I really hate my uncle's girlfriend. she isn't nice and i think she's making my whole family treat me wrong. And I'm the one whose wrong when i try to stand up for myself to them or tell them the problem i'm having. how do i deal?
Additional info, added Saturday July 8 2006, 3:55 pm: I even have to share a bathroom with her and she likes scatter all her stuff on the counter. it's annoying. one time i think she made my uncle charge his computer thing on the bathroom when it could be charged somewhere else in the house.I don't think that I could take her being in our house for more time.. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? SoNuLiCiOuSsS answered Saturday July 8 2006, 2:39 pm: now i am not tryin to be sarcastic at all (seriously) you probably are wrong, every1 CAN'T be wrong... take a deep breath sit down and think about whats going on and why is happening [ SoNuLiCiOuSsS's advice column | Ask SoNuLiCiOuSsS A Question ]
GREENEYEDGiRL22 answered Saturday July 8 2006, 2:13 pm: b-i-z-n-a-t-c-h! you should talk to your uncle about her and just stay away from her. like if your at his house or something and she comes into the kitchen and you are there, go to the living room. basically, you need to talk to someone about her (your uncle) and avoid her [ GREENEYEDGiRL22's advice column | Ask GREENEYEDGiRL22 A Question ]
Mollysie answered Saturday July 8 2006, 1:52 pm: She doesn't seem very nice your right. Alright it's not wrong to stand up for yourself, never ever think that is wrong. I'm not sure how she is making your family treat you wrong but that is not ok regardless. You need to talk to your uncle, and say whats happening, if he doesn't listen tell your parents that you don't like her and it's ok if they like her but you don't want her around you. You need to explain to them that this is making you upset. Your parents, or your uncle can't force you to be around somebody you don't like. I don't know your uncle, so I don't know what he is like. But I think you should deffinatly tell him what is going down. Don't be afraid to get upset. This is obviously bothering you, you need to stand up for yourself. If they don't listen, then at least you said your piece and they know how you feel about your uncles girlfriend. I have a similar problem with my cousin's boyfriend, and I talked to my sister, and my cousin. It helped because she understood. She didn't stop dating him.. But she doesn't have him around when I am around. I hope things work out for you! And I hope I helped at all! Good Luck! I love feedback, good and bad! Any questions please write me!
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ladym answered Saturday July 8 2006, 6:09 am: Woah!She sounds like a witch!Okay,you need to talk to your uncle...alone!Make sure you talk to him when he's not busy or doing something.Just be like,"Uncle bob,I really don't like the way your girlfriend is treating me!"If he continues to make you sound "wrong" because you stood up to her and told him the problem you were having,just give it time.Hey,a relationg ship can't last forever right? [ ladym's advice column | Ask ladym A Question ]
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