what should you wear under the spandex you wear in volleyball??
a thong so you don`t see the panty lines.. ♥ Dez
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Ok well when iwas 5 i had a habit of biting my nails off. And now at 13, i have a habit or picking my ifingers like picking the skin off and making it bleed arround the cuticle and stuff. I know its gross. Whaever i do, hold suimthin on hit my hand, i cant stop ive tried everything please help
Well if you have the money get your nails done.. thats helped me alot alot.. ♥ Dez
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what happens...when yu want a boyfrend but no one seems to like yu? i need help
what can i do?
I`d just be patient.. Give it time.. you don`t want to jump in and out of relationships hun.. ♥ Dez
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my lips are always CHAPPED and DRY and PEELY! I use vaseline, and I try everything, but it doesn't seem to work. Any tips to make them nice and soft?
Try Carmex or blistex they seem to be the best for chapped lips.. Best of luck ♥ Dez
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It's a fairly simple question (I think) but I need some help! You could say I'm a pretty preppy girl... not like (omg I'm really flippin annoying and too perky and I'm stuck-up!) not that kind of preppy. But, I wear polos, jeans, cute shirts from like... american eagle, aeropostale, abercrombie and fitch etc., sweatpants all that stuff that's so called, "preppy". I also like chucks... converse, whatever you would like to call them! But... some people say that converse don't really go with the whole preppy look.
What do you think? Would it be okay if I got them?
Thanks always, Christine
Yea go ahead where what you want.. FOrget what people say.. ♥ Dez
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Say a girl and a guy that are dating have sex alot. If one night the girl didn't want to but the guy forced her to, is that still rape? Becuase she's had sex with him before, she just didn't feel like it right then.
Yes thats still considered RAPE! ♥ Dez
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If you aren't experianced I don't know if you want to read this.
My bf and I have been together for 1 year and 6 months and have been sexual active together for about 4 months.
Well he came over last night and we were fooling around and started having sex. Everything was going fine but then he started getting rough. It was getting to be wayyy too much for me so I told him to not be so hard. He didn't listen and just kept at it.
It got bad enough for me to where I broke out in tears and he still didn't slow down.
When he was about to finish off he took it out and cummed all over me adn my sheets. I usually don't have a problem with that but when we were done (or when he was done anyways) he wouldn't let me clean up. I wanted to take a shower so bad but he wouldn't let me. We just layed there and slept which was very uncomfortable for me because it was gross and sticky.
Now I don't know if I can be comfortable around him. He's never done anythign like this before. he always used to listen while we were in bed adn never went too fast or hard. I don't know what got over him. What should I do? 18/f
Well I`d discuss this with him and tell him how it is.. Tell him he made a very bad mistake of not listening to you.. Tell him he made you cry.. If he doesn`t agree with stayin slow with I`d suggest breakin up with him or just takin a break.. I know you wouldn`t want to take a break or break up cuz you`ve been together way to long for you guys to do thaT.. Just ask what got over him.. I`ve had rough sex before but thats cuz i liked it but i never had my boyfriend actually hurt me he listens to me when i say slow down or what not.. ♥ Dez
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how do i know if my love life is falling apart?
Well if things aren`t the same like things aren`t good with you and the person you love.. If you or the person you love acts different towards one another.. I`d think you`d pretty much know.. ♥ Dez
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Lately when I have been going to pee, which seems to be more and more often, it hurts and I can't control it. I'm not sure what it is, but if you help me out, I'll rate high!
hey i had this before.. I went to the doctor and he told me that i have drank probably too much pop.. Which made since cuz i was.. so that could be it.. Also i`d still go see your doctor to find out what it is.. ♥ Dez
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ok i had an abortion about 2 months ago.im back on bitrh control, my last period blood was red for like 1-2days then its was brown. ive been to the gyn to be treated for chilmidya and some other bacteria, the doc gave me meds, so that should be good right, now its about 1 week before my next period, im still taking my birth control and ive had brown spotting yesterday and today. what is wrong with me??? i need help.
This is probably normal since you had a abortion and everything.. Plus your period probably isn`t completely right yet so spotting is normal.. if it continues to long consult a doctor.. ♥ Dez
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My husband spends money almost non-stop, and we're going broke. I've tried several ways to stop him from spending like he does, but it's almost like it's an addiction for him. How can I get him to spend less money? I've shown him our budget and explain many times how important it is that we stick with it. Still, he's run our bank account into the negative twice in just a few months.
