me and my group of friends about 9 of us always hang out together. theres 5 girls and they are each different. i noticed that they are competitive. because 1 of them im really good friends with and she tells me everything. she tells me about what the other girls say about her and how they said things to make her feel bad, because 2 of them liked my other friend rob.
it's a big mess, but now the other girls started to tell me stuff too. you kno what they all said? not to tell any1 anything they told me. so now almost all of them tell me things about how they dont like 1 or 2 of them because of things they said to them or said to other people. its confusing and they are trying to out-do the other just for my friend, and just to make sure that 1 girl doesnt get more attention than the other.
2 questions: why all this competition, i mean are girls always like this? and two, what should i do, stay out of it or help them? i've known them for a long time and i like all of them as friends, but they dont seem to get along. please help me
I had a similar problem. It's hard when you have ALOT of friends, rather than just one or two. You just need to remember I'm sure you have your own set of problems, you never have to listen to them explain there issues, or talk about your other friends. I think the reason they compete is because they all like you and they probably know that other people are talking about them and they think if they get alot of attention from you than they look like your favorite. It seems like your pretty popular but that is no reason to have to listen to other people talking about your friends.If I were in your situation which I was, I would probably explain to them when they came up to me and started talking about my friend I would be like, I have to go, I will talk to you later or something. You don't need to come out and be like I don't want to talk about her. You just need to find a reason to leave the conversation. It's important that you don't talk about your friends alot. It is just asking for trouble. I kept going with the talking about other people, I ended up loosing all my friends including the girl who was talking about people. I hope I helped at all! Good Luck. Keep your chin up! I love feedback good and bad! :)
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17/f.
My friends birthday is on monday and she's turning 18. They all want to go to a hooka bar. She said you don't have to do it, its just fun going down and watching people do it.
I've never been to a hooka bar so I don't know much about it. I know what it is, but is it bad for you? Also, I don't know if my parents will be up for it so how do I tell them. If I go I probably won't do it anyways but my parents won't believe me probably. And anyways, I'm unsure about going. How old do you have to be to go? How old do you have to be to do it? Is it bad for you? What should I tell my parents?
Well I think it sounds like you really aren't into it. I think your friend really wants to go because it's her big 18th and she wants to do something special. But trust me it's not special. I don't care what people say if your smoking it than it isn't good for you. I sincerally think that you should figure out if it is really worth it. You shouldn't lie to your parents. I don't mean to sound like I want you to do the right thing, if you want to go, go but if your unsure, I wouldn't. It's not a good situation to be in. Peer pressure is a bitch. You really don't want to get into it. I wish you the best of luck with your situation. I love feedback good and bad! I hope I helped.
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I desperately need help getting motivated to run. I love running at the track or on the running trails with my team during the season, but in the two week off season, I cant get myself to do it. I stay in shape by biking and horseback riding (gets you strong legs which is very important in running) and swimming. Does anyone have any tips on how to get motivated and stay motivated?
Well I love running to, but I'm not on a team so I'm going to try my best to help. Do you have a dog or maybe a friend you know that has a dog. Well you can run around with the dog which is fun and it keeps you running. Or maybe you can make up a plan for yourself and reward yourself when you stick to the plan. Time yourself so you try to beat your time. Maybe you can try rollarblading or biking, there both extremely good for leg muscles. Good Luck! I hope I helped! I love feedback good and bad!
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I'm 14 year old gurl. okay to my question..I like my moms bestfriends son, my mom and his mom have been friends since highschool and there now around 40 years old. Anyways I like her son and he likes me too..we have discussed dating eachother, and really want to but our parents won't let us because their afraid if we break up that it will destroy their friendship, I just really want to date and be with him but dont want my mom and his to hatte me for it.
First of all I think your mom is being unfair. If they have this great friendship then why can't it withstand if you and the son breakup. I guess you should think about what you would do in your moms place. But if I were in this situation and I really liked a guy and he liked me back, and I thought it was more than just a fling, like it could actually be something than I would probably go for it. That might be helpful or not helpful advice. Family comes first to me, but your mom and his mom have been friends since highschool, they should be able to handle it if you and her son breakup. I mean I'm sure they have been through a lot of fights and if they are still friends than I'm sure they figured out how to work things out. I hope I helped at all. Good luck! I love feedback good and bad!
