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Letter to my fiance's mother?
I never my man's mother and I feel like "the other woman"... haha... I just want her to know I love her son with all my heart and I want nothing but good things for him for the rest of his days. I want her to know he has touched my heart in a way that no one else ever could and that I am committed to him.. his life.. his feelings.. his thoughts.. ideas.. dreams.. etc. I know he loves his mom so very much and always has wonderful things to say about her - I've never met her and I one day hope to... but at this time I have to send her a letter and I don't really know how to do this. I just want her to know that I respect the bond and the love he has with her and I respect her as the woman who gave life to my soul mate... I want her to know her son' heart is safe with me - I wish I knew how to do this without sounding like a complete fool... - - If any mom's have advice or people who have beenin similar situations have any advice I'd really appreciate it! Many thanks!
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Get her address. Buy her a nice card, maybe just something that is blank on the inside. Write what you wrote here (I thought it was lovely) and send it to her. Let me tell you something - these days, when someone takes the time to make a handwritten letter, it really says a lot. I'm a mom, and if my son's future wife wrote to me to tell me all of those things I would be so happy. Because every mom just wants to know their children will be happy. It would mean a lot to hear that you have good intentions toward your fiance. Go for it! Don't worry about sounding foolish. Write from the heart, put a stamp on it and mail it. I guarantee you, she will be moved.
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Make the sentiments you expressed part of your wedding vows. Until then, wait until he introduces you to his mom. Let things happen in their own time. You don't need to force the issue.
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