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The New kid
Theres this New kid in my grade and i wanna talk to him and ask him questions and such but i dunno i have no idea how to start out. Me and my friends titled him a Bad Boy. So how should i get to know him?
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you should just walk up to him someday with a friend and say something like "hey im (insert name) where are you from?" and after he ansers say, "thats kindof cool. what classes are you taking? (insert anser) im takeing (insert classes). maby you want to hang out sometime?" then you could say hi to him every once in a while if you see him in the halls. then he will probly tell you more about himself. hope i helped
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just start talking to him
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Just go up to him and say where are you from and continue by asking him what does he think of his new school. Just keep asking him things about himself and where he's from. I hope that I helped but if not you can visit me at my column.
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Start out by simply saying: hey do you mind if I ask you a few questions? Nothing wrong with wanting to ask a few questions. It might seem a bit more polite to present yourself and say you'd like to ask questions, rather than just randomly asking him. Doesn't have to be personal stuff either. Hope that helped and good luck.
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hey well that happened with me and my ex. i know that sounds bad saying ex but im so happy i did somehow talk to him. When i saw that he had no where to sit i called his name & he sat with me & my friends he was "the bad boy" in my school too as well as the new kid. We talked & i told him to come hang out with us one time and he showed up we all had fun & he got a long with my friends that were guys and they ended up doing everything together and being best friends. After that we jus got closer and started talkin more. I didnt think id stand a chance to hook up with him but i was so wrong. We went out for 14 months and we broke up over something stupid so i say go for it & goodluck ;]
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Walk up to him and say hi. Just try to talk about simple things like weather, sports, ya know that idea. Maybe that will help!
Good Luck
~*~Elle~*~
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I've been the new kid //tons// of times, and I can't tell you how awful it is to be new AND have a bad reputation. Has he done anything to deserve the title 'Bad Boy'? Or is that just you and your friends unjustly sterotyping him? Maybe he's a realy nice kid, and just shy. How tot alk to him? There's no need for strategy hon, just go up to him at his locker, in the lunch room, and start talking. Say something like 'Hey, I'm [insert name here]. I haven't seen you around before, you're new right?' Then ask him where he's from, and say something about that place. I promise you, he'll be so grateful to have a friend. Try inviting him to sit with you and your friends at lunch.
So try that, and please, stop trying to fit him into some kind of category. You don't know him, let him show you who he really is.
*Carrie
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Bad boys are normally trouble and heartbreak, but as girls most of us are normally drawn to them. You can get to know him, but anything that starts flashing warning signs means to stay away! His image just might be a bad boy, but he could be a real softy inside.
Hi is always the best way to start a conversation with someone. Find out what he's into, if you're into the same thing you can talk about it. If he's into the same sports maybe you guys could get together and play it. Ask what he thinks about such and such class. Ask silly questions about lunch and what soda is better... pepsi.. or coke. Anything like that might set you off into a conversation. If he doesn't really take interest and gives you short answers I'd move on and forget about him.
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Well, Ask him how he likes his new neighborhood, why he moved, ect. Comfort him b/c he's probably REALLY confused right now.
~Good Luck
~Rach
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