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I never my man's mother and I feel like "the other woman"... haha... I just want her to know I love her son with all my heart and I want nothing but good things for him for the rest of his days. I want her to know he has touched my heart in a way that no one else ever could and that I am committed to him.. his life.. his feelings.. his thoughts.. ideas.. dreams.. etc. I know he loves his mom so very much and always has wonderful things to say about her - I've never met her and I one day hope to... but at this time I have to send her a letter and I don't really know how to do this. I just want her to know that I respect the bond and the love he has with her and I respect her as the woman who gave life to my soul mate... I want her to know her son' heart is safe with me - I wish I knew how to do this without sounding like a complete fool... - - If any mom's have advice or people who have beenin similar situations have any advice I'd really appreciate it! Many thanks! (link)
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Get her address. Buy her a nice card, maybe just something that is blank on the inside. Write what you wrote here (I thought it was lovely) and send it to her. Let me tell you something - these days, when someone takes the time to make a handwritten letter, it really says a lot. I'm a mom, and if my son's future wife wrote to me to tell me all of those things I would be so happy. Because every mom just wants to know their children will be happy. It would mean a lot to hear that you have good intentions toward your fiance. Go for it! Don't worry about sounding foolish. Write from the heart, put a stamp on it and mail it. I guarantee you, she will be moved.
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Im torn between faiths. the two faiths that i am torn by are Buddhism and Christianity, i have studied both religions adimently. so im not ignorant to eithers teachings. i am just torn on the which one to choose. As it stands im not religious, but have been trying to find a higher meaning in my life and have narrowed it down to these two. I feel the connection to both, so i am a bit divided. so any tips.
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Find good people that you like in each of the two religions. Spend time with those people. Get to know how their faith affects their life and their outlook. Not necessarily by asking, but just by observing (observing is better b/c I think sometimes when you ask people are more likely to tell you what they think you want to hear instead of what is true). Something in the way people live out their faith may touch you and help you decide. If nothing else, you've made new friends and widened your circle of understanding. Good luck!
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I am a 15 1/2 year old girl. I am thinking about going out with this guy, he's 20. We really like each other. If we did end up going out, how far would we be able to go? (link)
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Yes. Too old. Illegal. Don't.
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im 18/f and my boyfriend is 19/m
my bestfriend that ive liked for months and months asked me to be his girlfriend only 2 days ago.. and now that im in the picture as his girlfriend, it would seem his ex wants back in too.
Him and his ex girlfriend were together for 5 years, and im worried about her coming over and catching up with him, just cause im scared that his feelings will come back and he'll return to her.
she also has a boyfriend, but that doesnt stop her from being flirty with him
he asked me if it was okay that he catches up with her, and that he promises nothing will happen. and although i trust him that he wont DO anything, im scared that he WILL get stronger feelings for her, then what he has for me...
i mean they were together for 5 years, been broken up for 8 months and we've only been dating a mere 48 hours..
im just really scared :( (link)
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Your relationship is so new, I think it sends the wrong message to your boyfriend to forbid him to go. I can totally understand your insecurity, but at this point, you have to trust him, he's given you no reason not to. As you said, they were together a long time. They will have a connection for a long time, even if its not romantic. You say he is your best friend, so you must know him pretty well. Do you trust him? Is he a good guy? If yes, then let him go with a kiss and a smile and tell him you trust him totally. Maybe now that they are both in relationships, maybe they just need that final closure. Just a "I'm happy for you and wish you the best" kind of meeting. It happens. Again, I don't think you're crazy to feel uneasy, but still, you have to just suck it up, or else you'll look like the crazy girlfriend, and you don't want that. I'm sure it will be fine. Let it play out. If nothing happens then this was a great exercise in trust, and you'll feel that much more secure in your relationship. If something else happens, well, you can cross that bridge when you get to it. Good luck.