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Ok, this might be long, so yeahh..
Well I'm going to be a freshman in high school. I have 2 best friends, let's call them Marissa and Erica. I can be my complete self around them, tell them anything, etc. I'm shy when you first meet me, so I don't have that many friends, I mean I have these 2, and a few others [but it's different with the others] and that's it. It's hard for me to make new friends. But now, I feel like this friendship between me, Marissa and Erica is slowly falling apart.
Let me give you a little background here. Marissa's parents are very protective of her. She is almost a year younger than Erica and I, being born in August, me and Erica in November and December.. Anyway. 8th grade, she was hardly allowed to go anywhere, mall, movies.. she wasn't allowed to go, UNLESS a parent was there. I live close to a park, if me Marissa and Erica wanted to walk down there, she HAD to call her parents, when she got there, got back, etc. If we wanted to go to Friendly's or whatever to eat, had to call when she got there, got back, etc. When we go to HER house, we hardly go anywhere. Don't get me wrong, I love Marissa, I've known her since kindergarden. She can get annoying at times, but so can everybody. Her house can get boring, but we can do other stuff.
Now Erica.. well her parents aren't as protective, but whenever we wanted to hang out on Fridays after school or whatever.. she [sometimes, most of the time actually] couldn't, because she had to babysit her sister. Now I know that's not her fault. But over we weekends we didn't see each other because of other plans, or we just didn't call each other. See like, Marissa nevers goes online [hardly], Erica does sometimes, not as much anymore actually but once in a while and she'd usually always be on after school. My friends.. well they don't like call each other. I don't know.. it's weird. Now it's summer and we call once in a while but.. i don't know. I'll get into this soon. Also, whenever Erica wants to hang out, she'd always have to leave by 9, 9:30, whereas Marissa could stay until 10, 10:30..
But now, Erica is mad at Marissa. she's always telling me how she hates hanging out with her..like everytime she comes online and i'm talking to her we end up talking about marissa and i feel soo bad talking about her behind her back because she doesnt even know. shpuld i tell marissa what's going on or will that make things worse? ok so like on friday i think it was i went to the movies with marissa and her sister [yeah for like the first time, her parents actually didnt stay, which was a surprise] anyway. all 3 of us had hung out about a week before that, and marissa kept talking about seeing the movie. well when she mentioned the movie to erica, she was like no i don't want to see that.. well ends up marissa didnt invited erica and now she is mad. she says she always feels like she is the one left and and me and marissa always text each other, well erica always said it cost a lot of money and i didnt want to add it to her bill, she says she can text sometimes..okk well then shes saying how me and marissa always calll each other first, well like erica doesn't even TRY to call one of us. i didnt hear from her from a whole week, the first week of summer..SHE could text me or call me..right? if she really feels that way. marissa atleast i keep more in touch with. idk. i love thse girls and dont want to end our friendship but do you think whats going on is right of either of them? am I being a bad friend? i feel like im stuck in the middle. what should i do about this? im so sorry this was so long, if you read it all thanks and if u answer it, thanks again♥
Haha that was long, but you explained it well. It seems like Erica is always busy, Marissa is always being protected and your just getting a little frustrated. It's common to be somewhat annyoed if you've known these people since kindergarden. I got caught in a position similar to yours, I would talk about the other friend really not meaning to hurt her, but it turned out when the two of my friends got back together she told her all the mean things I said. I'm not saying you should totally ignore your friend when she talks about the other but it's not a good idea. Erica seems like she has some jealousy issues, which is no reason to get mad at her and you and Marissa shouldn't gain up on her, but I think it would be a good idea for the both of you to talk with Erica. If it doesn't go smoothly than just back away, at least you said your piece and Erica would know what you think right now. Don't tell Marissa, it's not your fight, and it's not your position to say. As far as the calling, yes she could call you, but maybe she just wants a summer vacation solo for a little while, just give her some space. You can still hang out with Marissa. I hope I helped at all. And good luck. I hope your summer goes better than what it sounds. I love feedback good and bad!