The best idea I've had is something like a pre-paid credit card. I'm not sure what I mean. For example, I put $100 on it, and he can spend and spend, but never go over his limit. Is there something like that? I'm open to any other ideas as well. Thanks!
This is what i`d do.. I`d open him a checking acount and put so much money he`s allowed to spend in there.. Might sound like you have to treat him like a child but he has to learn some how.. You can get a card for this or just give him checks.. Then have a seperate checking acount for like bills and what ever else you need money for.. ♥ Dez
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My dog has this giagantic bump on his forehead. The vet said that it was a siste (sp?) but it seems worse. Every time it gets bigger, he gets smaller, like skinnier. Is it affecting his eating habits?
Yea this could be affecting his eating.. I`d call the vet and ask them.. ♥ Dez
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Does anyone know of any sites where I can find sweat shirts or hoodies of bands besides their own sites? Some of the bands I want are:
Underoath
Fall Out Boy
From First to Last
Hawthorne Heights
All-American Rejects
Taking Back Sunday
Those are just some. But if you know of any websites that you can buy band clothing from besides their own sites id greatly appreciate it. Thank you so much you guys!
Try Hot Topic.. heres their website www.hottopic.com.. ♥ Dez
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im a f and i was wondering what does masturbation feel like or what is it?
Masturbating is pleasuring yourself.. Since your a female you`d do this by fingering yourself or rubbing your clitoris.. I can`t really tell you how if feels you can find out by doing it yourself tho.. ♥ Dez
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my bestfriend just told me that her boyfriend fingered her before, when they went to the movies. they havnt had sex. and well i dont know, im just curious to know what its like to be fingered. can someone please tell me their experience
I can`t explain it really i think finding out from experience would be better.. ♥ Dez
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my gf talks all the time on the phone about wanting to have sex and stuff, but when we're together she doesnt seem like it at all...any ideas? im sort of confused here
Well she sounds like a tease to me.. Ask her why she does that.. Maybe she don`t mind talkin about it but when its time to do it she gets shy and nervous.. Girls do that trust me.. So i`d just ask her whats up with it.. ♥ Dez
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Ok, well, this is sort of just asking guys, but girls, if you have a cute idea, i would love to hear it.
christmas...oh man. this is going to be like, the first time ive had a boyfriend on christmas, and i was thinking about doing "build-a-bear" for him, and get him a card. is that too...not good enough? should i get him something more "manlier"? lol. total it would be about $35/40 but im not worried about price. is this a good idea? would a guy actually like it? (guys thats where you come in ;])
if not, what are some good ideas?
if it matters at all, he is 16, and at the time of christmas, we will have only been going out for a little over 5 months.
thanks in advanced, ill rate good answers ♥
Oh my gosh BUILD A BEAR is great.. Hey my boyfriend is the same age is yours.. I got him a Build a bear for our 1 year anniversary.. I got him one of his favorite football team and this is kinda cute he sleeps with it .. i mean i`m not sayin your boyfriend will.. But i was suprised becuz my boyfriend can be a jerk bout somethings and i thought he wasgoing to actually laugh or something he even asked his thugged out cousin if he thought i was weird and his cousin said nope she just likes you alot.. Actually i`m thinkin bout getttin him one for christmas cuz thats what he asked for but i know which oone i`m gettin this time.. His favorite basketball team.. but yea thats good enough.. deff. don`t worry about the price gosh if he likes you he won`t care.. best of luck and let me know how things went with it.. ♥ Dez
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should i IM my ex-boyfriend? i've been wanting to talk/chat with him, but everytime i try to, i'm always whether scared or there's something to stop me. so, should i talk to him or not?
yea just say a simple whats up.. Don`t make it flirty or annoying so he won`t talk to you.. You might be surprised.. ♥ Dez
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When December comes, it will be 2 years since my first period..however, my flow isn't even...like I get it every 2-3 months...It's unexpected..I don't know what to do because I don't want to tell my mom to take me to a gynocologist...however I don't want to have a fertility problem when I'm older. I don't know what to do..should I just wait a couple more months to see if it straightens out or should I take action now?
I`d probably take action now to find out whats going on.. ♥ Dez
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I have really bad strep throat and there's puss pockets all over my tonsils and stuff.. will I have to have my tonsils taken out? or is it only for when people get sick ALL the time? I'm so scared of surgery so give details on what they look for if they consider taking tonsils out. Thanks so much!
Usually people who get sick all the time get their tonsils removed.. If your doctor didn`t recommend it then i wouldn`t worry about it.. ♥ Dez
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