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hello! i'm abby. october is my birth month! i am a cheerleader on competition this year. i got hurt at one of the camps over the summer and now i am in a leg brace because of it. i tore a ligament and chipped a bone, all because i twisted my ankle. haha, i'm a klutz. and i am also a self-proclaimed helpless romantic, i've read too many fairytales. i am a non-cusser, and i hate hearing cuss words. love me or hate me, it's your choice.

advice

13/m
i need a polo shirt, for a party. i dont have any, not the preppy type. where can i buy the shirts? how much are they? easy 5's

If you want a cute polo go to The Rave.

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what do i wear? the invite says "dressy casual"?
13/m

Jeans and a very cute top and maybe a jacket.

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there is this girl that i've liked since 2nd grade and i like her even more.i am now in 9th grade and i think she is the one but i am afraid to ask her out because i am afraid she will say no. so what should i do?i am a male.

Just go for it! Guys make the calls. Girls usually say yes, but only if you have 1 or more of these qualities:

♥ If you tell jokes and make people laugh, but not too much.
♥ Are cute
♥ Are nice.
♥ Would get her a birthday present for her birthday
♥ Are popular.
If you aren't any of these. I still wish you luck!

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How do people put screen caps from tv shows onto the internet if the show is only on tv and video, not dvd and can anyone do it?

I don't really know. I am the first person to answer this only because I wanted to tell you I don't think it exsists...Good Luck though!

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ok i have to say im medium size stomach which im fine with its a good size but i have thunder thighs do u no any excerize i can do to make then smaller in 3weeks before i start swimming in gym

Step Arobics! They are fun, easy to do, cost a penny (LOL), and help you lose weight where you want to!

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I recently just started dating someone that I like soooo much but my friend is pissed off at me!i did tell her that if he asked me out then id say no bc of how he acts but when he asked me out i just couldnt say no!shes now saying..."how could you choose him over me?"when i never did that!shes acting like i ditched her but i would never do that!!!what do i do?

It is simple. Hang out with both of them. You don't want to ditch your friend so hang out with her and you don't want to break up with is "HOTTIE", so hang out with them together. Make them friends. Show her how nice he is. BuhBye!

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okay so i tried to uninstall internet explorer from control panel but i cant find it so how can i unstall it because i want to install it again because its messing up

I don't know why it would be messing up. My internet explorer works fine. It will, however, not uninstall. It is there forever. What I would do is get a cool thing that is called "Cleanup!". It is somewhere I the internet. You don't buy a CD to get it. It is free. Try it out!

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is there anyway to improve my kissing?

No, not really. Your kiss is unique. Nobody else in the world has it. It is jsut like a finger print. If everyone had the same you wouldn't really be you now would you?

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I saw the question on social anxiety disorder. I was just wondering what that is and what are the symptoms. Thank you!!

This is where you don't like to talk to poeple very much...I don't have it but I have heard it is very scary having it.

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Well i have this friend lets call him albert.. well okay (SORRY IF THIS IS LONG ILL RATE 5s FOR SERIOUS ANSWERS) so i have known albert since 2nd grade.. and well i need opinions on this.. okay so

1.) Albert is always flirty, touchy, smiley, etc. around me

2.) I asked his friend how he was around people he liked and he said that list above (but thats how he always is around me so im not sure)

3.) Me albert and melinda (other friend not really important) were playing in the snow.. and he always kept tackling me and throwing me in the snow and jumping one me and not letting me get up.

4.) Once i was saying about how no one liked me and stuff and he said thaat i was wrong and i told him he couldnt argue and he said he could etc.

5.) One day albert was preforming in some kind of club and he came over and was talking to me for most of the time and poking me etc. and then hugged me later on.

6.) One morning before school he came up to me and he put his arm around me (lower back not shoulder) and just stood there.

7.) Once when i was mad at him he asked all of my friends why and my one friend told me that he "flipped" out and was asking why he was mad and stuff like that

8.) He complimented me on my earings at my friends party

9.) He kind of kept moving towards me at my friends party and kept poking me and when he was sitting down he kept telling me to sit next to him.

10.) He told me that i should go to my friends party (more than once)

11.) I told him that some kid said to me i hate you you suck and he was like his life and face suck and that he hated him..

12.) He once told me if anything was seriously wrong i would be one of the first to know

13.) Once i asked him who he liked and he told me he couldnt tell me and he said his friend would tell me the next morning and his friend was like can i tell her can i tell her and he was like no.. and then he said something to him and he was like okay.. and he said some girl and then i found out he liked someone else too.. but he wouldnt tell me who that was.

WHAT IN YOUR OPINION DO YOU THINK? DO YOU THINK HE LIKES ME AS MORE THAN FRIENDS OR JUST AS FRIENDS?

thnx 4 your help

It sounds as if this "Albert guy" likes you. Even though he likes this "other girl" Stick with him Albert. He may be what you are looking for later in life.

