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Oral herpes/cheating boyfriend
Ok about 2 weeks ago fromboyfriend returned from Canada where has been working from time to time for his job. He travels thru different states as well but not too far from PA. I gave him head the night he returned and as of las Thursday May 12th I started breaking out with sores in my mouth. He claims he is not cheating and understands where they could of came from (sexually transmitted), but I also read that he just could be a carrier of the Virus1 as well. How do I know if he is or isn't cheating by the sores in my mouth? And he is also on Gmail alot and says he only uses it for bills or reservations for hotels he stays at for work. Funny when I have the same and on the chat as well and can tell when he is on and so is his video as well. And gets all annoyed when I ask him to go chat video or chat with me and says he doesn't like using it all the time only when he is in Canada for sake of rates on the phone and only if he has real bad signals in hotels for his cell. But yet if I see he is available he gets very annoyed with me about it. What do I do?
EEV, PA
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Here is a rule to live by:
If your gut is telling you something seems funky it is. ALWAYS LISTEN TO YOUR GUT! He shouldn't be getting annoyed when you talk to him unless he is in the middle of something important (which doesn't include playing video games or some other trivial endeavor).
I think you need to get the herpes treated by a doctor and then move on. You also need to tell him you got the herpes from him and make sure that your girlfriends pass the word around so as to reduce his opportunities to spread it.
Incidentally, you may also be able to sue him for transmitting it if you want to really take the revenge thing a ways. But you will need to talk to an attorney to get the lowdown on that.
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stop having unprotected sex with him immediately and both of you get tested. Even if he is just a carrier (and not a cheater) you both need to know if you are clean. While you're there you can ask the doctor for yourself if herpes can be transmitted any other way than sexual contact. Be smart.
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