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Q: ok so i finally got the nerve to talk to my crush..and we talked about sports and about what school we go to..but we dont go to the same high school he goes to an all boy and i go an all girl school..so i want to know what else i could talk to him about and mayb get a good conversation going on with him..please help!!!
Ask what him what he thinks of his if he likes it if he would like going to a school w/both boys n girls. anything rele works!! HaPpY NeW YeAr!!-trix

Q: omg.. ok there was this whole rumor going around at school that all of me and my friends are lesbians... well they only think that because a couple of my friends told them what we did at partys.. Its true what we did but its not true we are lesbians.. what should I do?????
Well you cant do anything if its true.. except deny.. but that'd be lying. I would just try and ignore it and not do it again-HaPpY NeW YeAr!!-trix

Q: i got invited to two things tonight. my boyfriend wants me to hang out with him and stuff. but a bunch of my friends want me to go to their party. half of the party my friends are going to don't like me and it's a sleepover. i want to stay at home tonight but there's no possible way i could get a ride home from a place 15 mins. away bc my parents will be wasted. but i want to go to both! what do i do! HELP!!
Why dont you bring your bf to their party? Or is it just a sleepover sort of thing.

Q: I hate school so much and i am trying to get in a new school but i think my principles hate me or something they are so mean to me and i cant stand it! Well I need someones help what would you do if you were in this situation?
All my teachers loved me ;) Only Mr.H realli liked anybody.. including me.. every teacher hated everybodi else.. as for my principles and student service teachers.. they hated me at my old school I just choose to be a ass to them.. it made my day. I no this isnt advice but.. ya annyways HaPpY NeW YeAr!!

Q: I am sick with the flu and my grandmother want to give me some medicine that they used to use in her childhood days.Viniger and greentea.how can i get out of this?quick i am getting my next treatment in 30 minutes!
If you get forced into.. then plug your nose.. you wont taste it as much

Q: I want to get a cell phone. My mom says if I can pay for it I can get one. Where can I get a inexpensive pre-paid flip phone? Right now I have like $30-$35 dollars. I know that isn't enough but I'm going to keep saving.
Go to the cellone thingie place in the mall

Q: I'm 13/f and I'm a little over 105 pounds. This is pretty normal, and I'm happy with my body, but my tummy has been a little pouchy lately and I want to know how trim it down because my uniform for track is spandex and is really tight and I don't like my stomach sticking out. If you have any ideas what I can do-----plz help!!!!!!
crunches

Q: Ok, this isn't exactly a friendship question, but i didn't know what else to put it under.
I'm going to turn 14 in about a month, and I'm in the 8th grade. This year my parents are letting me have a party, and I need some good party ideas for my age. Skating is out of the question because i had one for my 13th birthday party.
Any suggestions?
Have a dance.

Q: i sometimes feel uncomfortable singing infront of people! how do i over come this fear?!

signed,
Afraid2Sing
HaPpY NeW YeAr!! start off from lil groups then get bigger groups

Q: Since its winter time my face is getting very dry , does anyone know any good daily face moisturizers. Thanks
Use the lotion called skin milk

Q: This guy is like in love with me and he always sends me all these poems and qoutes on how much but im wit a guy t hat i already love and he rele gets sick of this other guy telling em how much he loves me..how can i get this guy to leave me alone i mean ii wanan still be friends with im but..i dont want him to love me anymore..

Love,

WAnt HiM To mOVe On
HaPpY NeW YeAr!! Tell him to stop and block him!

Q: okay im sorta new at this and i really need help so anyone that can i need to know how farr is too far on a first date?
I think making out might be a lil bit of a thrower atter.. but thats just me.. i think if u make out with someone on the first date is that you are just throwing youself at them.. so i think I wouldnt go any further then that~trix (plz rate) HaPpY NeW YeArS!!

