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confidence
can you please help me, i'm about 5'7 130ish pounds, i guess you can say i'm skinny, people tell me i am skinny & pretty but i have no self-confidence, i always feel so ugly! please help!! i rate high thanks <333
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well sometime we don't believe people that tell us we are pretty and have a nice figure. but (as corny as it sounds) look in the mirror every morning and tell yourself "i am beautiful" and "i know i look good" think positive and don't put yourself down. don't be so hard on yourself i'm sure you are beautiful and have no reason to worry. just remember think positive about your self..
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Ok. listen. i am 5'3 and i weigh 150 and i have no self-confidense. you think that ever stoped me from doing anything?nope never!just believe everyone that you are pretty because everyone is pretty in there own way.
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no no your most likely not fat. thats normal weight. those people who told you youre skinny and pretty are correct. ;)
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Ok well first of all you dont sound ugly to me and what helps me feel better when im down on looks is get a bunch of friends and go get a maicur and pedicure get your hair down and makeup.Its a little confidence booster that makes you feel and look great!Hope i helped!
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Hey,
I have experienced what you are feeling. I modelled and ever body was always telling me how good looking i happened to be but i didnt feel it was all it was cracked up to be.
Until now. What you need to do is get yourself into a talent agency it will help promote your self confidence, esteem, and levels of socializing.
Cheers.
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i can't give you self confidence, but i can help you give yourself some.
- if somebody says something mean about you, brush it off. they are wrong and girls are just bitches out to hurt the girls they are jealous of. don't let it effect you.
- look in the mirror, fully made-up and pretty, and compliment yourself. like, "wow my hair looks good today!" or "ya know, my nose is completely semetrical!" that helps.
- spend some time in the morning getting ready. style your hair and make-up. i found that when i take pride in what i look like i am more ready to show myself off.
- eat right, and any body insecurities will take care of themselves. working out is amazing for self-esteem
hope i helped <3
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Ok well there's not much ne one else can do FOR you...its something you have to do for yourself. Whenever i feel ugly or w/e it helps me to say something outloud...wut i do (and i kno this sounds stupid but it helps me) is when im getting ready in the morning i look in the mirror...whether i like wut i see or not i say outloud..Gaby your beautiful..God made you beautiful. I kno it sounds stupid but just try it say it OUTLOUD! thats important. Other than that just try to not change the way you think about yourslef based on wut other ppl think. So no matter wut the circumstances you can always be confident in yourself. I hope i helped!!
Gaby
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If you are not already in a sport, go out for one. Sports are the most fun thing in the world and they make your self confidence rise by so much. If people say you are skinny and pretty, that is the half way point of full self confidence! Good luck.
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maybe try a cool new hair style, new makeup or just a new outfit. that always makes me feel better. there has to be something out there that makes you look good. im sure your a very pretty person.
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awww, babe...no way your fat at all....and no girl is ugly....no girl at all....but if you hate the way you look so much, just put on a little mascara and eye liner! just remember who you are and who your friends are. dont think of people above you and compare your self to them, then you will always feel this way... just look in the mirror and say to your self " i'm beautiful" and just remember that, best wishes
~*Tay*~
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I have for you 3 websites. I hope you can find something useful here somewhere.
Self confidence is a tough one. I'm sure you will get past it with a little practice. :)
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Everyone has at least something they dont like about them, and most people dont think themselves are attractive (I know I dont). What you have to do is pick out things you like about yourself, and write them down. Whenever you're feeling ugly or not very confident, tell yourself that you're beautiful (even if you dont believe it). God made you, and you're beautiful just the way you are.
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Well, at your height and weight. It's perfect.
I'm 5'10 and a half.. and.. well.. I'm not skinny.
But, I have all the self-confidence in the world.
Really, good advice won't get you anywhere. All you need, is to believe in yourself. Wear clothes that you feel like you could conqour the world in. Dress yourself up, even if it means just going to the store. But make sure you are comfertable with doing so.
It takes YOU to make the change.
-Good Luck and God Bless.
Hailie
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Awww... Its okay. Im sure you are very pretty!Try doing stuuf liike helping people cause even if you dont think you look good ( whick im sure you do ) atleast you will be doing somethihng nice! Good luck, hope it helps!
♥Staci♥
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