Question Posted Wednesday September 22 2004, 9:19 pm
ok i hav this friend chris who is one of my best friends and now i like him more than that. he wrote me a note and said he liked me too...the prob is my friend brit has really liked him for lik..literlly 3 yrs. i cant let either one of them no how i feel becuz shell get hurt. help
Kcanhelpu answered Wednesday September 22 2004, 10:28 pm: Ok look you have a chance you either chose you friend or you get a boyfriend who won't always be there. Your friend will always be there for you threw thick and thin and you will have many boyfriends trust me you will so if I where you I whouldn't even go for him. You may need someone to be there for you and your best friend will not the boy and pluse she liked him for three years not to be mean but its happend to me. Your friend will be there and there are lots of other boys.
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s0ur_lem0n answered Wednesday September 22 2004, 9:55 pm: go out with Chris before he finds anotha gerl. And explain it to your friend. If she doesnt like that then still go out with him. friends are supposed to want you happy. hopefully she`ll understad. just if u do on dates invite her to some..
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hotcherry answered Wednesday September 22 2004, 9:42 pm: AH!!! I hate that. Does she still like him? If she does, I would have Chris tell her that he likes YOU. Then, she will most likely come to you...and let her know that if she is mad about it, then you will just let it be. A guy isnt worth the risk of losing a friendship! If she doesn't like him anymore, then talk to her about it! =) There's plenty of guys, but a few good friends!
Goodluck!!
orphans answered Wednesday September 22 2004, 9:31 pm: Well...thats always rough...same sort of thing has happened to me before...its great he likes you but you dont want to hurt her...well what i did was tell my friend that liked the guy that i sort of liked him...but if it bothers her if you date him just tell her her friendships important to you and you dont want to hurt her!
LuCiouzbabii answered Wednesday September 22 2004, 9:30 pm: well talk ta her about it nd tell her that u like him alot nd he likes u and u wood like ta trii somthin wit him and stuff nd if she gets upset its not worth losing ur best friend over [ LuCiouzbabii's advice column | Ask LuCiouzbabii A Question ]
sMiLiNALl4U answered Wednesday September 22 2004, 9:30 pm: well if he likes you and not her ask/tell her if its okay and that you like him and he likes you..tell her you wanna go with him and your sorry but you cant stop your feelings [ sMiLiNALl4U's advice column | Ask sMiLiNALl4U A Question ]
AdviceMistress answered Wednesday September 22 2004, 9:30 pm: well if u love him and he loves you then go for it!! but you should tell your friend first ..but on the other hand fighting over a boy is not worth loosing a relationship ...which ever you feel comfortable ...would you rather lose a friend and gain a boyfriend or would u rather not have a boyfriend and keep ur friend!!
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