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Okay I was with the guy for over a year. On and off. And this is our third try. I'm pretty sure he liked some other chick.. but couldn't get with her and then asked me out. I feel stupid and yeah.. I don't know what to do.. because he doesn't really call me. He talks to his other friends on the phone and puts me on hold. :\ And he doesn't really show or tell me that he likes me or that he's happy with me.. or anything like that. So i really don't know what's going on. It's just.. "BYE" and I feel like he likes the other girl...and not me anymore. I don't know what to do because I'm not really sure I'm right.
Guys shouldn't treat you like that no matter what. He should want to be with you, not just kinda sorta want you to be his girlfriend. It sounds like you can do alot better than some guy, who you are pretty sure likes somebody else. It's not worth it. You should spend your time and energy on somebody who you really like and likes you back and wants to call you and spend all his time with you. I hope I helped at all. Good luck! I love feedback good and bad!
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I started using a fake tanner in the past week. It works great and looks natural and real. My question is, can I go outside and sitll sunbathe while I am still using a fake tanner? Becuase I was thinking of this; take a shower in the morning and apply fake tanner. Then later on in the afternoon, I would sunbathe for about 15 minutes on each side, and work it up to 30 min. Is this ok, and will I still be able to tan outside? Thank-you for your advice.
Yes, that is what I do. It should blend into your fake tanner and make it look even more natural. Just make sure your using sunscreen, if you burn it might make your skin look messy. Good Luck! Any questions just let me know!
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Sorry in advanced if it is long. I'm 16/f. So, I broke up with my bf of 4 months a month ago. And the same exact day he got a new gf. And he didnt bother telling him, I found out at a party, I saw them together. And it didn't feel right to me, like he shouldn't have moved on so quickly. But I wasn't really jealous I don't think. And we are still friends, which I'm glad for, and I'm constantly going online to see if he is on. And when he is, my heart starts to race like crazy, and I'm like so happy. We can talk forever but little stuff, we just always find things to talk about. I also think about him all the time no matter what, it drives me crazy. And when I'm not talking to him, I feel a little depressed. I'm just scared that if we do get back together, it will end up like the past. I really don't want to hurt him again, I would just hate myself. And after we broke up, I told myself that I did love him, but just that it was just friendship love. But now I"m not too sure. Can I really still be IN love with him? And I just also need some advice on how to deal with these feelings if they won't go away. I'm just really confused and need some advice.
Oh do I know how your feeling. It really wasn't cool of him to move on that day. But I'm wondering if he did because he wanted to show you something, like that he could get a girlfriend right away. I guess thats not important. But you just need to know that your 16 years old, and you sound like a great girl. You have the rest of your life to find a guy you truely love and want to be with every second. For now you should just have fun, and stop worrying. It's so tough, but the way I got over it was just thinking good about myself. I was like heck if he wants to go out and get a girlfriend thats fine, but I am going to have fun to. If you guys are friends thats great remain friends. But don't ever wait for him, and if you truely are in love it will work itself out. But like I said don't wait, just live your life. They are tons of other guys out there, that would be lucky to have you and you should just have fun. If your reading this and then you go online and wait to see if he's on then just think to yourself it will work itself out. Don't be confused, and don't be jealous, just have fun in life. If it is really love, then it will work out I promise. And also, I almost can promise you that when he see's you've pretty much moved on as well, and your just having fun I think he will miss you and want you to be back with him. Then from there it's all up to you! Good Luck. I hope I helped at all. Write me with questions or if you want to tell me how things worked out. I love feedback good and bad!
