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is this guy playing me?
hi guys, so i have been talking with my aunts boyfriends son. i asked the question if it was awkward or not and the people who answered said it wasnt awkward because we are not blood related, so i sort of went for it. But, this guy keeps hooking up with this one girl that i am kind of friends with, (she knows that i like him, and i found out she likes him too) and everytime its just me and him we kiss. and he told me afew weeks ago he wanted to take me to the movies, just me and him. and he is still implying that he has interest in me, but why would he be all over this other girl too? They have sex and everything too. All he does is talk alot of crap about her too and says he doesnt like her. So if anyone can help me and tell me if it sounds like he's playing me please tell me! and for some more information, him and i have hooked up, no sex, but as i wsid before everytime its just me and him we kiss. soo im just not sure. please help. thankyyou! =]
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He's doing it because he can. I did that in high school, too. I remember one assembly in a gym where they had the lights out and I was making out with BOTH an ex-girlfriend and one of her friends. Both of them had boyfriends at the time. Did I get a little buzz off of it? You bet your sweet ass I did!
Look, guys get validation, especially from their friends, according to how many women they can get with. This is also exacerbated by the fact that you are in competition with the other girl and women hate to lose out to other women like you wouldn't believe because attention in the female world is the coin of the realm. So he basically has the two of you submitting to his whims because of that native jealousy between girls.
So the hest thing you can do at this point is to just walk away and let her deal with the headaches of dealing with a player. If you don't, you will look like a fool to your friends and they aren't likely to have all that much tolerance when you inevitably begin to lament the fact that he has a roving eye. Sympathy for victims only goes so far.
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Is this guy playing you? If you have to ask, the answer is yes. I don't understand what you're confused about. He's messing with you. He's having sex with somebody else. Consider yourself played.
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