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don know what to do
I recently just started dating someone that I like soooo much but my friend is pissed off at me!i did tell her that if he asked me out then id say no bc of how he acts but when he asked me out i just couldnt say no!shes now saying..."how could you choose him over me?"when i never did that!shes acting like i ditched her but i would never do that!!!what do i do?
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it sounds like your friend is jealous
talk to her, tell her that yo would never ditch her because she is such a good friend, and that you like (his name) and tell her that you can still be friends and have a bf
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tell her that you liked him and you wanted to go out with him. If she doesnt understand then shes not a true friend. Just say that you can be good friends with both
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it sounds like your friend thinks shes being abandoned for a guy. if this isnt the case and your sure you havent blown her off at all, then just talk to her about it. tell her that you would never ditch her for anyone and then plan a date with her, go to the mall or something and just hang out, just the two of you. prove to her that your not letting your new bf take away yalls friendship.
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It is simple. Hang out with both of them. You don't want to ditch your friend so hang out with her and you don't want to break up with is "HOTTIE", so hang out with them together. Make them friends. Show her how nice he is. BuhBye!
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Ok, so your "Friend", should except the fact that you are going out with this guy. But it was your job, that if you were to say anything, like make a promise not say yes, then stick to it. But I have a feeling you were only doing it to not get your friend mad, for the time being, because if he didn't ask you out, then you would still have the friendship to lean on. But Don't go making promises that you are unsure of keeping, it will only screw things up more. But If you really like this guy, then you should just kind of worry about this for a while, but not ditch your friends. I have a feeling that if you let things sink in, it will get better.
P.S. I hope your friend can understand
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Simple answer: You didn't do anything. Your friend is purely jealous. You having that boyfriend is now going to take away some of the time that you used to spend with her. I know that it seems really hard now, but she'll get over it. Tell her that you can balance the time between the two people you care about, her and your boyfriend. And also tell her that no matter what, she'll always be your friend and you'll always be there for her. She will simply have to accept it.
Good luck hon!
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Once a girl gets a boy the boy tends to be a little more important. that's normal and the way life goes.
My guess is she is jealous...which is also natural. She will have to get used to someone else sharing your time, just as you will have to do when she starts hanging out with a guy.
Try your best to reassure her that you are still friends. Other than that there isn't a lot you can do. She will just have to get used to it. :)
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