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So, everytime my boyfriend is stressed or dissatisfied with his life, he goes into massive escapism mode. That means I can expect him on fanfiction or video games when he gets home till we go to sleep. We always end up not having sex during these periods, and when he'll express a lot of interest in doing just that, he'll bail out or I will because its apparent his mind is elsewhere. I dont know how to get him to focus on the present instead of constantly being dissatisfied with what he dosent have. He wants to make more money, hes stressed about finance. I am too, but I also know that if you live in the future and the past you will destroy the present, and never be happy. I'm tired of his constant dissatisfaction with his life when I give him everything I can. I don't want to have to complain, and he rarely wants to properly talk about it. What to do? (link)
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I know it sounds cliche, but it sounds to me like your bf might be dealing with depression. The fact that he goes into "escapism" mode is a huge sign. I struggled with depression for a short time in my life and that was all I wanted to do, get away from everyone and everything. I spent a lot of time on the computer, or even just in a room alone, just thinking or starting off into space, not wanting to be disturbed. He may feel dissatisfaction with his life, but I'm willing to bet it goes a bit deeper than that. Its hard, because it affects you too, but there is really nothing YOU personally can do about it. In fact,the more you try the worse it can get for him because then he also deals with the guilt of not being able to be the person you want him to be and its stressful for you as well because you are feeling that you have to do something. You have to understand that the problem isn't yours, so it won't be solved by you. Not that you shouldn't be there to support him, but you may want to encourage him to get some outside help. I eventually sought therapy. Yes, it cost money, but I sacrificed because I knew I wasn't going to get better without help, and I was making my family suffer. A good place to start is with a regular doctor visit. He should let his doctor know he thinks he may be struggling with depression. The doctor can recommend a therapist and/or other treatments to help. But please encourage him to get help. Don't nag him, just encourage him. Tell him you are worried this is more than just feeling a little lost and you want to see him feel good again. And he may need help to do that. There's no shame in getting help. The shame should be in making the one's you love suffer because you are too proud to seek help. In the meantime, make it clear you are there if he needs you, but also start trying to do more outside of your relationship. Meet with friends, go out, enjoy some hobbies. By keeping yourself busy you will have less time to get sucked into his situation right now, you'll feel more fulfilled instead of waiting on him to make you happy, and you might even inspire him to get up and get out as well. Good luck.
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I was seeing a guy for a year and a half. We made it official for a little while but then ended up taking the titles off but we were still exclusive, or so he told me... Some shady stuff happened. I dumped him, but he wants to just give it a break and stay friends because he says he sees a great future for us a little bit down the road and he wants to get serious with me in the future but not right now. I asked him if he plans to mess with other girls during that time and he says he can't make any promises. That pissed me off, hut I understood that because be recently moved two hours away I won't be physically available anymore and well sad to say but men have needs. but I offered that we can still mess around if he doesn't mess with anyone else, to which he said he wil lthink about but he can't make any promises (and I was willing to drive up there twice a month for the weekend).
Anyway, even though he wants to stay friends, he puts no effort into keeping in touch. I finally came to the conclusion that the past year or so has been a lie and that I was being led on. I really do see a great future for us, but only if he goes back to being the person he was in the beginning of our relationship.
I am conflicted on what to do. He tells me that this is the wrong time for him to be in a relationship, that he wants to get his degree first which will be this summer, and I'll be done with college in the fall. Also that it would too hard because we live far apart now (I am moving to where he is in a few months though, and while we were together we talked about living together).
I don't know what to do? Are his reasons valid, or is this just a load of crap he's giving me to string me along? While we were officially together, he never strayed, but I could tell he wasn't happy because I kind of forced him to be in a relationship and he agreed because he didn't want to lose me. If we start things up in the future, I'm worried that faithfulness will be an issue. I'm considering these options at the moment:
A) permanently removing him from my life
B) keeping in touch but only that, and seeing other people
C) Staying good friends but nothing physical
D) Making no effort to keep in touch with him to see if he is just using me or if he's willing to make the effort to make things right.
What should I do? I'm not sure if I have feelings for him anymore, because I am very hurt and I have a lot of anger towards him. I was always honest and upfront with him and he wasn't always the same with me. He says he doesn't know if he has feelings for me anymore either, and I can understand that because I haven't been an angel either, I have said some pretty mean things to him, which is what I do in retaliation to being hurt, which I know is pretty immature.
Thanks for anyone who answers. I am 20 and he is 25. And as a sidenote I am moving to where he lives because it's a big city, not because he lives there, but because it's a beautiful place with many job opportunities.