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14|Female...For about two years ever since I found out my dad cheated on my mom...my life has been completely different, i use to feel really confident about my body but now i dont, i feel over weight and ugly (even though im 89lbs)I also have really bad trust issues now..I dont want to be like this anymore I want the old me back, My mom says the best way is for me to talk to someone about it but I cant talk to her because I know that it will upset her about the dad thing and I cant talk to my older sister because she will think im just going through some teenage stage...my mom suggested I see a therapist but i dont know if I want to or not because it just seems weird telling a stranger my feelings...and also I know they cost alot of money so I dont want to just waste money if I am going through a teenage stage but I dont think it is just a teenage stage...Im just really scared I am going to do something crazy if I dont tell people how I feel. So my question is...should I see a therapist or not?
Alright. I had a similar issue. It's important that you feel good about yourself. 89lbs is most deffiantly not overweight. I'm sure you are a beautiful person, never feel bad about yourself. When you look in the mirror always think of one postive thing about yourself. Even if your in a rush you need to pick out one thing you love about yourself. I talked to a therapist when I was going through similar problems. I really liked talking to her because she never was going to tell anybody. She didn't know my family, or my friends, she didn't no anything about me, and most importantly to me she never judged me. It's a really nice thing to have somebody to talk about things and all they do is listen and sometimes they talk back and help you through things. You can't battle this alone. Sometimes through your school they can get you a therapist for free. Which is very nice. That is what I did. The prices vary depending on the therapist. But there is opionions to getting a free or very inexpensive therapist. And there quality won't be any less or anything. They will treat you very nicely. It's important you get through this. It's not a stage. So don't ever think that. If you have any questions or comments please please please write me. I really like your question because I can relate to it. If you want to write to me, I can help you also. I'm no therapist but I will do my best. Good Luck. I love feedback good and bad. My email is mollysie@yahoo.com. Please write me if you have any questions like I said. Ok I could go on forever!
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The pastor at my church is sick and members of my church are going on a juice fast for 7 days. I am 5'6" and I weigh about 130 pounds (mostly muscle). My question is about how much weight will I lose during this and what's the safest way to come off the fast and try to gain my weight back (in muscle)?
Thanks sooooooo much!!!!
Hmm. Well you don't need to loose any weight. If it's a juice diet, the first time you start eating again you'll probably gain alot of it back. You can probably stick to your athletics to keep yourself still muscular. Maybe limit the exerise a little bit. Just make sure you are always hydrated. I'm not sure if your on a juice fast if you can have water but if you are you should have as much as you can of it. I'm not sure where you live, but in this summer heat it's important to stay hydrated. You can eat whatever you usually ate before the fasting. Just don't overdo it, and don't eat to less. I hope I helped at all, please ask me any other questions. Good Luck. I love feedback good and bad!
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I wonder how the school connects to the internet without a service provider. because there people could just click internet explorer and the would be on the internet? is it free ?
I think your school might have wireless internet. It's something you have to purchase. And a signal would be sent to all the computers in your school. It's on all the time, unless you turn the "box" or the signal off. I have it at home, it works for my entire house. Sometimes town's have wireless, and you can pay a monthly fee. It's on all the time. I hope I helped at all. Any questions please ask. I love feedback good and bad!
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I really hate my uncle's girlfriend. she isn't nice and i think she's making my whole family treat me wrong. And I'm the one whose wrong when i try to stand up for myself to them or tell them the problem i'm having. how do i deal?
She doesn't seem very nice your right. Alright it's not wrong to stand up for yourself, never ever think that is wrong. I'm not sure how she is making your family treat you wrong but that is not ok regardless. You need to talk to your uncle, and say whats happening, if he doesn't listen tell your parents that you don't like her and it's ok if they like her but you don't want her around you. You need to explain to them that this is making you upset. Your parents, or your uncle can't force you to be around somebody you don't like. I don't know your uncle, so I don't know what he is like. But I think you should deffinatly tell him what is going down. Don't be afraid to get upset. This is obviously bothering you, you need to stand up for yourself. If they don't listen, then at least you said your piece and they know how you feel about your uncles girlfriend. I have a similar problem with my cousin's boyfriend, and I talked to my sister, and my cousin. It helped because she understood. She didn't stop dating him.. But she doesn't have him around when I am around. I hope things work out for you! And I hope I helped at all! Good Luck! I love feedback, good and bad! Any questions please write me!
