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To get Drunk or not to get drunk
Ok awhile ago i told you about my friend, he told me he loved me and then flirted with my bff the next day. Well i took some of your advice and now were cool but theres just one thing. Im kind of a mom's girl and im sick of that. So i talked to him about it. And now on monday we are going to a school to drink, but the thing is im 14. He says he wont let me get drunk but i donno. Please help me get out of pier pressure?
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Don't. Simply do not get drunk. DO NOT. SAY NO. Don't even go with him.
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If your're only 14, then honestly, you shouldn't even try to drink.Facing pier pressure is very hard.You have to think about after you drink...like what would your parents do..and..if you happen to get caught, would your parents ever let you see your guy again?! So, just think about it.I'd say, just explain to him of what kind of trouble you'd be in, 'n hope he understands.Hope I helped.Good Luck~!!
-Tori
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well 14 is kind of young to be going drinking at some school..much less not real smart!!! if a cop happend to drive by and saw kids drinking then yall would get in big trouble...then thin kabout what your parents would do if they found out..they would probally never let you see your man again!!! just tell him that you dont feel its safe to go do that and that maybe yall should go do something else!!!
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Ok, your 14 you have to be 21! Is he 21? If he is't its illegal for both of you. If he is, and he gives you some, he could get caught and could go to jail! (It happened before!) Anyways, you way TOO young to even be alone with someone who COULD offer you some! Just think about your values and the law!
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well, it's illegal, so thats really not the smartest thing to do, and if ur bf is pressurin u to do sumthin illegal or bad, then he ain't worth it, u should find sum1 who really cares, he's just lookin for sum1 to party wit, not sum1 to care about, i say find urself a new man, no matter how much i love my bf, i'd never drink because he wanted me to, i've had many offers to do so, but i've turned them all down, actually, by bf asked me b4 i said no, and i told him that if he ever drank, around me, or around others that i knew and cared about we'd be over, and he went tro alateen, or w/e it's called and he stopped drinkin
but no man is worth it if he tries to pressure u into sumthin, 14 is the age where u'll be gettin a lot of peer pressure, specially if ur ne were between 8th n 10th grade(which at 14 i'd assume u were)
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First off your really young. Second getting drunk when your really not into it is pretty lame and you should tell him that doing something just to try to be cool for other people when your really not into it makes you look really immature and lame. If he pushes you into doing it then blow him off...he doesn't really love you if he makes you drink when you don't want to.
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u can dRink but dunt get dRunk..in a skul?? aRe u out of uRe mind? even duRin suma theRez pplz theRe!! but i guess u can dRink but not tu much!
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Just refuse the drinks, go and tell them that you're not really thirsty and you have something to do tomorrow so you don't need a hangover or something
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