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It may not be that he's leading you on. It may be that he is sincerely confused about his feeling right now. I'm sure you know how that feels. He may have started out with the best of intentions and then realized his feelings weren't as clear as he thought. Give it some time and space. Move forward with your own life for now and let him figure things out on his own. Until he does, live your life. If he contacts you, fine, if not, well you'll have too many other things going on in your life to let it affect you too badly. You both may be right - you may find a lovely friendship/relationship down the road, but it seems that for now you should give yourselves the space to grow so that you'll be ready when the next opportunity comes. Good luck.
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17/f 21/m
I dated this guy when I was 15 and got pregnant. I broke up with him when I was 4 months pregnant because he was very controlling, manipulative, emotionally abusive, intimidating...etc. He never hit me but he has left bruises on me because he grabbed my arms too hard. He got married, and I knew his wife before they started dating. He came to see the baby for 3 months, dipped for 8 months, came back, and now he hasnt seen her in a month or 2 'because of work'. He doesnt pay child support but I dont want to pursue it because I dont want him to get any kjnd of custody.
This week, he was arrested and I found out that he has been physically violent towards his wife the whole time. She sent me a picture of her black eye. She got a restraining order on him and she suggested I do the same. Now im terrified of him because he has anger towards me and I now know what hes capable of. I have a few questions:
-i really dont want him apart of my or my childs life because hes unstable and dangerous. Hes not on the birth certificate either. Is it wrong for me to cut off all contact from him and not let him see the baby?
-hes from peru and was not a citizen, but his wife is. Did that automatically make him a citizen? Or did he still have to apply? Because she wants to try to get him deported. (he already has a pretty large record)
Any other advice is welcome, thank you !
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No, its not wrong, its the loving thing to do. Your child's safety comes above all else. Good for you! And no, he is not automatically a citizen just because he married a citizen. She can call INS and report him, but if she has a restraining order she probably should have mentioned to the police that he is possibly an illegal alien. I believe the INS has a hotline to call regarding illegal aliens. Tell her to look for that. And keep doing what you can to stay away from this guy. That might include staying away from his wife until she gets a divorce finalized. If for some reason she goes back to him then you will be enemy #1 for all of the things you've told each other. Good luck.
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hi guys, so i have been talking with my aunts boyfriends son. i asked the question if it was awkward or not and the people who answered said it wasnt awkward because we are not blood related, so i sort of went for it. But, this guy keeps hooking up with this one girl that i am kind of friends with, (she knows that i like him, and i found out she likes him too) and everytime its just me and him we kiss. and he told me afew weeks ago he wanted to take me to the movies, just me and him. and he is still implying that he has interest in me, but why would he be all over this other girl too? They have sex and everything too. All he does is talk alot of crap about her too and says he doesnt like her. So if anyone can help me and tell me if it sounds like he's playing me please tell me! and for some more information, him and i have hooked up, no sex, but as i wsid before everytime its just me and him we kiss. soo im just not sure. please help. thankyyou! =] (link)
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Is this guy playing you? If you have to ask, the answer is yes. I don't understand what you're confused about. He's messing with you. He's having sex with somebody else. Consider yourself played.
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Hey there. You answered the question for me about my mom and our relationship. I really appreciated your input and would like to consult you on the following matter. I currently wear hair extensions because I lost a lot of hair from and eating disorder, I've been wearing then for 15 months. I am now fully recovered and my hair has grown back a lot. But, my mom gets very angry at me when I tell her I want to take them off. She says that they are the life of my hair and though she may not realize it, i am hearing that I am not beautiful and need the extensions fo be beautiful. She lives through me and she doesn't understand the hassle of the extentions. Since I have had them, she washes and brushes my hair. I think she uses them as a way to manipulate me and control me, as crazy as that sounds. But, it's true. I want to run my fingers through my own hair and be able to wash it myself. Can you give me any advice as to how I could go about this?
