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friend..
so theres this girl and we were friends for a long time since 5th grade .. but this year we kinda stopped talking.. idk why but the people who we hated in september now shes BEST friends with them.. and it made me mad in the begining but now it doesnt bug me.. so we made plans sometime in december when we were close and we had a great time and lauging and everything and then the next day we went to the mall and had fun again.. but then after that we started talking less and less everyday.. we were in the same math class and lunch table and we hardly talked to eachother..i felt like we werent hanging out and talking much so i decided to try to become better friends with her again by asking her to go to this carnival by my house and she said yes so i went to go pick her up except my sister(one of her friends but they dont do anything out of school) and her best friend(my sisters best friend) went too! so this girl who i invited wasnt even hanging out with me just talking to them because shes better friends with them and i was like in myhead.. uh hello i invited you ! so then when we got there they ran off and me and this girl started walking around but we ddint really have enouigh money to buy those bracelt things so we didnt know if we should buy tickets.. so for like 20 minutes we were like in dead silencewalking around.. and it was really awkward cause everytime i tried to start a conversation or laugh or something she would just be like..yeah..whatever and keep walking and so then i said how bout we go get more money from my mom and buy tickets and so she said yeah.. and so we went on the rides and laughed a couple times but it was still awkward around her.. i thought she was ina bad mood that night or something but then when we ran out of tickets on our last ride.. my sister and her friend came right behind us and i was left out again because im not really friends with the other girl either. idk if i should keep on trying to be friends with this girl or not..it seems like evry time i try to talk to her or hang out with her its so awkward sorry that its long..
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You are obviously trying really hard to be this girls friend,and it sounds like she couldn't care less.Heres's what you do:Sit her down and confront her about this.Tell her how you feel about it.If she still doesn't care,maybe you should just move on.
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I had the same problem with a friend. If your not getting a good vibe when your around your friend, then stop acting desperate and find some new friends who actually care to talk to you. It is tough, I know, but believe me she is not the only person out there. There are probably like a lot of ppl at your school. Make friends with them. If she is not making an effort to she how cool and nice you are, then do not try to be friends with her. Still be nice and all though but make new friends. If she comes back to you....then do what your heart tells you to do. That is my advice.
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I want to let you know I had a similar problem and trust me I deffiantly know what your going through it's not fun and totally awkward. It's a tough situation but take it from me who put up with the being left out and feeling awkward it doesn't get much better. And in the end I didn't even get to be friends with the person again. Take some time to meet new friends. I almost can promise you that when this girl sees you have new friends and your having fun with them she will say she misses you. It's a deffiantly tough situation, and unfair. I think it's because people just grow apart from eachother, different interests. But you don't deserve to feel left out, no friend should make you feel that way. If you have any questions please please contact me! I wish you the best of luck!
Love,
Molly
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Maybe you and this friend just need some time apart to make new friends. I don't think she is trying to make things akward though. I think that because you barely speak now, you don't exactly know what to say to each other because you've lost touch with what the other one likes. Don't know if this will help, but I suggest you ask her on the phone what happened to your friendship.
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