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Question Posted Saturday September 24 2005, 11:47 am

I just moved from New Jersey to New Mexico.
I met a really cool kid named Matthew here, and I think that we are close to dating, because we really like each other. The problem is should I tell my ex boyfriend [we're SO close, and we've been best friends for like 7 years, the reason we broke up is because I moved] that I found someone new? & how should I tell him.
Thanks. =P


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Alex's-gurl answered Sunday September 25 2005, 11:12 am:
just tell him that since you moved you wouldn't beable to see each other and that you have moved on. and that you have met somebody and you like him

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rosebud_01 answered Saturday September 24 2005, 11:52 pm:
If I need to know how old are you in order for me to help you.

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carolinagrl9375 answered Saturday September 24 2005, 3:35 pm:
If you are very close with him it's absoulutly fine to just casualy have a conversation and then when he asks how everything is down where you live, just tell him about the guy. He should understand and if he doesnt, he's not worth your friendship, because obviously he hasent let go completely of you all's relationship and then it's just worse to have somebody who cant let go. Good luck!

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EvilCheshire answered Saturday September 24 2005, 2:34 pm:
I wouldn't just get right to it and be like "HEY, I REALLY LIKE THIS GUY DOWN HERE!" Just have a normal conversation with him and kind of casually bring it up.

He's going to have to face that you're bound to find someone down there. If anything he should be happy for you. Sure, he may be bummed because you aren't his but what can you do? Just hang around in New Mexico not dating anyone for his benifit?

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cookierat123 answered Saturday September 24 2005, 1:03 pm:
only tell him if you feel its nessesary. look, you two broke up and its fine to have someone new in your life, as well as him having someone in his. it might hurt you to tell him but its a part of life hun. everyone has to go through a break up every once in a while right? i think if you guys are close he will understand. just becasue you guys broke up doesnt mean that you have to keep your love life from him. you guys are still friends and from what i hear you guys will probably be friends for a LONG time. hope i helped! feel free to ask anything else.

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LoVes_the_pErFeCt_Crime answered Saturday September 24 2005, 12:35 pm:
well tell him it is complicated for you to c him anymore since you moved and you found another guy that is well you noright there
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TattooedXRoses answered Saturday September 24 2005, 11:56 am:
You don't have to tell him. He is your ex. It's not like your currently dating him. I would let him know about it if the subject comes up. It will make it seem like you still like your ex if you run telling him about the relationship.

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