Thanks! (link)
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Wow... you have had quite a few hurdles to overcome in your life. It does not surprise me that you have struggled with an eating disorder. Its the one thing you could control outside of your mother. Here is another area where you can do nothing more than stand your ground and refuse to be manipulated. It is YOUR hair. Does that really need to be said? Maybe it does. It is YOUR hair. So take out the extensions. You worked hard to overcome your disorder and get healthy. You deserve to enjoy the fruits of your labor, a healthy head of hair! So take them out. If you aren't brave enough to do it with her knowledge, then do it when you are alone, or go to a friend's house or the bathroom at school or wherever, and do it without telling her. When she pitches a fit, don't even argue. Just say these words "Its MY hair"... every argument she throws at you just say "Its MY hair, Its MY hair, Its MY hair"... say it over and over again until she quits. Until she gets it. You are not the person she always wished SHE could be. You are YOU. You are special, unique and good and its not fair for her to try to make you be anything other than who you are. It is so incredibly selfish its sick, but I think you realize that. Have you been to therapy? I hope so. You need support. Also, do you have friends, good friends? You need to start spending as much time as possible with other people that you like and trust. I know your mother loves you in her own weird way, but at this point, the more time you spend away from her, the better off you'll be, at least for now. I know its so hard after a lifetime of this abuse (and it IS abuse), but you have to find a way to not fear her anger. You don't need her approval to live. You don't need her approval at all. Love and approval are two different things, although your mother has tried to convince you they are the same. They are not. You mother will always love you, no matter what she says. I'm a mother and I know its impossible not to love your own child. But her approval is something different,and while its nice, you don't need it. Try to remind yourself of that when she gets mad at you for making your own decisions about your appearance. Write yourself notes if you have to. Ask your friends to remind you when you start feeling upset. Start finding ways to make little decisions apart from her, when she's not around. There's not much she can do after the fact, which makes it a little easier. So do what you want to your hair. DO IT! You deserve it. You are not a bad person for wanting to be... a person! You are a good person, and you have a lot to offer the world. The more time you spend out on your own, the more excited you will be about what you have to offer and what the world has to offer you. Good luck. Don't forget - don't be afraid of her anger! Its just an emotion, its not about love, its about control. She can't control you.
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19/f
Lately I've been very tired,kinda slow with my thinking, and as of recently had diarrhea, headaches, nausea to the point of gagging, and sometimes terrible stomach pain. I didn't think much of it til a coworker asked if I'm pregnant. I said no, cuz I had my period a week and a half ago... but now that I think about it, my period was 5 days earlier than expected. It lasted five days, though, and wasn't "light." Also, I've been on birth control for 3 months, and the only time I took a pill late was AFTER the aformentioned period. So... just curious if I might possibly be expecting or just have a bug... and if I take a home pregnancy test, when would be the best time? (link)
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Those don't really sound like early pregnancy symptoms (outside the nausea), they sound more like a reaction to your birth control. Go see the doctor and let him/her know your symptoms. It may be as simple as changing your dosage or brand.
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20/f. I have always been pretty close to my mom, but right now we are just not gettingnalong anymore because she doesn't let me live. Honestly, she doesn't give me one minute alone. Today, she was going to go furniture shopping some place like 30 minutes away and I couldn't go with her because I had to study so I told her that I would rather stay at school and she started crying telling me that i don't love her anymore and that I ruined her day. Honestly, I really do have to study and these classes are already for my major so they count towards grad school. I thought about leaving to a different university because that is the only way she will really have to learn to live without me. But, I really like my school and I'm lucky enough to come here on a full scholarship. Aside from that, it's a fantastic school, not worth it to leave. I can't live at home anymore. And I don't have them money to move out. My mom doesn't listen to me. And shes like obsessed with me. She doesn't want me to leave her side ever. I know this isn't so detailed but I just want to break down and cry. I can't deal with it anymore and I have no brother or sisters to talk to. I have no one to side with me. Help!!! (link)
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Your mother has made you her best friend and that is wrong. You are her daughter, not her spouse. It is unhealthy and I think you are sensing that. The best thing to do would be to move out, to the dorms or with a roommate. But maybe that's not possible financially right now. So if not, then you need to be able to sit down with her and have an adult conversation. She's going to get emotional, so you need to do your best to stay calm and focused. If you escalate with her, she won't hear you and she's won. Write it all out in a letter first, if that helps. Tell her that you love her and appreciate her, but that her constant attention smothers you. You are not there to make her happy, only she can make herself happy. She needs to find a way to live her life without you in it all the time, and so do you. Tell her you are setting some boundaries. Decided what those boundaries are, then STICK TO THEM. Maybe you set aside one or two specific nights a week that are just Mom/daughter time, time to hang out, go shopping, connect, have fun, whatever. But other days belong to you and you do what it is you need to do. Also, start going out more. spend time away from the house with friends or just out doing activities. When she calls and texts like crazy, answer once, tell her where you are and that you are fine and that you don't have time to talk. When she gets crazy, hang up. It will take a while, but she'll get the message. For whatever reason, your mother has made you the person that is responsible for her happiness, and now that you are becoming an independent adult, she is scared because she is losing the only thing she thought could make her happy. For her own health and happiness, she also needs to learn how to make new friends and have a life away from you. Please understand that once you stand your ground, it will get worse before it gets better. She will use every old trick in the book to manipulate you because she knows what works with you. She will throw fits and maybe even resort to drastic behavior, but I promise, if you stand your ground, you will begin to see change. Aside from setting new, healthier boundaries, you should be doing everything you can to find your own place. This relationship is not healthy for either of you the way it is right now, but once you have some space, I believe you will find it is easier to have the mother/daughter relationship you were always meant to have. Good luck.
