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I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.

I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

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these girls say they are going to come kick my ass both of them dont know how to fight im not really worried about it but do you have any tips on fighting?

I honestly wouldn't fight them. Lots of girls talk shit but never end up doing anything about it. These girls sound like the type where they'll talk shit, and then when they get their ass beat, they'll turn it all around & you say you were the one harassing them.

You'll get in trouble, and it's not worth it when these girls are just talking anyways. Just let them talk their shit. :) It gets old anyways.

i live in the uk, and i want my hair to grow as long as possible during the summer holidays, so it look better by september. i have fairly thick hair, so im not looking for pills for volume but just for growth. not many good products are avalible in the uk but on ebay i found nioxin. is it any good? i hear it also help nail growth which would be grea. is it safe to buy it off ebay? does anyone know where i can order hair growth pills, conditioner, etc. that delivers to the uk? Thanks in advance. and i am sure that i want to take pills, natural or chemical. u have no idea how awful my hair looks right now.

I'm not sure if there is a Sally's Beauty Supply store in the UK, but if there is, you can buy Hair Growth shampoo. I wouldn't recommend taking a pill because who knows what's in them. With the shampoo, you know it's formulated to do what it says. They uses it on horses to make their hair grow & it's called Mane & Tail. I used it before and saw instant results.

As for stuff to make your nails grow, they have nail polish that does that. It has green tea in it, but I think that if you just drink some green tea, it could affect that as well without having to buy a nail polish to do it. But if you prefer the nail polish, I'm also pretty sure they carry it at Sally's. If you don't have a Sally's Beauty Supply over there, I would order online from their site. :)

http://www.sallybeauty.com/

Ok i am 13 and i want to go in a chat room were i can just flirt with guys my age what chat rooms should i go to.

There are none. Chat rooms are very dangerous, and you should never want to meet people in them. Not even to flirt.

Chances are, nobody in a chat room is who they say they really are. A 50 year old man could be pretending to be a 13 year old boy, and you would never know because he's probably in another state sitting behind a computer.

If you want to meet boys to flirt with, go to the mall with some friends or something. Don't go into a chat room. A lot of bad things can happen, and I would rather you met someone in person (who you know is your age) than someone who's old, and creepy and who's pretending.

Never give your full name, your address, or your phone number online. Just meet people at school or at the mall. It's safer and that way you know who they're for sure who they say they are. It's not an intelligent idea to wanna meet someone from the net, especially at your age when you're so innocent, and naive.

i really want a new haircut nd NOT to put tittles or anything but,ihave always liked scene kind hair but the thing is that i have NO CLUE lyke is it suppose to be in layers or what?aND I HAVE LOOKED FOR PICTURES and showed it took the hairsalon person but she says their differentkinds and im like SO SO LOST?HELP ME PLEASE!

A "scene" haircut is usually just layers (and a lot of them) with choppy parts. You usually tease it and straighten it.

I think your best bet with the hairstylist is to take it to a different place. Maybe take it to an alternative hair salon where they do that type of hair? It could be a little hard to find, and a little bit more expensive, but if you really want your hair like that it's worth it.

where can my bff and i, and our bfs go for a double date other than our houses or movies or mall?? and where would be a sweet place for just me and my bf of almost a year to go?

You guys can go out for dinner together! Maybe go to Olive Garden or Applebee's. You guys can split the bill and all add to the tip. You can also go bowling, or go to the beach together. The beach isn't really a double date idea, but it's something fun together to do during the summer. You could also go for ice cream, or go to an interesting place in your city. There are a lot of ideas out there. Maybe search on Google and see what interesting places there are where you live.

As for your one year anniversary, I would go to a really special dinner with your boyfriend.

my boyfriend and i are starting to grow apart, weve been together for a veryy long time and were planning on getting married. but now we fight alot because i im having medical problems and get hospitalized alot and hes mentally unstable but when were together it seems like our problems pretty much disappear. he says we dont need to makeout anymore because we already love eachother but i want to still.. is there anything i can do to become as inseprable as we used to be? or anything sweet i could do or say?

I don't think there's anyway to continue to make this relationship work anymore.

