Well, i'm 17/f and yes, i like this girl. We've been friends for a couple of years. Last year she knew i liked her a couple of times but things just couldn't work out. Now i'm afraid i like her again. Should i tell her and risk being hurt again??? Or should i just let it go and never know??? And if you say i should tell her, can you give me a pretty good description on what exactly to say???? I can't afford to mess up again. Any help would be appreciated y'all!! Thanx!
Mckick answered Thursday October 13 2005, 2:20 pm: Well I wouldn't tell her again. I would just try and be friends with her. It's better to be firends then to try and date. Because if it doesn't work out you'll lose her as a friend too. So I would just not tell he and find someone that will make you happy. [ Mckick's advice column | Ask Mckick A Question ]
FallenAngelBiatch answered Tuesday October 11 2005, 9:56 pm: Well I think I might be of some help. I would definately tell her how you feel about her. I mean what could it hurt? "Don't think about what COULD have happened, Think about what IS gonna happen and what you can do to help make it happen." Besides why wait around never knowing what could have happened but didn't! I think you should sit her down and be like "I can't hold my feelings in anymore, I really like you and I really just wanted you to know about that."
RockStoleMySoul answered Tuesday October 11 2005, 9:36 pm: Okay, well, first find out if she actually likes girls, which I'm guessing she does. You should sit her down and tell her how you feel, but tell her that you don't want to force her to like you. Tell her how much you care about her, and what you like about her. Just tell her how you feel, and tell her that if she doesn't feel the same way, that's fine, but at least she now knows your true feelings.
frenchfries21 answered Tuesday October 11 2005, 9:33 pm: just talk to her about it and if its not gonna work out then its not gonna work out. but you should try if you really like her. just when your having a conversation with her, bring up the fact that you wouldnt mind dating her and that you like her alot. sorry if my advice wasnt good... i dont have any expierence with asking girls out... [ frenchfries21's advice column | Ask frenchfries21 A Question ]
crazyoutyamindisback answered Tuesday October 11 2005, 9:31 pm: ok for one you shou;d take the chance cuz if you dont you may miss the thing that waz the best or ya get what im saying ne ways just sit her down and explain your feelings to her hey its worth a try right well hope i helped and if you have ne more questions just drop em in my inbox ~*kelly*~(plz rate me)
AdviceAbby answered Tuesday October 11 2005, 9:31 pm: Well I do not like girls. So I don't really know what a girl would tell a girl, but I have a good idea. You should say. I am basing this on a girl likin' a boy.
"I know we have been friends for a long time. I also know that I have liked you many times. I still have feelings for you. Could we try to make this relashionship work? Please?" Ask me if you need more info. [ AdviceAbby's advice column | Ask AdviceAbby A Question ]
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