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A few months ago, my best friend and I confessed our feelings for each other, and decided that we could try this out and see where it goes. We weren't that serious, and just had our "first date" 2 months ago. We were fine for a while, acting like we always do, when all of a sudden, he stops talking to me. For 5 weeks, he has been ignoring my texts and seems to be avoiding me. I have asked him a few times if I did something to upset him, but he's not telling me anything. What should I do? (link)
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If he won't talk to you and won't answer your questions I don't think there is much else you can do. Its kind of a sucky thing for him to do, but maybe he's just not mature enough to tell you what is really going on with him. So let it go and do your best to move on with other friends. Obviously it didn't work out but that' s the risk you take when you get involved with friends. That's life. Sorry you had to go through this, but it will get better soon. Maybe he'll even feel motivated to speak to you once he sees you've moved on. Good luck.
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Ok about 2 weeks ago fromboyfriend returned from Canada where has been working from time to time for his job. He travels thru different states as well but not too far from PA. I gave him head the night he returned and as of las Thursday May 12th I started breaking out with sores in my mouth. He claims he is not cheating and understands where they could of came from (sexually transmitted), but I also read that he just could be a carrier of the Virus1 as well. How do I know if he is or isn't cheating by the sores in my mouth? And he is also on Gmail alot and says he only uses it for bills or reservations for hotels he stays at for work. Funny when I have the same and on the chat as well and can tell when he is on and so is his video as well. And gets all annoyed when I ask him to go chat video or chat with me and says he doesn't like using it all the time only when he is in Canada for sake of rates on the phone and only if he has real bad signals in hotels for his cell. But yet if I see he is available he gets very annoyed with me about it. What do I do?
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stop having unprotected sex with him immediately and both of you get tested. Even if he is just a carrier (and not a cheater) you both need to know if you are clean. While you're there you can ask the doctor for yourself if herpes can be transmitted any other way than sexual contact. Be smart.
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Hi,
I am a man. I am in my middle 20's and I have been in a relationship with the love of my life for almost three years now.
When I was 15 I lost my virginity to my father's girlfriend (she was 40 something at the time). I recall wanting to do it but now I feel like it was statutory rape. I look back on it as a shameful event and I never want to talk about it. This is actually the first time I've written it and told anyone.
My girlfriend/ soon to be fiance and I have never talked about me loosing my virginity. I feel like it will never come up but if it does I won't lie about it.
I just want to know if I was raped. Should I feel ashamed of what happened? Should I tell my girlfriend even though it is not a topic of conversation?
Thanks so much,
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This is a difficult situation because society tell guys that a situation like this is 'hot' and you should be grateful. But your gut tells you otherwise. You understand you were taken advantage of. You were a child, and a grown woman took advantage of your innocence and insecurity. She was wrong. It was a form of abuse, and just like other victims of abuse, you feel shame and self-doubt. If it is an option for you, seek counseling. You need a way to talk this out and come to understand this and how it changed you and affected your life. If you can't do that, another option is to see someone through your church or religious institution. If you are not a person of faith, seek out a community center or local institution that offers counseling for low cost or free. And if your relationship with your girlfriend is really that serious, I think you do need to talk to her about this. Its not a confession. You didn't do anything to confess. Its an admission, its sharing a very hurtful part of your past with the woman you love. Trust me, she will love you more for sharing something so personal with her. It will show her you trust her with your pain, and as a woman, its an honor to be able to share those things with the man you love. She will appreciate that you are able to be vulnerable with her, and you may even find a sense of relief, finally getting it off your chest and saying it out loud. You may find that it doesn't hold as much power over you as you thought it did. I wish you luck. this event has shaped you, but it does not have to shape your future. That is yours to do.
