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Hi. This is my first question ^_^
I'm 14 (15 next month) and I just got into high school. Last year and all the school years before it I went to a private seventh-day adventist school. This year I switched over to public school because the private school was getting worse and I wanted to take Japanese and Computer Programming, which it didn't offer.
Well, on the first day of school, I didn't know -anyone- and this girl, let's call her "D", invited me to eat lunch with her and her friend (who we can call "G").
They're very nice, and we've become like best friends. D and G have known each other forever, and are best friends, so I sort of feel like the third wheel. My best friend since I was 5 goes to that school, but she has a different lunch period and since she's a junior we have no classes together.
I'm not really like D and G. As I've gotten to know them, I see they're sort of like the girls who talk about other girls just because they're prettier or smarter than them (without realizing it, unfortunately many females do this unintentionally and ignorantly). I know some people now, and I think I'd want to eat lunch with them more, but I would feel bad leaving D and G alone, since our table is less filled than others.
They always talk about these guys they like and how hot they are, and I don't like the same type of guys. Usually, I won't like a guy before talking to him, I need to know the intellectual side of them first, but D and G know I don't like their type and they constantly talk about their "guys" (they also stalk them, and I don't really want to get a stalker reputation since I don't, I was just talking with D and G).
Should I ditch them, and how so?
Thanks.
-Farren (link)
hell yeah, nobody likes people like them, just stop sitting with them and if they ask say that your working with the other people or something. dont be afraid of them. do what you want to do


Everytime i leave my 1 year old puppy alone, like when i take my brother to work in the mornings, and there is nobody up to watch him, he always gets into things. Like this morning, he chewed my clock, and my medicine *was way out of reach* was in the floor chewed on. Thankfully he didnt get any of it though. My question is, 1. how can i stop him from chewing on things that he is not suppost to, and 2. is there other way other than locking him up in his carrier? (link)
use baby gates, they work well without having the dog fully traped


i need help & fast. how do you scrunch your hair ? i used moose but minez not working so great. i need help & fast ! (link)
Most people, wet there hair damply. Then, gel it or moouse it, then they roll it around their finger and put pressure and let it air dry. Or some just scrunch the air and let it air dry.
Hope it helped!

gOOd luck!

--xO-xO--


ok me n my bestest friend had a stupid fight about her having a boyfriend and i don't/my mom is stupid and i can't hang out with her alot/she's moving to another state in a lil while... geez! n then we stopped talking for like 2 weeks n i miss her alot... i mean she is my bestest friend in the whole wide world!!! what should i do!?!?! (link)
She probably just fought cuz she didnt wanna reveal how sad she really was. About moving! Call her and apoligize take the blame why stay in a fight if she's moving! ]

Good Luck

--xO-xO--


can someone tell me a sight to get surveys to fill in about my self besides hellzangels.com? or w/e plz help! i rate good! (link)
http://www.rateyourself.com/


This may be a stupid question but...

I want to start wearing tampons but never wore them before and i dont know how to wear them. Do they hurt or feel weird? How do i put them in?

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They don't hurt or feel weird at all! You stick the bigger end in your vaginal hole. the string sticks out they are quite comfy u forget they are there.


Ok, I'm running for Freshmen President. Anyone have any good tips for getting elected???? (link)
Be True dont make outrageous promises. Talk about important stuff. Relate to the students!


First off, I'm not sexually active and am pretty much a 'good girl' when it comes down to getting serious and sexual with any guy. The problem is, I have these very sexual, heated fantasies. When I meet a hot guy, and we start talking, I start to daydream about us having sex. I don't mean normal sex either - like rough, hard and in odd places. Is there something wrong with me? These fantasies are taking over my life and mind. (link)
It probably just means, your ready to break free from the :good girl: thing u wanna be wild and dont know how so ur sources are fantasies!
Hope this helps!

--xO-xO--
Cady



hey i'm having a party, and i want to have something like "7 minutes in heaven" or w/e (its a halloween party tho)
does anyone have any good ideas for it? help! thanks:)
-help-party- (link)
Blergh. Gross. That is lame and it shows your age. Please.


ok, this is for the guys! If your girlfriend kissed you and she was wearing flavoured lip balm, would you like that or find it disgusting? (link)
It's great!


your supposed to have 32 teeth and i only have 24 is that bad? (link)
Um, not unless you have your wisdom teeth already and are lacking that many. I have 28... because I have yet to get my wisdom teeth. They're about to come in and my jaw hurts like nothing else. However, they might get pulled because they could be crooked, so... in the end, I could end up with only 28. I wouldn't worry about it.


