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frends or boyfrends?
hey my names maddy
my two best frends are guys
one has a girlfriend who im frends with and ones single
ever since i met them, both of them have liked me on and off but they dont know i know that..
i like both of them in that way aswell just not alot and i hav too much of a single life now to drop it all for a boy
what do i do when eventually one of them asks me out? i dont want to loose my best frends.... but then again i like them...
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i dont think your friendship would end over that. if your best friends with oneanother and it is you guys have a strong bond nothing will happen. he will just have to understand that you just like him as a brother and nothing more. or you can tell him that you feel the same way and just explain to him that your not ready for a boyfriend right now. you want to concentrate on your responsibilities and work and everything thats going on and he should understand that you want to take care of your responsibilities. nothing will happen to your friendship though. if he does he may be like a little shy to talk to you for turning him down. i would be afraid. he will just have to understand and get the picture. you'll be ok. i wish u luck!!
Bluebell78
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Dear Maddy,
Well I think that if your fearing that your friendship will be ruined by you guys dating then that means your friendship isn't as strong as you thought. Dating somebody is like wanting to be with them more, doing more than just friends would do. You've got to think if you really want that or not and then think about what you have right now. Just lay it out. I love being single so I would probably choose to just keep my 2 guy friends. But if you really like him and you don't take that opportunity to go out with one of them than maybe you'll be spending all your time with him thinking god why didn't I say yes. You just need to think about what you truely want. Sorry that probably wasn't much help. But I hoped it helped at all! Good Luck. I love feedback, good and bad!
Love,
Molly
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If you have a relationship with either of these boys, you stand a high chance of jeopardizing what you already have (friendship).
Sure enough, if you do go out with one of them, it might all be very well, but you need to think what will happen if things don't work out. Would you be willing to just go back as friends? Because that is hard!
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The thing about dating your friends is that if you break up,your friendship will probably never be the same.So,ask yourself this question:Am I willing to give up a good friendship?When you answer that question,you will have also answered the other question.
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