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there is this girl that i've liked since 2nd grade and i like her even more.i am now in 9th grade and i think she is the one but i am afraid to ask her out because i am afraid she will say no. so what should i do?i am a male.
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Ask her. She might like you but not know how to tell you. I definitely say GO FOR IT! You know you like her - you've liked her for quite some time. The worst she can say is no, but she probably won't even say that. Just casually bring it up and ask her if she wants to go see a movie or hang out. Then, when the time is right, tell her you really like her and would like her to be your girlfriend. Don't be pushy or over-emotional. That's kinda weird when guys do that. Just be sensitive and sweet. She'll love you for it. :)
-FunnyCide
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Hi male,
Look, my personal experience is one of the same type of situation. You response depends on the following question:
Do you think she is "the one" for life or "the one" for highschool?
For Life: If you really think that she could be the one that you will marry, wait on telling her. It's too dangerous right now and you've still got time. Wait until end of sophmore year/beginning of junior year. You want to make sure that your timing is apprpriate. Then again, if she's really the one that you think she is, it will work itself out no matter what kind of timing you use.
For Highschool: Talk to her now! Carpe Diem! Seize the day! You only live once and if you think that she wil help to fufill and enrich your highschool years then by all means, tell her how you feel.
Maggie
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are you friends with her? if she is the one for you then dont let her slip away, i personally think its waay romantic when a boy asks me how i feel about him. but like some girls, find it a real turn off when a boy sends one of his friends over to ask me, so make sure you dont do that! you may get the girl embarrassed or some rumor might get started about you two and that wounldnt be good
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if u liked her since 2nd grade.. then ask her out
you've waited seven years..i think thats long enough..dont put it off
if she says no..dont be disappointed there's plenty of other girls out there..
p.s. im single! lol jk :p
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dude go for it! youve likedher for 8 years dont just sit around ask her out if you get rejected just hang inthere youll find the one
<3 good luck
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Ask her anyway! Aww, sweetie if you've liked her since 2nd grade...you dont want to waste any time. You only have this moment one second of your life. The worst she can do is say no, but then you can just wait and ask her out later. Its not like you guys are 7th graders anymore and she'll make fun of you or anything. Who knows, she may like you too, and you could be wasting *valuable* time! You're only gonna be this age once, so do all you can...believe me, you dont want to regret wasting any time...and if she is the one...then go for it!!
Plus, any girl is flattered when they get asked out.
I hope you go for it!!! Good luck, and...I hope she says yes!
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You've been waiting for long enough....do NOT leave yourself wondering. If she seems interested, if she ever flirts with you, go ahead and give it a try. I don't recommend asking her out if you guys never talk...but if you do and it wouldn't be considered completely random go and try it. You do owe it to yourself....you can live life guessing because hesitation might wind up as regret.
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WOw since the 2nd grade ..damn lol go ask her out. *kim*
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YOU NEED TO GO FOR IT BABE! Seriously, if you don't talk to her on a regular basis, get her number and start talking, after a few weeks, ask her to hang out, then, tell her how you feel! 7 years honey, you need to go for it
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Just go for it! Guys make the calls. Girls usually say yes, but only if you have 1 or more of these qualities:
♥ If you tell jokes and make people laugh, but not too much.
♥ Are cute
♥ Are nice.
♥ Would get her a birthday present for her birthday
♥ Are popular.
If you aren't any of these. I still wish you luck!
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just ask her out.. the worst she could say is no and if she does just move on
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if you've liked her for that long, then you should definently ask her out!
just go for it!
it means more if you ask her out in person when you two are alone, but if you can't in person, then ask her out by phone. if you can't do that either, then find out if she has a screen name, and if she does, then ask her out there.
you can do any of those things, but just make sure you DON'T get someone to ask her out for you!
that means that you're just a coward that can't even ask someone out yourself, and if you really loved her alot, then you should be able to ask her out YOURSELF!
but first, you have to make sure that you guys talk a lot, and that you two know each other enough.
if she doesn't know you at all, then she's probably gona say no.
also, if you two arent' really comfortable around each other, then there's NO WAY it'll work out.
if you two aren't comfortable around each other, then that probably means that you two just don't know each other enough.
because i went out with this guy that i've known for like 8 years now, and so it worked out perfect, and we didn't feel uncomfortable around each other at all.
but when i went out with a guy that i only knew for a year that i barely even talked to, we just felt so uncomfortable around each other.
you first, if you two dont know each other well enough, then just talk to her a lot, and get to know her more.
then ask her out. tell her that you'll liked her since 2nd grade, and you think that she's really the one, and you think that it would work out really well.
if she says no, then that's her loss. maybe you two were just not meant to be. but don't worry because one day you'll find the one.
if you ask her out and she says no, then at least you'll know that she doesnt have feelings for her.
but if you don't ask her out, then you'll always be wondering what she would've said, and you'll regret that you didn't ask her out.
and maybe she will say yes, just show her how sweet you are!!
*good luck!*
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GO FOR IT!! if she says no who care at least you tryed and its not like it will be the end of the world, if she does just be like oh okay..and change the subject, but think about if she says yes!! you are wasting all this time wondering when you could be going out with her!!!
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Ok, if you really like this girl, and you care about her, ou will take the risk of asking her out. What could it hurt? I mean, you like her, and I hope that if you ask her and she says no, that you will accept that. Because she might just want to have a friend, and that she might just like that better. But who knows, she might feel the same way, and just is too worried what you would say.
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Hiii!
You definitely should tell her and give it a try! for sure. I really liked my best friend [whos a boy ima girl] from 2nd grade until like right now! When I finally told him last year, freshmen year that I liked him i found out he liked me back, but I unfortunetly moved 26 hours away from him. So, we never got a chance to have a relationship because I didn't open my mouth when I should have. You definitely should! She could totally love you, and you'd never know.
Give it a try =P
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Dude life is all about risk taking this girl could be the one for you...you should really find out if she feels the same for you.TAKE A RISK OR YOUR GOING TO REGRET IT WHEN YOUR OLDER
hoped i helped
-JoN
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You just have to get brave and go ask her. She won't know you like her if you don't.
Start out just talking to her saying hi when you see her, that kind of thing.
Then she will write us a "does he like me" letter!
Here is a site of asking someone out tips. Check it out and see if you find something you can use. :)
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