I have a friend who's about to be initiated into Wicca. I know what Wicca's about, and that's mainly why I've been hoping he wouldn't. He's getting initiated on Saturday, and I'm really worried. Is there anything I can do to talk him out of it in five days?!? (link)
Nope. And deal with it. It's understandable that you're worried about his soul rotting and burning in eternal hellfire, but he's chosen his own path (and, by the way, Wiccans don't believe in hell) and you should be happy for him. It's his life and he's made the decision he thinks is best for him. (By the time I'm answering this, it's probably already happened, but maybe I can soothe your worries a bit.) Talk to him about his religion. He's NOT going to ask you to go sacrafice animals with him. It's best to learn and accept.
Blessed be,
crystalomnia


Sometimes I feel as if I'm living a double life. At school, I cuss a little, wear makeup and more expensive clothes; at at church I'm all "love everybody" and pretty much a model Christian-youth prez and ultra-volunteer. Please help! (link)
Well, I suppose it depends. Who do you feel you are? If you're more comfortable and satisfied with your life away from church, then, spend less time at church. If that's not an option, then don't get so involved when you go. If you feel that relgion is more important to you, try to stop swearing, etc, get Jesus more into your life. Explain to your friends what you're trying to do, and, if they're your friends, they'll support you and help you through whichever you choose. If not, drop them, because you'll be better off without and find nicer people who believe what you do.
Remaking yourself can be hard, but remember, "If you don't lie, you don't have to remember anything."
Blegh, I sound preachy.


Hey,
is there anyone that is pagan on here that i could talk to?because i am pagan and i dont really know any other pagan people.(by the way for anyone who doesnt know what paganism is its a religion or you can ask me about it,gc__gerl224) (link)
Yes. I am a pagan. And, as a pagan, I feel compelled to use better internet niceties such as good grammar and capitilization as I laugh at all the silly *insert the name of my parents' relgion here* who use words such as y(why), no(know), gurl, etc, etc. I'm glad to find someone who can spell, is legible and pagan! Kudos to j00!


How come i see so many kerry bumper stickers? I have yet to see one single bush bumper sticker. Is everyone voting for kerry or is bush just being cheap and not making any..??? (link)
Bush is just a cheap *******. Not that Kerry's much better, but whatever. What do I say to all of this? Vote for the third guy! (If you can, and if you remember his name, unlike me... ^.^')


ok...my best friend Bethany gets really annoying sometimes and she always makes up lies to make her life sound cool and exciting. She told everyone that shes smoked weed...and she hasnt. and she told everyone that she's not a virgin, and she is. and she just get's really annoying and i get mad at her easily cuz it bothers me and i jus say whatever comes to my mind and most of the time, its not very nice. and i wanna be friendz cuz shez awesum and i love her, shes muh bestest friend ever, but if i keep sayin wut comes to mind, i*ll lose her. PLEASE HELP ME!!! (link)
You need to sit down, and talk to her about it. Apologize for the things you said. Think bfore u speak thats about all i can say.
beSt luck
---xO-xO---
--Cady--


I was just wonderin, what are some obvious hints or nost popular hints that a guy likes you?
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I always know when a guy likes me here are some clues:
1. stare at you
2. make fun of you like every second.
3. if they hang out wit u alot (maybe it depends)
4. when they play with your hair:)
5. talk about you (bad or good)
6. if they are like bad in class or make a funny comment and then they look at you right after.
7. always talk to you.
8. step on the back of your shoes.
9. slap you
10. show of in front of you.
11. slam your locker when your not looking.
12. give you notes.
13. tell you they like you ha ha.
Umm I'm running out....
oh yeah if they like call you a nickname or something.
Hope this helped a lot. If you need any other advice please ask me!!!!!

please rate me
Amy :) good luck !!!!~~~!!!!


ok i hav this friend chris who is one of my best friends and now i like him more than that. he wrote me a note and said he liked me too...the prob is my friend brit has really liked him for lik..literlly 3 yrs. i cant let either one of them no how i feel becuz shell get hurt. help (link)
Well...thats always rough...same sort of thing has happened to me before...its great he likes you but you dont want to hurt her...well what i did was tell my friend that liked the guy that i sort of liked him...but if it bothers her if you date him just tell her her friendships important to you and you dont want to hurt her!

it worked for me best of luck
--xOxO--


OKay, my best friend has a brother which I think is hot but he has a girlfriend with 2 babies. When she went away for 2 months he would always flirt with me and touch me, I liked it so I flirt with him back.He always smacks my butt and always wants a hug from me. When she came back he wouldn't do it in front of her but behind her back. I feel wrong and weird being around her and him when I think he likes me too. And I'm 15 and he's 22. Do you think this is wrong or something?? I don't know what to do!! (link)
gincolck


my mom recently found out ive been cutting myself so now she questions it all the time and along with alot of other people do! i just want them to back off, its kind of a personal problem. what should i do? pleez help n' thanks. (link)
Well, I've had diffuculties with the same thing, so I know where you're coming from. The first thing is, you really ought to stop cutting yourself. Yeah, okay, your life sucks, but try talking to your parents instead of telling them to back off. If you get aggressive, your parents will just dish it right back out to you and probably get even more protective. I know it seems annoying, but it will make you seem more mature if you're willing to sit down and talk instead of just sulk. Hopefully that will put to rest some of your mom's worries and you can get on with your life.




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