Q: Ive been with my boyfriend for along time and he wants to have sex and i dont no i love him soo much and he loves me i no he does and everytime we r together its soo perfect and he said hes not guna force me but he thinks this will lock r relationship and then we ll be together forever and ii rele think hes telin the truth...should i do it?
Sexually confused..
Hey sexually confused.. i wouldnt do it if i were you it sounds like a old line that if you have sex that will only make the relationship stronger.. its true.. but not always what you could do is go to this site.. http://pediatrics.about.com/ and see if you are readi for sex-trix (plz rate) happy new year

Q: My cat came to my house as a stray she is was declawed... i put her with my kitten he isnt neuterd she is getting fatter how can i tell she is pregnant?
Feel her stomach and see if you feel anything-trix

Q: My friend cuts herself. And it really scares me she talks about killing herself sometimes. Like she thinks no one would miss her. Sometimes I wanna kill myself too but I realize how many people would miss me. But she doesn't seem to realize that. She doesn't cut herself often like she only did once but I am just scared it might become a habit. What should I do? And its not that serious enough to tell anybody yet and she would get really mad if I told anyone. I don't plan on doing anything until it gets worse like i see marks on her arms. What should I do to keep her happy and keep her not thinking about killing herself? I'm so scared right now please help me! I rate High and leave comments too!
Try not think about it.. you should get someone who is older then both of you and all 3 of you sit down and talk. Try and get everything sorted out and try to make things better. I know it'll be hard but you got to give it a shot-trix

Q: Ok heres the deal. I start off with a good friend whos real serious with school but still fun to be around. Then I start hangin with these other girls that are smart but fun too but more fun than the other girl. They dont hate eachother but they dont have much in common and they do things differently so I cant be their friend (to the fullest) at the same time. Do I go with my fun friends or my serious friend?
I would say it would be nice to go with both but if you feel you have to choose. I dont see why you cant be friends with both.. I would just have them all hang out and maybe they have something in common-trix (plz rate) happy new years

Q: i really like this guy and he likes me...we arent going out, but we flirt alot.. we go to the movies and we hookup alot..all our friends say we we should go out..but we never have..two days ago, my friend had a party and we snuck into her room and stated hooking up...he felt me up and ended up fingering me...yesterday i had my friends come over and i ended up giving him a hang job..is it ok that i have done all this stuff and that we havent gone out yet...
I wouldnt say its right.. but its okay.. i mean i would much rather say that you did that with your boyfriend rather then with a good friend.. but that was your call.. i would ask him out though.. trix (plz rate) happy new years

Q: my friend has adrinking problem and maybe even a drug problem! do you think there might be a reason he is turning to drugs and alcohol? becuz he does get teased by many for the way he acts! and if so is there any way i can comfort him or help him out?!

signed,
Friends 'til the end
He might be turning to that because he might be depressed.. not exactly the best way to solve it but some people turn to that.. like it comforts them or something. I would talk to him about telling him you care about him and point out all the bad things about that-trix (plz rate) happy new years

Q: Ok I have been trying to convince my parents in getting me a cell phone with minutes..not a plan. but they wont let me! how do I convince them into let me get one! I have saved up 100$ to by the phone I want..Tell me if this is or isnt a fair deal w/ my parents they buy the phone which is 150$ and then I pay for all the other stuff like the 40$ minute cards? is that fair or unfair??? please help me I M 14 and I reallllly want one..and I need one too!!!
*I rate really high if you give me good advice*
Well i didnt get one till i was 15 well a month before i was anyways. it was a welcome home present actually. But what you are saying sounds pretti fair to me. I think i convinced my rents w/the line "Well wouldnt it be nice to get ahold of me if i was out w/friends at the mall or hanging outside.. or just riding bike? I dont think i should always have moms cell because she may need it.. so just think on it.. k?" lol i said that.. i think that actually helped me.. try that-trix (plz rate) happy new years

Q: Does anybody know any good love songs, from a girl to a guy. for a long distance relationship??
o wow! im glad i came across this one. My boyfriend moved to 2 towns over.. it was only a half hour away but w/e lol its called a thousand miles-vanessa carlton or.. i would walk 1 thousand miles but idk who that is by .. i have alot more.. but they dont go w/the idea of long distance-trix (plz rate) happy new years

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My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"

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