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What should I do??
A few months ago, my best friend and I confessed our feelings for each other, and decided that we could try this out and see where it goes. We weren't that serious, and just had our "first date" 2 months ago. We were fine for a while, acting like we always do, when all of a sudden, he stops talking to me. For 5 weeks, he has been ignoring my texts and seems to be avoiding me. I have asked him a few times if I did something to upset him, but he's not telling me anything. What should I do?
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I am sorry, but I really do not agree with what every one else wrote as an answer to your question. If it is not too late already, i say:
Dont; dump him, if you where so good friends before, this should be able to last, just give him more time. Something really serious could have happened in his life, so don;t be scared, he s probably not feeling well at the moment, try to talk to him, and tell him that if he has a poblem to tell it to you. He probably is scred to tell you since you are going out now and that you are not his bff any more but his girlfriend and that things changed. Tell him that you can be both. Hope this helps!
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If he won't talk to you and won't answer your questions I don't think there is much else you can do. Its kind of a sucky thing for him to do, but maybe he's just not mature enough to tell you what is really going on with him. So let it go and do your best to move on with other friends. Obviously it didn't work out but that' s the risk you take when you get involved with friends. That's life. Sorry you had to go through this, but it will get better soon. Maybe he'll even feel motivated to speak to you once he sees you've moved on. Good luck.
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He found somebody else and is too chicken to break up with you face to face. So it's time for you to ignore him and move on.
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