If your boyfriend cannot deal with the fact that you're being hospitalized frequently then obviously he cannot be with you. He's also mentally unstable and it isn't fair for him to be with anyone while he's like that.

I think he needs counseling, and I think you need to spend some time alone.

i live in missouri by st louis which is a big city, but i dont live in it. my parents hate the city so much and my moms even scared to go down there. but my favorite band in the world is having a concert there in two weeks and i was gona go with my two best friends who used to live in the city. but my mom still wont let me go but she let my brother drive around down there yesterday and hes still not home. how can i convince her to let me go iv ben looking forward to this since the beginning of the year and if i dont go then neither of my friends can go either :(

I honestly think it's a gender thing your parents are pulling on you. They're worried about you. Your brother they're not worried about because he's a boy & can "fend for himself." With you though, they see you more as their little girl and a whole bunch of things can happen to you.

It's not that they don't trust you, it's people in the city they don't trust. A lot of things can happen to you & your friends & they would probably never know.

Does your brother like this band? I would see if he does & then if he agrees to go with you & your friends, maybe your parents will be more lenient. If he doesn't agree to go or you don't want him to, just let your parents know that you and your friends are going to have their cell phones and if they need you for anything to call. Or, you can text at certain times of the hour.

I hope you get to go to the show.

hi guys i have the ipod touch, and i was just wondering what some really fun free apps are that i could get? thanks!!!

http://www.applerepo.com/

http://iphonetouch.blorge.com/2009/03/22/top-40-best-free-ipod-touch-apps/

Those sites had decent lists. The second site actually looks like it has some pretty cool ones. :)

what are the books called that have like the really graphic descriptions of sex. like "he slowly slid his hand up her leg" ect ect

Erotica.

Blessthefall
Hopes Die Last
Enter Shikari
Silverstein
The Number 12 Looks like You
Heavy Heavy Low Low
Greely Estates
Attack Attack
Oh, Sleeper
A Skylit Drive
Alesana
Emarosa
Eyes Set To Kill
Every Time I Die
Before Their Eyes
Pierce The Veil
The Devil Wears Prada
Bring Me The Horizon
A Bullet For Pretty Boy
Chiodos
A Day To Remember
Drop Dead, Gorgeous
Emery
Escape The Fate
The Fall Of Troy
Four Letter Lie
Lovehatehero
From Autumn To Ashes
From First To Last
Haste The Day
Hopesfall
I Am Ghost
In Fear And Faith
Inhale/Exhale
Norma Jean
Sky Eats Airplane
Senses Fail
Saosin
A Static Lullaby
Underoath
We Are The Ocean
With Broken Wings
Alexisonfire
As Cities Burn
The Bled
The Blackout
Scary Kids Scaring Kids

What good screamo/post-hardcore bands don't I have? Those are all the bands on my iPod.

I would suggest you NEVER, EVER, EVER and I mean EVER listen to Brokencyde.

Anyways, I would say that you have a good list there. A few bands I didn't see though are:

The Messenger
Destroy The Runner
Four Year Strong
Killwhitneydead
Confide
Unearth
Vanna

I think if you add some of those to your list, you'll be set. I'm pretty sure you'll like Confide, Vanna and Four Year Strong most. FYS is like A Day To Remember, while Vanna and Confide are kind of like Underoath. :) You have good taste in music though. I listen to most of those bands. :)

what else is there to do besides tic-tac-toe, paper football, paper airplanes, note-passing, and hangman?

I'm assuming you're in summer school, so you're obviously there because you did little during the actual year. Why don't you try paying attention? That way you don't have to repeat the class and you can get your credit.

so i'm barely 16 (girl), and really old guys try to hit on me all the time, its really creepy. i don't need any warnings about "stay away," blah blah blah, because that's obvious, and the oldest guy i'd date or even think about hooking up with is 18, maybe 19. but like so many guys give you that "i want you in bed" stare (hahaha;) & theyre like 30s or even in their 40s! its disgusting. like im short so im obviously no older than 17, i mean some days i could pass for legal but probably not. like i know when a guy is interested in you, he turns his torso to face you. i know this could be coincidental at times but i had a teacher last year that always sat on desks and (not to be gross) spread his legs to slump down with his elbows on his knees, and i know that when a guy points his you-know-what at you, hes interested in you. (its a natural mating instinct, don't believe me if you dont want to.) this teacher was like 30 and he always faced me. like i made a point to move to avoid him and move to different seats across the entire room and he still always faced me, every single day. like i know its just one incident but so many old guys give me creepy stares. i just want other peoples experiences to make sure im not the only one hahaha and maybe some advice to keep the creepers away ;)
thankss

I have that problem too. It used to happen a lot, but now it isn't becoming so apparent, though some guy did hit on me today.