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Molly
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hey my names maddy
my two best frends are guys
one has a girlfriend who im frends with and ones single
ever since i met them, both of them have liked me on and off but they dont know i know that..
i like both of them in that way aswell just not alot and i hav too much of a single life now to drop it all for a boy
what do i do when eventually one of them asks me out? i dont want to loose my best frends.... but then again i like them...
Dear Maddy,
Well I think that if your fearing that your friendship will be ruined by you guys dating then that means your friendship isn't as strong as you thought. Dating somebody is like wanting to be with them more, doing more than just friends would do. You've got to think if you really want that or not and then think about what you have right now. Just lay it out. I love being single so I would probably choose to just keep my 2 guy friends. But if you really like him and you don't take that opportunity to go out with one of them than maybe you'll be spending all your time with him thinking god why didn't I say yes. You just need to think about what you truely want. Sorry that probably wasn't much help. But I hoped it helped at all! Good Luck. I love feedback, good and bad!
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Molly
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hey! well im 15/f and ive had some boy troubles lately. well theres this guy and hes actually my cousins neighbor. ive always thought he was adorable but this summer ive been more outgoing and we actually started talking and i wasnt shy around him or anything! im always over at my cousins because we are like best friends. well you see this guy "kevin" (my cousins neighbor) and me started flirting alot like we'd wrestle just any kind of flirt! until i knew he liked this girl but me and him were talking and how ive never had a boyfriend and hes like yeah thats a good thing though because then you dont have to worry about things. and hes like i like this girl tara and i want to go out with her but then im scared if i go out with her that i will like someone else too. well at this point i was thinkin hmmm...does he maybe like me? or whats he thinking. well the next day i find out that they are going out. im a little jealous because now i know we cant flirt like we use to!! but guess what? everytime i see him he kinda starts flirting with me. i do it back i know i shouldnt because he has a girlfriend but i just cant help it!!! like tonight i was over there and me and my cousin came back from our friends house and him and my other cousin (nick) were sittin in his garage and i start playin basketball in kevins driveway. well we all start kinda playin a game but then its my cousin and her brother (which would be my other cousin) and then me and kevin guardin each other. well we forget about the game and kevin like grabs me from behind and like holds me...like sayin ohhh i got you now you cant get out and all this stuff! i was like "Ahhh :]" i love this! haha. but then in the back of my mind im like whats he doing..whats he thinking..he has a GIRLFRIEND. :[
i just dont know! he is so confusing and please dont tell me not to stop talking to seeing him or hanging out with him because thats never gonna happen i can tell you that. him and his girlfriend havent hung out much because there so busy with baseball so im not sure whats goin on. hes so nice adorable just everything i can talk to him so easily! but i dont get how we can flirt so much like touchy flirt and he has a girlfriend. hes not one to cheat on a girl or anything either trust me plus we were talking and he said he would never cheat on a girl.
soo what do you think he is thinking?..what would you do in my case..when im around him?!
i think i like him =p but just dont want to admitt it to anyone or anything since i shouldnt even try since he has a girlfriend.
well THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR TIME
Well this is a tough situation. I read through your hole problem and I didn't see that you guys were kissing or like holding hands. I think if he has a girlfriend fine, you shouldn't be doing any kissing, making out ect. that would be cheating. Don't stop talking to him, just try to make sure it stays at just flirting. From reading your problem I kind of think he likes you if he keeps coming and flirting with you. Just make sure you are putting yourself in the girlfriends shoes and treat her like you'd want to be treated if you were her. Haha thats kind of confusing. Anyways flirting isn't cheating, but make sure you are keeping it at that. If you really like this guy, make sure you talk to him. It's very important, if you tell him that you like him maybe he will tell you the same. I wish the best of luck. I hope I helped at all! Any questions or anything feel free to write. I love feedback good and bad! Oh and in your case, I would continue flirting but not to the point were I'm feeling guilty about it. Don't ever put yourself in a position where you feel guilty! Good Luck! ;)
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Molly
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ok well heres my problem im a "perfectionist" sort of.. lol well i guess you can say i try to look the best i can.. uh.. in other words use everything i have.. yeah i dont know how to explain it.. well my biggest problem is that i over eat a lot lately.. over the summer, when i got a boyfriend it stopped and then started again.. after it was over.. the relationship didnt last very long maybe for 14 days.. well yea i start off eating healthy and then just eat junk food.. its like if it eat at all.. i eat junk food also.. but this isnt all the time.. i eat more than i should.. okay.. well i know a lot of info about dieting.. that sleep is important.. (which i get) at least 8 hours a night.. um.. i know sucking on ice can burn calories.. i kind of know what causes cellulite.. see well im not to clear about that and part of my question is that.. im not sure.. i know sugar & fried food can cause cellulite.. and caffine.. yeah so i need some info about that!! and i guess boredom can cause over eating.. thats the thing how can i stop that?.. um.. also i watch this show at 3 everyday.. its from 3 to 4.. thats wen i seem to eat.. during the whole hour =(.. i eat slow during the hour but eating for an hour definatly add up!! slow or not. when theres school i do the same.. right when i get home.. which is 3 i start eating and then eat too much.. stop around 4.. with school i think it was even worse.. well i did lots of excercise and stuff.. but not enough.. well my problem is i guess i need to stop watching that show somehow!! or just suck on ice during it.. sometimes i just cant.. i dont know.. well tell me what you guys think!! this is huge problem for me.
I had a similar problem and my sister did as well. We both had issues going on around us and we weren't truly aware that depression can be expressed in many ways and eating is one of them. I'm not saying that is your case, but maybe this boyfriend trouble is making you feel a little depressed. Don't stop watching your show if you really like it. Just try to sit in a comfortable place with a big big big big glass or water bottle and start drinking. Tell yourself that by the end of this show I am going to have this water completly gone. Eat lunch before that so when your show is about to go on you at least have a meal. Then if you feel yourself craving anything just sip the water. I'm not much of a water drinker, but it really did help. Try maybe running in place while the commericals are on. It seems like you care about your health and you want to do the right thing. Maybe if you have a friend or sibling to talk to about your exboyfriend it might help. It's a tough sitituation to be in, and it's really not fun but I hope I helped you at all. Don't force yourself to do away with snacking all at once, your just going to crave it more. Just take away a little less junk food everyday until there isn't anything left to take away. Good luck I hope this helped at all! Any questions please contact me, I love feedback even if it's not the best!
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Molly
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so theres this girl and we were friends for a long time since 5th grade .. but this year we kinda stopped talking.. idk why but the people who we hated in september now shes BEST friends with them.. and it made me mad in the begining but now it doesnt bug me.. so we made plans sometime in december when we were close and we had a great time and lauging and everything and then the next day we went to the mall and had fun again.. but then after that we started talking less and less everyday.. we were in the same math class and lunch table and we hardly talked to eachother..i felt like we werent hanging out and talking much so i decided to try to become better friends with her again by asking her to go to this carnival by my house and she said yes so i went to go pick her up except my sister(one of her friends but they dont do anything out of school) and her best friend(my sisters best friend) went too! so this girl who i invited wasnt even hanging out with me just talking to them because shes better friends with them and i was like in myhead.. uh hello i invited you ! so then when we got there they ran off and me and this girl started walking around but we ddint really have enouigh money to buy those bracelt things so we didnt know if we should buy tickets.. so for like 20 minutes we were like in dead silencewalking around.. and it was really awkward cause everytime i tried to start a conversation or laugh or something she would just be like..yeah..whatever and keep walking and so then i said how bout we go get more money from my mom and buy tickets and so she said yeah.. and so we went on the rides and laughed a couple times but it was still awkward around her.. i thought she was ina bad mood that night or something but then when we ran out of tickets on our last ride.. my sister and her friend came right behind us and i was left out again because im not really friends with the other girl either. idk if i should keep on trying to be friends with this girl or not..it seems like evry time i try to talk to her or hang out with her its so awkward sorry that its long..
