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Hi i need some help ive been going out with this girl for about 2 years i really do love her and care about her but the problem isnt really me or her her dad hasn never liked me but the rest of the family does ive helped him several times with things hes needed and no thanks have been given not even a show of apreciation. the begining of this week she was talking to me and her dad walks in al pissed of and he starts yelling and half wway threw the conv. i heard him talking about me i was on the phone with her and he knew it. its like he did it to get to me. so i asked her to put me on the phone with him i said if you got something to say to me say it to my face and then he said somethings he shouldnt and i said somethings i shouldnt. the wthings is me and her broke up cause i personalyy dotn thinks its gonna work out if me and her dad dont get along cause i understand that he needs to be a part of her family and im almost 100%percent positive that me and him will not be able to work it out becaus ehe will raise his voice and im not one to baxck down can u please help? anything i could do anyway for us to still be together or her be able to be freinds with me? i really do care about her and she really cares about me
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you should try sitting down with her and her dad askh him whats wrong and how you can help make things between you a little better(you and him)if he dose start to yell just take it i know you say that your not like that but the bottem line is that it seems he has made his mined up and the only way you can make things better for you and her is to listen to what he has to say then deside what is best all round with the three of you good luck
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dads are like that. overprotective about their daughters and their boyfriends. just dont say anything to him or about him. hes just afraid of losing his little girl. feel sorry for him.
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You crossed the line big time with her dad. I know that he was really rude to you, but you just made thing a whole lot worse by acting childish and saying what you said to him. Breaking up with her wasn't a smart move either. Don't break up with your girlfriend because her dad is just flat out rude for no reason. Unless there is a reason for him to resent you. You cannot control her dad, if this were a friend, or a person that wasn't related to you or her, that you could solve and get rid of. But you will never be able to get rid of her dad, if you end up marrying her, you're stuck with her father forever. Thats the first big reason why you shouldn't have said what you said to him. If you still want to be with her, which I wouldn't doubt, then I suggest that you talk to her dad and ask him what was the problem before anything happened on the phone. Don't yell, just ask him calmy what is the problem. And no matter how rude he is, just say you're sorry before you stop talking to him. You also need to get your girlfriend involved in this, have her talk to her dad about it too. Get some information on this. If you really cared about her, you'd try hard to talk with her dad, and do everything possible to find out what is wrong.
-TheTeenGirl
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just talk to her dad and tell him how you feel about his daughter hes probly worried that you might take advantage of her or hurt her somehow
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wow...what a sucky situation. look, most dads dont like any guy who goes out with their daughters because they know what boys think about. its just that some dads are more open about it. you should talk to her. tell her you really care about her and your gonna try to do everything you can to be nice to her dad. just be polite to her dad and tell him your sorry for yelling at him(even if it was his fault). tell her dad that your gonna try to be more polite and resposable..dads like that. if you love her then you should be willing to do that for her. keep doing things for her dad and be strong. dont blow your top just because he does. be the better person and i garente that he will notice. i hope it helped and good luck!
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