I don't really know what to tell you about it because you can't stop people from thinking you're attractive. I guess if someone hits on you, just tell them your age & maybe they'll back off.

ive been listening to all time low a lot lately, and i really like they're music! i'm trying to find some more upbeat bands like them; the only others i kinda know of are cash cash and metro station- any other good bands that are upbeat/pop/whatever they are XD- like them? lists would be awesome! thanks!

The Maine
Every Avenue
Hit The Lights
The Cab
Anberlin
The All-American Rejects
The Almost
Artist Vs Poet
A Kidnap In Color
Cute Is What We Aim For
The Dangerous Summer
Valencia
Forever The Sickest Kids
The Friday Night Boys
Hey Monday
Paramore
Mae
Mayday Parade
New Found Glory
The Sequence
Sing It Loud
The Starting Line
There For Tomorrow
We The Kings
The Years Gone By
Envy On The Coast
Stereo Skyline
The Bigger Lights
This Providence
The Academy Is...
Amber Pacific
Anarbor

I found this one person say...

~kinda wanna start playing WoW~

what is WoW???

World of Warcraft. It's an online roleplaying game.

Mae (pronounced May, just a cooler spelling), Rena, Lynette, Jesirae, Amira, Kiara, Lena, Kaylee, Amina, Rose, Anissa, Liliana, Arabelle, Lilibeth, Ayla, Nikia, Ciana

Lena & Mae.

When performing foreplay with the clothes on, can you get pregnant??

No.

why do dogs lick people?

To show affection that they like you.

15/f

i just got a cellphone in march, and ive never had any trouble with prank callers or anything. but within the past few days ive had some new numbers call my cellphone but it was always when i wasnt near it so i didnt get to take the call.
tonight i answered and it sounded like a drunk old man. he kept saying, "hello? can you hear me?" and i just told him i thought he had the wrong number so he hung up. but the other person called when i wasnt near the phone.
i dont know, basically im a little freaked out. i worry so much, but it just scares me when random drunk old men call my cellphone at 11:15 at night.
am i worrying over nothing?

There's no need to worry. Sometimes I get random calls from numbers in my area code, but they're never numbers I recognize and the only one I would recognize is my boyfriend's.

I guess as long as they don't leave a voicemail & you're not there to pick up, it's fine. I wouldn't worry about it too much. Chances are it's just a wrong number & people that probably aren't out to prank you. :)

does anyone know of high heel stiletto kinda type. they have to be atlesat 3" inches

and to match this dress
http://i30.tinypic.com/33vjk2p.jpg

I would suggest these:

http://www.target.com/Mossimo-Paulina-Gladiator-Sandals-Patent/dp/B0018Q673E/183-0204037-2172261?ie=UTF8&node=13621961&search-alias=&frombrowse=1&pricerange=&index=tgt-mf-mv&field-browse=13621961&rank=pmrank&rh=&page=1

They're cute, they match, and they're not too expensive. :)

Okay, well I wasn't really sure where to put this but uh here goes. So I'm 13/F and he was 14/M. He is an awesome friend but he's always been a perv. Anyway, he took it too far this time and I flipped out. We were walking in a group and some other guys that we were with were making fun of him about how he "can't get a girl" and he says "I can get any girl I want!" so he grabs me, pins me against a wall, and sticks his hand down my pants. I freaked and kicked him in the balls... He looked like he was in severe pain. I almost felt bad but not really cuz what did he expect? But now he's super pissed at me. I don't think he has a right! Does anyone else think I was out of line?

You were not at all out of fine. He sexually harassed you to "prove" a point. For him to be mad at you because of how you reacted is bullshit.

Tell him to go fuck himself & stop hanging out with him.

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