I want to let you know I had a similar problem and trust me I deffiantly know what your going through it's not fun and totally awkward. It's a tough situation but take it from me who put up with the being left out and feeling awkward it doesn't get much better. And in the end I didn't even get to be friends with the person again. Take some time to meet new friends. I almost can promise you that when this girl sees you have new friends and your having fun with them she will say she misses you. It's a deffiantly tough situation, and unfair. I think it's because people just grow apart from eachother, different interests. But you don't deserve to feel left out, no friend should make you feel that way. If you have any questions please please contact me! I wish you the best of luck!
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Molly
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OMG I have a halloween party on like the 7th and I haven't gotten a costume yet. I don't know what to wear. I also will have a halloween dance and go trick-or-treating. I think I might be a boy but not sure. My mom won't let me buy a costume so what should I do??
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K, well first of all do you have a brother? Well if you do just ask to borrow some of his clothes you can be a boy, which is always cool. Or if you had some like cool clothes you could be a go go dancer. Or if you have like dress up clothes, you and your friends could all dress up as barbies. Just play around with some of the clothes you and your friends have! :) Good luck!
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Molly
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okay. i get soooooo nervous when i talk in class and i get really dizzy and stuff. it's so scary. and i usually don't know the answer cause i'm embarrassed and i dont wanna talk so i don't. and then the class laughs. so can you please help me solve my problem with my nervousness!??! thanks alot!
Ok, I am giving you this advice straight from somebody who went through the same thing. I used to be the same way. Ok being nervous is something you need to solve yourself but I will try to point you in the direction to get there. Try to accomplish alot of little things everyday. Talk to boys/girls if that helps a little. Just walk taller in the hallway. Say hi to everybody. Stay after school, talk to your math teacher, have him write questions on the board and have you solve them, so you get the hang of it. You don't have to tell your math teacher about your nervousness, just tell him you want to get some help. Just get socialable. When you figure out that you think your cured, do something you have never done before and accomplish it. That way you no that your ready to ban your nervousness! ;) Good Luck!
Love,
Molly
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Okay, my boyfriend's name is Justin. He has a best friend, Aaron, and Aaron's girlfriend's name is Brittany. That's so you all know who I am talking about.
Anyways, we're all going to Homecoming (hopefully, but that's a long story.) Since the guys bought Brittany and I jewelry, we want to do something special for them. We want to make them dinner. There's a few things wrong with that though, like the fact that Justin has been working all week so he could pay for dinner on Saturday night before Homecoming. Even though I told him he didn't have to. He complains about having to spend all of that money, but yet he won't take it when I say that he doesn't have to take me out to dinner.
Now, I was wondering how I should bring it up to him that me and Brittany wanna make him and Aaron dinner and possibly dessert before Homecoming without Justin getting mad that he's been working and earning all of that money. He's kicked out of school for awhile so he has to go to work anyways, so should I just tell him to put it towards his truck? Brittany and I really wanna do something special for the guys because they spent all of that money on us and it makes us feel bad. So how should we go about this?
Also, what are some things we could make? We were thinking lasanga, rolls, and brownies for dessert. Any other ideas? Thanks so much, sorry it's so long!
First of all thats so sweet, usually girls would just take the money and be cool with it. I think you should talk to him, and say I really want to do something special for you guys. If he's like no you don't have to, say Oh my gosh we could make dinner for you guys! And be all excited, and say this is going to be so much fun, and just get your hopes all up so he if hes like no then you all sad. If he does say no, just be like stop raining my parade I already no what I want to make and everything, and say k my house at this time or w/e your plans are, just remember be excited! ;) Good Luck!
Love,
Molly
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can u stop your feet from smelling? hahah lmao just wonder i know i'm werid
lol good question! My sister actually uses this cool lotion that reduces the feet smelling! And I have heard of socks that smell good lol but I'm not sure if the socks work, but the lotion works! ;)
Love,
Molly
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