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im torn.


Question Posted Wednesday May 25 2011, 12:35 pm

Im torn between faiths. the two faiths that i am torn by are Buddhism and Christianity, i have studied both religions adimently. so im not ignorant to eithers teachings. i am just torn on the which one to choose. As it stands im not religious, but have been trying to find a higher meaning in my life and have narrowed it down to these two. I feel the connection to both, so i am a bit divided. so any tips.

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Ignatz answered Tuesday June 21 2011, 2:53 pm:
What exactly draws you to Buddhism? Is it the contemplative nature, the notions of reincarnation and detachment from worldly things? Is it the lack of dogma?

There's no reason you can't use Buddhism to inform your Christianity. There are contemplative traditions in Christianity, and concepts very similar to Buddhism. A good introduction to these traditions can be found in the works of Fr. Matthew Fox, especially in his book "Original Blessing". Read also St. Teresa of Avila, St. John of the Cross, and Julian of Norwich.

Ultimately, it's your choice: my truth is not your truth, and yours is not mine. Hope this helps.

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MCC answered Friday May 27 2011, 1:25 am:
Hi,
I really don't plan to tell you to choose this and drop that, but I'll tell you why I'm belive in Jesus. Well first because in Him I have the assuarence of a better life after this earth because He has forgiven me my sins and is preparing a place for me. In Him atleast I can identify myself i.e I'm His child He's my Father, we have a relationship He doesn't want me to just blindly or forcefully follow Him.
Other than that I'm absolutely sure that I worship a powerful God who overcame even death itself-Jesus is God-. I would'nt follow a god who is just as limited as I am, coz I wouldn't have any assurance in him. The Bible was inspired by God Himself, it isn't based on other humans thoughts, observations etc..etc and yes the Bible answers all my questions, from where man came from to what to do in a certain situation. Its the best literature that ever existed or ever will. It has EVERY ANSWER you would need in life. Have you tried to read the Bible? Its simply and easy to understand for everyone. Last but not least God is Holy, loving, selfless and many many more I haven't heard of any other selfless God, who would lay down His life for His people. He's my God, my friend, my father, my provider I mean EVERYTHING he's just EVERYTHING.
I also think that that salvation in Christ is the most simplest things ever.

Take a look at this links read them, sure you've read alot but reading 3more articles won't hurt:-)
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I would really like to know what you choose I'm just curious, if you wouldn't mind telling me.
Thanks.

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innocent_angel answered Thursday May 26 2011, 10:37 am:
In my honest answer, why should you have to choose?
I'm not a religious person but I find the base of all religions are the same, be kind and loving and forgiving and believe in some greater being who we pray to in times of hardship, I know that's very vague and I don't know much about any (though I should know a lot more about Christianity) Still, my oppinion on religion is, why must we all be so different, having to choose is probably the reason for so many tensions to appear throughout history. Just take the teachings from both and live a happy and fulfilling life. that is how I would live, hope it helps

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adviceman49 answered Thursday May 26 2011, 9:23 am:
My son was born into a home of two different religions. My wife and I decided early on that we would not force either of our religions on any of are children. Rather we would raise then to respect and honor all religions.


My family was not thrilled with this choice but my in-laws were and helped in every way. My son is now and adult and has chosen to in some respects follow his mothers religion as it is the religion of his girlfriend and hopefully future wife.


He also honors my religion by celebrating the holidays with us. I say us as my wife does celebrate my holidays as I do hers.


This is probably not the answer you are looking for though it has worked for my son since he was old enough to understand the difference in our two religions. He chose to have presents at Christmas along with the rest of the neighborhood children and celebrate my gift giving holiday in a more traditional manner. In fact his best friend was the son of a minister who celebrate all the holidays along with my son. It was a great learning experience for both of them.

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a13d answered Wednesday May 25 2011, 6:15 pm:
Christianity(: defintly it is the only true way! you should study up on it if you need anymore help or details imbox me I can tell you a lot about it if you'd like I'm just not gonna spill it all out on this one message lol(: please imbox me and ask me anything you need to know! (:

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dearcandore answered Wednesday May 25 2011, 1:49 pm:
Find good people that you like in each of the two religions. Spend time with those people. Get to know how their faith affects their life and their outlook. Not necessarily by asking, but just by observing (observing is better b/c I think sometimes when you ask people are more likely to tell you what they think you want to hear instead of what is true). Something in the way people live out their faith may touch you and help you decide. If nothing else, you've made new friends and widened your circle of understanding. Good luck!

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