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Hi, I'm 14 years old and my mom doesn't allow me to wear thongs!!!! So she makes me buy the regular kind or boy briefs, whatever. I used to own a whole bunch but I think she threw them away so now I only have one. And my question is that if a guy finds out that I don't wear thongs then they will think I'm not good enough, or sexy. And I don't think they should base it on that. But I feel really insecure and not good enough because I don't wear a thong. What should I do? How do I get over this? Thanks for your help!
Your 14 and you want to wear a thong. Your too young to be wondering if you are sexy enough for the guys. If guys do find out that you do, they might want to do it with you. You should focus on other things than being sexy! You have your whole life ahead of you.......you can wear a thong later in your life!
when ever i go into a store some where it seems like everyone stares at me like they want something!! i don't know if it's just me or they rly are!! has this ever happened to u before!!
help!!! i rate good!!!
That happens to me all the time! Just don't pay attention.............I hope I could help! :)
Alright tp start this off, i`m 14/female. For about a year or so, I`ve been so down and sad/angry all the time. I never smile anymore, or things that used to be a blast too me, is no fun anymore. I don`t like hanging out with any of my firends anymore. I just like being alone all the time. Well, a few months ago my mom and dad took me to a conselour because they were concerned about me and such. They just said I needed too be on anti-depressants. I didn`t start using them right away, just recently. Well, I`m cutting myself now. I know its really bad too do and I know how stupid I am for doing it, but It just feels so right when I do it. I really need too stop or talk to somebody about it. My mom asked me what these marks were on my arm, and i told her is was eraser burns ( because they leave scars ) and she hasn`t realy noticed that more and more keep appearing. What should I tell her? I want too tell her the truth. I know she will probably understand but she`ll get really upset ( sad ) because she hates seeing me like this and i`ll feel really bad. What should I say too her?
Ok, what you need to do is tell your mom. She can help. Also, try to stop cutting yourself, in the long run it will do nothing for you! Instead write or draw out your feelings. Just admit to yourself that you are depressed and try to find out why you are. If you can't you should go see a consulour or someone who can help you figure out why you are acting this way! You can make it if you really want to!
PS If you need anything else, feel free to message me, I have a friend just like you and I'm helping her.
my friend is a hoe..i love her to death and everything but shes a hoe. she already gave it up 2 a 20 year old and she`s only 13 years old. i relle care about her and i want her to stop but she just doesnt want to get the point. and i made her promise me before that she would never smoke agen bc it wasnt healthy and she never did but then one day she told me she broke her promise. so she`s really going down the wrong road. What could i do to get her to stop dressing so slutty and to start acting her age?? please help me..
Wow, only 13! Do her parents know? They should be informed! Try to tell her the side effects- pregnacy and/or STD or AIDS/HIV!! If that doesn't work, get her parents involved!
im 13 and a girl and i want to do alot of things like make out with guys and maybe in a year or so have sex with a guy. but 1. im scared im a bad kisser. 2. i dont wanna get pregnant and 3. i havent found the right guy to do any thing with...what should i do?
Your only 13 and you want to have sex!? Your 13! I don't think anyone that age can handle the possible effects of sex-a baby and/or STD!!! Ok, you need to slow down, I don't care if you decide to have sex when your 16, I'm just telling you that you could realy mess up your life! Your still under 21! You have your whole life ahead of you-wait!
my best friend is really kewl and everything but she's stubborn and she wants to have sex but she just turned 14 and she doesn't even have a boy frined but how do i talk to her about the dangers and stuff?
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Wow, only 14. Just sit her down and say hey, it could really ruin your life! Do her parents know? Thats not even the worst part-she doesn't even have a boyfriend! Tell her that she could pregnat and other things. Plus, people could call her a slut or whatever! Hope I helped!
i wanna have sex b4 i'm 15...sum of my friendz tell me 2 wait, what do i do?
Sorry, but I have to say this-I'm with your friends. You won't even be 16! You need to find someone that you love and loves you for who you are. Your too young! It could ruin your life and people could call you a slut and so on! How old are you?
ok this is mainly for guys but i want to know what girls think about it too.
why is it ok for guys to check out girls and the guys excuse is "its in their genes" but if they find out that their girlfriend checks out a guy then they get all mad and jelous? its not ok if a girl does it but if a guy does then its just normal for them to? girls get hurt a lot easier then guys do...
