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Okay so im going out with this guy, and i really like him a lot. but theres this other girl that he liked a lot before and they are like really good friends and he talkes to her more than me. He tells me he doesnt like her more than a friend but i think hes lying to me. I know that she still likes him. do you think he likes her and is just going out with me for laughs?

aw, that REALLY sux! well, ok, listen, you need to have a talk with him. say that your afraid that he likes her. if he STILL denys it then ask one of his buddies if he still likes her. you know how guys are! lol. if he flirts with her too much then give him the slient treatment, if he doesnt care break it off. trust me hun, you desuve ALOT better than that! anybody does. if he cares about you he'll stop flirting iwth her and stuff like that. and i dont think its for laughs because it would be a waste of time for him to go out with you if he likes her and she likes him. right? so he DOES like. good luck! ♥ leah

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ok well there is this guy and he got pissed off at me and my friend

and so i was tlaking to him and stuff i asked him why he wass being so meana dn wut we did and he said he didnt hate us and i asked if he ever likes someone(my friend)and he was like well i liked u more thn her

and soo i fell really bad that he liked me not her wut should i do should i tell her or just keep it a secret?

you need to reasure your friend that you dont like this guy. tell her that you would NEVER take her man(lol). tell her that friends are forever adn boys are whatever and you will ALWAYS be there for her. trust me i was in your friends place before and thats what they want to hear. i hope it helped and good luck!
♥ leah

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So I got in a fight with this guy that I was basicly seeing and it was because I got jelouse when i heard he was hanging out with other girls. I really want him back cause Im head over heals for him.
What can I do to get him back?

1. try to get HIM jelous
2. try looking cuter
3. work out to get your mind off of him and to get in good shape
4.be yourself
5. flirt with him

i hope you get him back hun!

~leah~

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What are some really good songs?

everyother time by LFO
Mecry me by Alkaline trio
unwritten by natasha bedingfeild
hold on by good charlotte
just a kid by simple plan

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ok this is my 4 or 5 period (don't really remember) and it started on wednesday and on friday night i had like very very very little blood and over night there was none at all so it was 12 hours with no blood and now all of sudden i had kinda alot what the heck!? Please don' tell me "thats the way the body works or your periiod is iiregualr" i wanna why that happened?!

its COMPLETELY normal. actually it happens ALOT, usualy more that just starting off heavy. it just means that your period is getting ready to start but its not fully ready to start yet.

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Hi i need some help ive been going out with this girl for about 2 years i really do love her and care about her but the problem isnt really me or her her dad hasn never liked me but the rest of the family does ive helped him several times with things hes needed and no thanks have been given not even a show of apreciation. the begining of this week she was talking to me and her dad walks in al pissed of and he starts yelling and half wway threw the conv. i heard him talking about me i was on the phone with her and he knew it. its like he did it to get to me. so i asked her to put me on the phone with him i said if you got something to say to me say it to my face and then he said somethings he shouldnt and i said somethings i shouldnt. the wthings is me and her broke up cause i personalyy dotn thinks its gonna work out if me and her dad dont get along cause i understand that he needs to be a part of her family and im almost 100%percent positive that me and him will not be able to work it out becaus ehe will raise his voice and im not one to baxck down can u please help? anything i could do anyway for us to still be together or her be able to be freinds with me? i really do care about her and she really cares about me

wow...what a sucky situation. look, most dads dont like any guy who goes out with their daughters because they know what boys think about. its just that some dads are more open about it. you should talk to her. tell her you really care about her and your gonna try to do everything you can to be nice to her dad. just be polite to her dad and tell him your sorry for yelling at him(even if it was his fault). tell her dad that your gonna try to be more polite and resposable..dads like that. if you love her then you should be willing to do that for her. keep doing things for her dad and be strong. dont blow your top just because he does. be the better person and i garente that he will notice. i hope it helped and good luck!

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I just moved from New Jersey to New Mexico.
I met a really cool kid named Matthew here, and I think that we are close to dating, because we really like each other. The problem is should I tell my ex boyfriend [we're SO close, and we've been best friends for like 7 years, the reason we broke up is because I moved] that I found someone new? & how should I tell him.
Thanks. =P

only tell him if you feel its nessesary. look, you two broke up and its fine to have someone new in your life, as well as him having someone in his. it might hurt you to tell him but its a part of life hun. everyone has to go through a break up every once in a while right? i think if you guys are close he will understand. just becasue you guys broke up doesnt mean that you have to keep your love life from him. you guys are still friends and from what i hear you guys will probably be friends for a LONG time. hope i helped! feel free to ask anything else.