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what are songs about fathers not being in their daughters life and how much they have been hurt by them. (link)
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Daughters - John Mayer
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i'm a teen girl and my ex boyfriend wants to take our son for a week. he barley ever sees our son the last time was a few months ago. he is very unpredictable and when we were together he would get high around our son. i don't want that happening anymore so i said no. he is very pissed off at me and said i was being completely unfair. i don't want him to be sad and i want my son to know him but i don't trust him. what should i do? (link)
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A week is too long after he hasn't spent that much time with him. Explain to your ex that it makes you happy that he wants to spend time with his son and you know that it is very important, in order for your son to grow up healthy and mature. Tell him you don't feel comfortable being apart for so long right now, but maybe you can work out a schedule. Start with a couple of afternoons a week, then maybe move to an overnight visit, then weekends, and then, if it seems like things are going fine, let him take him longer. A week is a long time to have a child when you are young. He doesn't understand what it takes to watch a kid every day. Even HE might regret taking him for that long at first. So start out slow and build up. Trust must be built, but you are right to be unsure. Take it slow. If he won't agree to that then I question his motives. A real dad would be happy with ANY time with his kids, and work to build more time. Good luck.
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Well I have my GED and I wanna go to college. Something easy which I know nothing is easy but I wanna do something that I will make more than ten dollars an hour on and I don't wanna be in college very long. Not a year not two years nothing long. And I really don't care what it Is as long as it's not got math in it. I didn't graduate high school because they said of I couldn't pass algebra 2 then they wouldn't let me graduate at all so that's why I got my GED. Anyone have any suggestions?? (link)
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Start looking into places that have Associate Degree programs. They are programs that only take 2 yrs to complete and offer a large variety of career paths, from mechanics to hospitality to nursing assistants to court reports and paralegals. There are so many options out there. Look around at schools that offer Associate Degrees and see what career paths they offer and see what interests you the most. Good luck!
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I feel like I've learned a lot of things because of it, but I also feel like I've missed out a lot and now have pretty poor social skills. I've made better friends online than with people I know IRL, ugh. But nobody ever really invites me to things or w/e IRL and I do have some activities, but just, yeah. And I'm also a terrible procrastinator. I'd do so much better in school if internet (music, forums, news articles) wasn't distracting me all the time.
How could this impact me in the long run? I'm really worried. Like pros and cons wise. I really want to make up for this loss of life experiences when I'm in college. Like I haven't even been close to getting a boyfriend or anything. I don't relate to a lot of my peers on experiences like going to parties on the weekend with people from school, sleepovers, etc. It's also cause I'm one of the new people in school, so it's just very horrid. I haven't even been invited to any event (birthday, hang out at house) in more than a year now. When I first came to my new school people were nice and things were good and now it's like everyone's ignoring me. I dont get why people lose interest in me quickly.. I'm an interesting person, a good friend and everything.. I don't understand what I do wrong all the time. (link)
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You may be interesting, but you seem like maybe you aren't very good at letting people see that side of you. The best thing you can do is get involved in outside activities. What are your interests? Reading, theatre, math, chess, etc? Join a club, NOT an online club, a club at school, or even at a local community center. Its an easy way to meet people you already have something in common with and you will have an excuse to get out and be active, away from your computer. As you start learning to enjoy life outside of the internet, it will become easier to be motivated and talk to people. Don't overdo it. Just start with one thing you like and find out how to do that thing with other people. Before you know it you'll be socializing with the best of them!
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what was america like before the national banking act? I know that it established the first paper currency but what was used before that.. like how has america changed for the better since then?? whatwas wrong with however it was before? (link)
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go to iTunes and look it up on iTunes University... it offers thousands of lectures and lessons for free on almost any subject you can imagine.
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hello, i am a communist. i am a registered member of the communist party of the usa. I have been a communist for about 3 years. and i have only recently getting active in spreading my views on politics, and other issues. so is there any advice i could get, that would make my point sound convincing.
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Make plans to travel to a communist country and see first-hand how communists live. Then you will have the moral authority to talk to others about the benefits of communism, having seen for yourself. There's nothing more convincing than first-hand experience.
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