my best friend thinks shes ready to have sex. shes 16 and her boyfriend is 17 and they have been together for about a year now. he dicks her over alot and isnt always the best boyfriend.i dont think they are ready, no one does. i try to tell her how i feel and she doesnt listen. i dont want her making a mistake. i dont even know if i made a mistake or not by losing my virginity to my bf whom i love to death and he loves me to death...how do i get it through her thick scull that its not a good idea?
Floridagirl1821 answered Monday July 26 2004, 8:21 am: I see that you are very worried about your friend!
I hate to say this but- just let her do it. She won't listen to you and you sound like you care mor about her than her boyfriend! Sometimes when friends won't listen to you, they have to learn from what could be a mistake! [ Floridagirl1821's advice column | Ask Floridagirl1821 A Question ]
storageanddisposal answered Monday July 26 2004, 7:33 am: I wish we all had friends like you. If I had a friend with me telling me not to do all of the dumb things I've done, life would be a lot happier. You've tried to convince her otherwise. I'm sorry to say that that's all you can do. If you try to convince her anymore, you'll only piss her off, and she'll still probably do it. She has to learn that it's a mistake herself. And perhaps the only way to do it is to go through with it. Who knows, maybe she won't see it as a mistake. Everyone views every situation differently [ storageanddisposal's advice column | Ask storageanddisposal A Question ]
IxAmxCrying answered Monday July 26 2004, 3:20 am: Don't ruin the guys name.
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