever i wanted but 4 instacne say i had a whoile bowl of ice cream i only ate less then half of it. it doesnt matter what you it is HOW MUCH of it you eat. i hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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im sick of this
i want it all to end
take the gun to my head
what do you know im not dead
i wonder if someone will miss me
i wonder if someone will cry
but hey they will probably smile caz im now out of their lives
i dont know why im like this
i dont know why i said what i said
maybe its caz im crazy
thats what they said
these times are suppose to be the best in my life
im suppose to be happy thats what everyones said
happy yah thats right
why am i so sad and so empty inside
maybe i need someone to help me
but why would anyone want to help this girl get by?

i like the poem a lot mayb it is because i think of doin the samething to myself but in the end it reallyy isnt worth it wasting you once in a life time chance of living and just killing yourself because you dont wan to live it. but anyways the only thing i things i think you should change in it are in line 8 change said to say, in line 10 change said to say, line 11 suppose to supposed, and line 12 said to say. otherwise you did a greast job. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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well im seeing this guy and he might have a girlfriend he said he's on a break with her but do i believe him or not ?

this all depends on how much you like this guy. if your seeing him do you mean going out with him. if he is on break with ex or girlfriend whatever that means they r broken up and not together and if he still loves her and wants her back my advice to you is let him go and dont waste your time on him. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok so i know the problem but i dont know how to fix it, i dont know how to make my picture "100kb and jpg/jpeg... and its really frustrating so if you know how please respond asap thanks!

wht i do is i upload my picture to phototbucket.com and i make it smaller or you can use. tinypics.com. hope this helps you ut.
*~Stephanie~*

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Well, there is this girl that I'm okay friends with, but now don't really like her that much anymore. My boyfriend is starting to hang out with her more and talk to her more. Sometimes talking to her more on AOL than me. While I was away for two weeks my boyfriend went on a choir trip to Six Flags. Ashley (the girl that I'm okay friends with) and my boyfriend hung out the whole time. IE. Rode rides together, walked together, got food and ate it together. That doesn't make you're girlfriend feel very good, but now she's in his info. It's an inside joke with her, but surprisingly it's about the same lenght as me in his info. Well, my whole info is about him. Am I being stupid to be mad, that's what he said.

i understand how you feel. if your his gf he shhould be spenidng time with you caring for you lovign you showing you how much u measn him and so on. he should treat you like a priness. my advice is to talk to your bf and tell him how you feel. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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