Welcome to the wonderful world of the double standard! Its a proven fact that girls are more mature, meaning that they don;t need to "check" a guy out to feel like they're a woman,unlike men!
my best friend thinks shes ready to have sex. shes 16 and her boyfriend is 17 and they have been together for about a year now. he dicks her over alot and isnt always the best boyfriend.i dont think they are ready, no one does. i try to tell her how i feel and she doesnt listen. i dont want her making a mistake. i dont even know if i made a mistake or not by losing my virginity to my bf whom i love to death and he loves me to death...how do i get it through her thick scull that its not a good idea?
I see that you are very worried about your friend!
I hate to say this but- just let her do it. She won't listen to you and you sound like you care mor about her than her boyfriend! Sometimes when friends won't listen to you, they have to learn from what could be a mistake!
what is first base second base and third base..? not baseball eather! lol like kissing and that stuff
thanx!
xoxo-aSh
1st is making out
2nd is feeling up
3rd is oral
Home is sex
whats a greyhound bus
Its this big bus you can "rent" out and it takes you places
There is this guy I like and he likes me too. The problem: My parents are very strict and dont want me to see him (im 16 and he is 21). Do I continue with the relationship or back away?
Hmm........he could get you to drink which is legal! I'm on your parents side! I know that you want more freedom, but hes older and might want you to do things that you don't want to do!!
hey i'm 13 in august, and i don't know if it's sad, but i've never had a REAL relationship or anything... i feel like i really want to kiss someone, and have a real relationship, but do you think i'm too young? or what? I mean, school starts soon, and there might be new guys n stuff, and its my last year of middle school, and i dont want to miss out on teh fun of being one of the oldest... advice, please?
.:`Sarah':.
Thats not sad!! I think thats the age when you should start dating, anyways! Don't worry, everything will be fine :)
Ok awhile ago i told you about my friend, he told me he loved me and then flirted with my bff the next day. Well i took some of your advice and now were cool but theres just one thing. Im kind of a mom's girl and im sick of that. So i talked to him about it. And now on monday we are going to a school to drink, but the thing is im 14. He says he wont let me get drunk but i donno. Please help me get out of pier pressure?
Ok, your 14 you have to be 21! Is he 21? If he is't its illegal for both of you. If he is, and he gives you some, he could get caught and could go to jail! (It happened before!) Anyways, you way TOO young to even be alone with someone who COULD offer you some! Just think about your values and the law!
do chocolate and soda cause or give you give you pimples / acne ?!?!
any websites about chocolate or soda pop causing acne?
No, its the truth.
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hey, im gunna be startin high skool on august 9th
can sum ppl tell me sum do's and don'ts
i kno that ill have friends goin to my high skool,and im pretty outgoin, so i know that ill make new friends too, but i was woderin wut r sum good ways to make friends, and wut r Do's and Don'ts when it comes to high skool and peer pressure
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The most important is to be yourself, but have street smarts. Don't call unwanted attention to yourself. Sorry, thats all I could do! Sorry :(
Hi I am a 26 yearold lady and my husband has been beating me eversince we got married he even beats are adopded child and she is only 2 I am always trying to keep me and Shauna (my daughter) away from the house when people call for me he says im not there and hangs up and then throws the phone at me this may sound wierd about me asking a 15 year old for advice but any advice will help thank you
You need to contact an Abuse Center or go to one. It isn;t safe for you or your daughter!! Trust me!
(I'm only 13..........)
k, me and my bf have been going out for 6 months, and we've had sex like...a lot. like every time we see each other at night, we get turned on. we've done it everywhere. now he's telling me that he's got another girl, and he accidently called me her name last night. i got mad, and he got mad too, and said that he didn't want me anymore and he was just using me for sex, and she was his real gf, and she fucked better than me anyhow. so what do i do now, i love his sex, and i love him.
I think you like his sex more than him, and thats why you "love" him! You need to find someone who you love for who they are, not what they do!
Should i let my friend come up my shirt..? hes always like bringing my boobs up.. were not goin out but we flirt a rly lot.. Hes always hinting.. He really wants to.. Shuld i let him!? plz help i have no idea wut to do
(( im 13 ))
You might regret it later!!! Its your body, you have control. Don't let him pressure you to do something that you do not want to do!!! Hope I could help:)
There is this guy that i had met online. We have been talking for quite a while now and we both like each other a lot. One day we want to meet each other, but I'm not quite sure if it's safe to do so. But like I said we like each other a lot and we love talking to each other.
If you were to do so, make sure you bring your family or a large group because he might not be who you think!!! Hope I could help!