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heyy guys.. well my best friend is taking this reallly cute guy to homecoming, but i don't think he likes her anymore. but he i think he flirts with me aloot. i mean calling everydayy, texting at 430 in the morning, texting to wake me up in the morning.. aw. yea i know he's sweet but like when i see him at school it doesn't seem like he likes me? cause i think he is such a cutie! do yall think he likes me or what? pleaaasseee help!! thxx (rate)

I think he likes you. Have a private talk with him about it. Tell him it annoys you that he is going out with your best buddy and there he is sending you wake up calls. That is not right. I think your friend should not go to him on homecoming. Good luck and drop me a message later in my inbox.

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is it bad to ask a guy out i mean does it hurt there self of steam?
thx candi

I don't think I have ever heard about it being bad asking a guy out. It is the way of life. Guys better be ready for us women.

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I'm 15 and I think I have social anxiety disorder. My parents keep urging me to get help from a counsellor.. but I can't. It's really pathetic but for me the idea of having to sit in a room with a total stranger and answer questions or something is pure torture. I want to get help but how can anyone help me when I can't speak to people?

Man tonight is full of tuff questions. Well, you did pretty good on writing a message about your disorder to like, the whole web. So it must not be too terribly bad. I think you should take little steps one at a time. Try making more friends. Talk more. Leave me a message if you want more info.

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Ok, so theres this boy in my class, michael. We were going out, and you kno, all that bf/gf stuff. We were really close and great together, we never fought, but of course there was a lil argument here and there. Well, one day he just broke up with me. He didnt tell me why, he just said we cant go out anymore and left. The next day, my best friend was wearing a shirt that said I love my bf. I asked her who her bf was and she said michael. She ddint even try to hide it or anything. I got really mad at her, and stopped talking to her. Now there are rumors going around that they had sex. I am really mad at my friend and i dont know what to do. I mean, i like her, but im really mad at her for stealing michael from him. What should i do???

This is a bad situation. You like her but are mad at her for doing the unthink-able. If my friend did this to me, personaly I would try to kill him. LOL. That is not right though and it would never happen because my friend and I made a promise to never go out with each others' ex's. My advice for you is try to find a new buddy to hang out with. This relationship will probably end very soon. If they happen to break up and Micheal wants you back say no and tell him why. If your friend comes crawling back to you say no and tell her why. Next time make the promise I did with my friend. Leave me a message!

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Well, i'm 17/f and yes, i like this girl. We've been friends for a couple of years. Last year she knew i liked her a couple of times but things just couldn't work out. Now i'm afraid i like her again. Should i tell her and risk being hurt again??? Or should i just let it go and never know??? And if you say i should tell her, can you give me a pretty good description on what exactly to say???? I can't afford to mess up again. Any help would be appreciated y'all!! Thanx!

Well I do not like girls. So I don't really know what a girl would tell a girl, but I have a good idea. You should say. I am basing this on a girl likin' a boy.
"I know we have been friends for a long time. I also know that I have liked you many times. I still have feelings for you. Could we try to make this relashionship work? Please?" Ask me if you need more info.

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I've just recently been breaking out real bad on my face(this usually doesn't happen)and I also notice some red zit like bumps on my legs.. which is really weird. Does anyone know what this is?! ( i'm supose to be getting my period soon if that has to do with anything?)

I am not sure if it has to do with your period. The breaking out you can fix by using Cletaphil. You can buy this a Wal-Mart or any other store. If you shave your legs it could be razor burn. Good luck leave me a message!

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I have been going out with a guy i've liked forever as of yesterday. He is already saying I love you and I said it back. Are we both just saying it or what?

I don't think one or two days is long enough to be feelin' the love. Try just hugging him for a week. The next week maybe a kiss on the cheek. Then after you have accomplished the kissing and hugging start saying "I love you." Or this could be a explanation for "Love at first sight." I don't know you personaly so I won't be able to tell you which one it is. You should figure it out on your own! Good luck!

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can you please help me, i'm about 5'7 130ish pounds, i guess you can say i'm skinny, people tell me i am skinny & pretty but i have no self-confidence, i always feel so ugly! please help!! i rate high thanks

If you are not already in a sport, go out for one. Sports are the most fun thing in the world and they make your self confidence rise by so much. If people say you are skinny and pretty, that is the half way point of full self confidence! Good luck.

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how can you keep a tan tan?

Keep tanning. Always tan. I had a tan and since it is getting colder I haven't been getting outside as much. My tan is gone! (Almost) Anyother questions jsut ask me.

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Okay so I was on the phone with my best friend right cause she wanted me to go over. Well my mom said no because I got off the computer at 10:00 last nigth even though she asked me to get off at 9:30! Well i really got off at ten but she said i didn't get off til' midnight! Its was a school night and she lied when I was on the phone! HELP! WHat should I say to her!

♥Staci♥

Okay...Staci. Here is the dealeo. You probably did get off the computer at 9:30. It is okay that you didn't get to your friends. She probably will understand. Trust me. Next time your mommy says get off at 9:30 get off and tell her you are off. Hope I helped you. Call your friend in the morning before school and tell her!! ♥

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