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Hey!
this guy I like IMed me & was like " hey babe" & when i said i g2g he did the crying face.
Does this mean he likes Me?
ill rate you a 5 if you can help!

well, it all depends if he is a joker or if he is serious about things. it might just mean that he thinks of you as a really good friend and doesnt want you to leave, if he is a joker. if he is not then he is probably leaving hints to you that he DOES like you. i think you should get a friend to ask him for you. that way you wont have an awkward moment and you will know if he does or not. hope i helped!

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How do you know when you really love someone? Is there an age limit on love? How do you tell the differance between love and infatuation? Please help me, I really need to know answers and please don't say "you just know" because that really is no help. I'll rate good answers. Thank you so much.

aw, cute. ok well, when your in love you smile whenever the person talks to you or calls you. when your in love you tend to get happy when their around. when your in love you would do or give anything for the person you love. there is really no age limitt to it. its just something special that you feel. well, if like a 5 year old said she was in love i wouldnt belive it but other than that ill belive it. just dont get too attached because that could lead to BAD things.

♥ leah

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why do people ask such dumb questions on here!?

because their dumb

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Hello Advicenators. I have no idea what this song is called. It's not the Jenifer Lopez one. I listened to it but its not that one it kind of goes like this :

im gonna hold you down. no matter the situtation my whole wide world ..

than I dont remember the rest. Ive tried looking on google for it but I didnt find it. Thanks i'll rate first 5 people to answer with the correct song and person who sings it.

hold you down bye Jlo.

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whats high mainntence or whatever? i duno how to spell it lol.

it means that rather you constanly need someone or something to make you happy or it means that your really preppy and have alot of things. it depends on the situation.

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i was wondering if you knew the songs in order ((from the cd)) of fall out boys

1 cd= from under the cork
2 cd= take this to your grave


ill rate high thnxz!!

http://music.channel.aol.com/artist/main.adp?tab=album&artistid=533936&albumid=740237

it shows you the song titles on this page.

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My friend nd i want 2 help the people that were effected by tha hurricane. we want to make crafts or something so it will be easy for us (we are good at crafts) but something that the people would need. I was thinking maybe soap and a soap holder or a toothbrush and toothbrush holder that we could decorate the holders and stuff but that sounds kind of lame. Any crafty ideas? Thank u!

♥ Rebecca ♥

i think those are GREAT ideas. you should have a number of things to sell to help. you could make braclets and sell them. or give face paintings at the mall for little kids. thats another idea.

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I'm doing okay. Glad you're getting calls. School started fopr you yet? What a way to start the year! :)

yea i started august...24 ya. i got 3CALLS TODAY! YEA! it was fun. but 2 of them were making me sad : (!

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If strep isn't treated it can lead to rheumatic fever...which causes problems with joints and more importantly your heart. Don't worry though, that's why you take antibiotics to get rid of the infection. It IS more like a throat infection than your ordinary sore throat. It is a bacterial infection rather than a viral one. I'm sure that's more than you want to know! But, you did get treated and that's the important thing! :)
YG

lol ya im glad i got my shot then. so hows life treating ya bud? im doning fine. people are finaly starting to call me.....ok only one person did but o well, its a start lol.

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Must have got a big mega dose of antibiotics! Got to me that way one time. Strep throat is not much fun. You should be feeling a little better about now. A lot better tomorrow. Yes, it is sad that some are so rude. Heck with them! :)

lol i agree. ya im feeling alot better but it still hurts when i walk, but not nearly as bad as yesterday and this morning. what is the big deal with strep throut anyway? i dont think i get it? is it just like a cold? o well, im not the smartest person in the world lol. ; )

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why is it so dark in the store hollister?

i think about that all the time when i go in there its probably because they think their all cool(which in my opinion they r lol).

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Good! The way you said it I thought maybe you were leaving or something. What did you do that you spent time in ER? Hope you get well soon! :)

i had a fever and i felt REALLY cold but my body felt hot and my head hurt and my throut hurt. so my mom took me and they said i had strep and i needed to get a shot. so i did and now i cant walk or anything...i dont like it one bit. and thank you your the only one who said get well. lol sad isnt it?

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I have been fine. What do you mean hello and goodbye...planning on leaving us are you? YG

HECK NO! i just wanted to say it. i would never even think about leaving you guys! i would miss ya too much! lol.

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